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Angelic

@Angelic_A

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Posted: 15 years ago

It seems like Suhana's character is between confused vs ignorant. I mean like we all know she seems to ignore her mistakes and then is simply confused on what is going on, around her?

No one would be that naive to not understand why someone is upset with them.

First she lives in Ishaan's house and calls herself his "offical wife" yet totally doesn't understand the duties of a wife. She does no house work.. we only see Disha and Rajini do all the work. As a daughter in law of the house.. its her responsibility to help out.

Isn't she ignoring the duties of a wife even though Ishaan and her share no relationship?

And second she is trying to prove herself that she is "marriage material"... basically she is using Ishaan to prove herself. On the second hand she says "she will have to live in this house forever..?" and "she can't leave this house as she believes that she will have to stick with this relationship forever now". Here she seems to be confused on what exactally she want.

Comments..?

Edited by *Aman_I* - 15 years ago

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Manasi

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Posted: 15 years ago

Nice post Aman👏👏👏👏 Will come abck with my comments!!!

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Shwetha

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Posted: 15 years ago

nice post aman..i just feel she is yet to discover what relationships are...she lost her mother and that means she has not seen her mother in a wife's role...i think its the mother who teach the girl child her responsibilities as a wife when she gets married...so suhaana does not have that...

next...i think suhaana thinks being a wife is just to live with husband a family...i think after alok said that a wife has relation not only with husband but with the family...and she is slowly discovering that...

just think..suhaana was shouting for privacy but now she want people with her...she wants to chat with them...i think she is confused abt realtions...yes...suhaana is slowly understanding...

but she being a tubelight....she is very vrey slow....

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111192

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shwetha.spring
nice post aman..i just feel she is yet to discover what relationships are...she lost her mother and that means she has not seen her mother in a wife's role...i think its the mother who teach the girl child her responsibilities as a wife when she gets married...so suhaana does not have that...

next...i think suhaana thinks being a wife is just to live with husband a family...i think after alok said that a wife has relation not only with husband but with the family...and she is slowly discovering that...

just think..suhaana was shouting for privacy but now she want people with her...she wants to chat with them...i think she is confused abt realtions...yes...suhaana is slowly understanding...

but she being a tubelight....she is very vrey slow....

very well explained why she does not understands duties of a wife as she has not seen how a wife behaves with her husband.

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Sheema

@infinity00

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Posted: 15 years ago

@ Shewta she lost her mother and that means she has not seen her mother in a wife's role...i think its the mother who teach the girl child her responsibilities as a wife when she gets married...so suhaana does not have that...

I agree with , also she has never been around extended family, they didnt show any reference to her grandparents, Aunty Uncle etc. she only had her dad and sister, and company of wierd friends who themselves are very materialistic and very westernised where extended families are only be seen on weddings or funerals.

She is slow to understand when it comes to relationships, she doesnot know her self what she wants ( As Ishaan put her on the spotlight) when Bhabis were eating breakfast she said that in her home she use to skip breakfast as no body was around at that time and she likes eating it now with all of them, So a big change , and remember its not that long that she is married, some people dont participate in house chores until some times, she is learning yes, but one very important thing , the Kyshap family KNEW that she is from a RICH family, so they shouldnt and I think they are not EXPECTING her to do a lot in the begining, she is like a blank black board,for relationships, what ever Badi Maa , Ishan and and the family would write on it will there for a longer time, slow and steady wins the race. I think in almost every post it is mentioned that she is confused, thick irresponsible etc. etc she is bit of everything and thats what makes her character so interesting and her evolution would be sweetly very long KAUN JEETA HAI TERI ZULF KAI SAR HONAI TAK

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gunjabhy

@gunjabhy

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Posted: 15 years ago

I would like 2 say something. I agree with every thing thats been said here and i love 2day's epi n suhana 2. But when she was crying n talking with her mom's photo, she is still saying,

They r not MY type. Me kitna ADJEST(???????????) karu? Koi mujhe samajne ki try hi nahi karta. They r different. Me in logo jaisi nahi hu. Me kitni bhi koshish karu, i wont fit. It is still I and me and me and me................

I think she should start thinking abt family members rather than just herself......

For the house hold work, she watches every girl in the house doing their part for the house. She can start learning there............

Edited by gunjabhy - 15 years ago

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Soma

@.FunLuvingGirl.

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Posted: 15 years ago

I think she herself does not comes to know that she has done some mistake..she does the work without thinking for a sec whatever comes into her mind she does not think about the outcomes and there she goes into trouble..BIG trouble..so she needs to think first..

secondly, she is so afraid of doing all the household chores..she tries to avoid them as much as she can..remember the case when she thinks abt jaadu pocha kapre dhona she choses the easiest work roti banana which was nt easy but acc. to her it was..so she should atleast try to do work thn only she would able to do this {there is first attempt for everything}

third, she takes ishaan for granted..whenever she feels lonely she says "mere paas baith jao" nd when she dont need him thn chale jao plz plz mujhe nahi sunna ..I mean this is nt happening

Actually she is good by heart but she still needs to improve a lot she needs to leave this moody behavior of her..she need to b more mature and more responsible..she needs to control on her anger..she needs to understand everyone rather adjusting..

What say guys??

luv,
Soma

Edited by .FunLuvingGirl. - 15 years ago

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Angelic

@Angelic_A

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: shwetha.spring
nice post aman..i just feel she is yet to discover what relationships are...she lost her mother and that means she has not seen her mother in a wife's role...i think its the mother who teach the girl child her responsibilities as a wife when she gets married...so suhaana does not have that...

next...i think suhaana thinks being a wife is just to live with husband a family...i think after alok said that a wife has relation not only with husband but with the family...and she is slowly discovering that...

just think..suhaana was shouting for privacy but now she want people with her...she wants to chat with them...i think she is confused abt realtions...yes...suhaana is slowly understanding...

but she being a tubelight....she is very vrey slow....

Did we ever find out how old she was when her mother passed away??

I agree with you on this one as she didn't have her mother on the side to guide her

Thats true that she finally is undrstanding the word "family". But what about responsibilities? Though she calls her self Ishaan's "Offical Wife" she has never actaully taken up any responsibility as a wife. And on the second hand she is trying to prove herself that she is "marriage material".

We do see change in her behavior so we can notice that she is changing but hopfully its soon enough.

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Angelic

@Angelic_A

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: .FunLuvingGirl.
I think she herself does not comes to know that she has done some mistake..she does the work without thinking for a sec whatever comes into her mind she does not think about the outcomes and there she goes into trouble..BIG trouble..so she needs to think first..

secondly, she is so afraid of doing all the household chores..she tries to avoid them as much as she can..remember the case when she thinks abt jaadu pocha kapre dhona she choses the easiest work roti banana which was nt easy but acc. to her it was..so she should atleast try to do work thn only she would able to do this {there is first attempt for everything}

third, she takes ishaan for granted..whenever she feels lonely she says "mere paas baith jao" nd when she dont need him thn chale jao plz plz mujhe nahi sunna ..I mean this is nt happening

Actually she is good by heart but she still needs to improve a lot she needs to leave this moody behavior of her..she need to b more mature and more responsible..she needs to control on her anger..she needs to understand everyone rather adjusting..

What say guys??

luv,
Soma

She blames her dad for choosing Ishaan for her.. But why is she ignoring her mistake?

She simply married the guy her dad picked without even looking at the groom's photo. And she says that her dad ruined her life. 😕

I agree she did try to help out when she asked Meena to go home and rest.. but its weird how we don't see meena around as much how. We only see Rajini and Disha in the kitchen.

And Ishaan is def. taken for granted.. I mean she doesn't even want to hear how his day went in the office. while on the other side expects Ishaan to support her as she needs to stay in the house.. and as she believes that she will have to stick with this relationship. As she is his "offical wife". 😆

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Ambrosia

@Ambrosia

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Posted: 15 years ago

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She is not being ignorant, she just doesn't know that she did something wrong. I am sure if she knew what she did wrong she would have apologized to both of them straight away. I remember when she insulted Elesh in front of Disha, she didn't even realize that she was hurting Disha but later when Ishaan explained everything she realized she was wrong.

Someone had to let her know that after she left for disco what her bhabis had to face. She doesn't even know that a drunken guy was bothering them or they didn't have enough money to pay for the food or that they had to face major embarrassment. All she knows is she got late at the disco and by the time she returned both Disha and Rajni were standing on the street waiting for her. I just think before punishing Suhana they should have at least told her where she went wrong! Poor thing doesn't even know why her bhabis are being so rude.

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