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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

She is not being ignorant, she just doesn't know that she did something wrong. I am sure if she knew what she did wrong she would have apologized to both of them straight away. I remember when she insulted Elesh in front of Disha, she didn't even realize that she was hurting Disha but later when Ishaan explained everything she realized she was wrong.

Someone had to let her know that after she left for disco what her bhabis had to face. She doesn't even know that a drunken guy was bothering them or they didn't have enough money to pay for the food or that they had to face major embarrassment. All she knows is she got late at the disco and by the time she returned both Disha and Rajni were standing on the street waiting for her. I just think before punishing Suhana they should have at least told her where she went wrong! Poor thing doesn't even know why her bhabis are being so rude.



yeah know that Bhabhis are doing a big mistake ignoring her this is nt the way to treat nyone they should tell her that we are really angry wid you for this this reason..but still suhana has to think about whatever she does before doing nything
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ambrosia

She is not being ignorant, she just doesn't know that she did something wrong. I am sure if she knew what she did wrong she would have apologized to both of them straight away. I remember when she insulted Elesh in front of Disha, she didn't even realize that she was hurting Disha but later when Ishaan explained everything she realized she was wrong.

Someone had to let her know that after she left for disco what her bhabis had to face. She doesn't even know that a drunken guy was bothering them or they didn't have enough money to pay for the food or that they had to face major embarrassment. All she knows is she got late at the disco and by the time she returned both Disha and Rajni were standing on the street waiting for her. I just think before punishing Suhana they should have at least told her where she went wrong! Poor thing doesn't even know why her bhabis are being so rude.

I agree with you as well.. But I am not sure why the bhabis decided to play this ignoring game with Suhana. I know they want to teach her a lesson and show her how much it hurts when someone missbehaves but it would have been better to talk about straight up. I mean she still doesn't realize why they are mad. And if they doen't tell her then I am sure she will never figure it out. 😆😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think the confusion is coz.. Suhana's character was supposed to b tht of a spoilt gal bt with a golden heart bt naive n overprotected child...

she takes things 4 granted as she did it in her own house with her close relations there.. bt here.. she needs to understand others.. and give thm their due importance.. till then she deserves wat she gets..

shud b mature enuf to seek at least some advice from badi ma regarding her being a castout by Rajni-Disha..

I thot she got it wen she told Ishan tht she hopes tht nite's hungama wont create tensions.. she ought to have made out somethins wrong after sudden chng in Disha-Rajni's behaviour after tht nite.. at least approached Rajni-Disha and asked them abt her mistake..
Edited by achiever - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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suhana is a very complex character in sum ways and incredibly simple in sum..she dsnt hold grudges for long (except her dad i guess) and so dsnt expect others to do the same either..i thnk tht is one of the reasons she dsnt understand y bhabhis are angry..secondly,suhana being suhana has NO idea what must have happened to R and D tht nite..which frankly is kinda stupid for normal people bt not her..complex in the sense tht her ideas of marriage and marriage material are totally wierd..to her thinking,living in the kashyap house is proving tht she is fit to get married to..house work ka concept for sum reason she dsnt get..which again is dumb coz she sees the other women working bt she dsnt..bt the people of the house dnt hold it against her coz they understand how she has been brought up..and i do think tht she has adjusted quite a lot to the kashyaps..the first culture shock she got when she came into the house has now become this familiarity for her..she does think abt others and accepts tht they are nice..bt she ends up doing childish things..

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Like someone else said earlier on...how can someone be so Naive? I agree but It's not even naiviety...it's downright childishness, but even children can see someone is upset with them.

I dont understand how Suhana and Her sister could possibly be brought in the same house, by the same man. Yeh, yeh...people are different, but there is a serious character fault when writing for Suhana...like the poster said...she is a confused character which the writers explain away by saying she's ignorant of her mistake...LAZY writing.

They need to sort out WHAT exactly Suhana is and where they plan on taking her because she is seriously trying my patience. lol......doesn't matter where you're from...surely you know the social etiquette...ESPECIALLY if she's so rich, posh, been around etc etc etc
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: LabRat34

Like someone else said earlier on...how can someone be so Naive? I agree but It's not even naiviety...it's downright childishness, but even children can see someone is upset with them.

I dont understand how Suhana and Her sister could possibly be brought in the same house, by the same man. Yeh, yeh...people are different, but there is a serious character fault when writing for Suhana...like the poster said...she is a confused character which the writers explain away by saying she's ignorant of her mistake...LAZY writing.

They need to sort out WHAT exactly Suhana is and where they plan on taking her because she is seriously trying my patience. lol......doesn't matter where you're from...surely you know the social etiquette...ESPECIALLY if she's so rich, posh, been around etc etc etc



I disagree....it's not lazy writing....Suhana's character has to be followed very closely to understand her....I believe the poster above....'anu rulz' put it best...she's a very complex character in some ways and very simple in others....just cuz she doesn't fit into any standard mould or comes under any standard label does not make this is a case of lazy writing....it means that the character has to be more closely watched to understand her various eccentricities and not judge her so easily for all of them......there are many other sides to her. Suhana marches to the tune of her own drums....she's one of a kind....TRULY one of a kind.....and as for 'social ettiquette'....Suhana has always been eccentric...this has nothing to do with whether she's rich or not....she's an inherently eccentric person with mercurial mood swings....even in her own social circles, ppl thought she's mad in many ways....her family humored her tantrums in many ways so that's spoilt her more....but she's always been a brat.
Edited by nureat01 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with anu rulz and Anu (nureat01).

I guess maybe Suhana is a little confused regarding what she wants etc. but this whole show is about her JOURNEY. I think that's what people need to understand about her character. It's CONSTANTLY changing and growing! She's unpredictable, has multiple mood swings, maybe confused, in her own world, etc. etc. but the point is that her character is always developing with each moment in her life. And with each interaction she shares with all of the family members.

All of the family members have something to give to Suhana. Some experience or teach or something, with which Suhana's character grows for the better. And in return Suhana too has something to offer to all of the family members.

So you can't really DESCRIBE Suhana as such because her character is NEVER constant. With each episode, we discover a new side to her, she grows and her character as a whole develops further.

I don't know...that's how I interpret it I guess and it makes for really great viewing. It's fun to see how Suhana's character is changing and her journey.

And like Anu said, her character needs to be followed very closely to be related to or understood. I think the thing is, that she's not a STANDARD character in any way. She can't be defined, which is what I LOVE and appreciate about this character/show SO much!

Normally, in other tv shows, you can easily describe a character in one way or another. A spoiled brat, a mahaan bahu, an evil vamp, a bubbly charekterrr, a geeky types...etc. etc. the list goes on. I mean we basically get the same old recycled characters in almost all tv shows. So it's very easy to define them.

But with Suhana, it's not so easy. She has many layers to her. She invokes SO many emotions out of us. I mean one minute she annoys the heck out of us, the next she makes us smile, cry, makes us warm up to her adorableness, makes us sympathize with her, angry at her antics, shake our heads hopelessly at her,....LOL you get the drift right? It is for all these emotions that makes Suhana SO different and such an AMAZINGLY refreshing character!

And it's not like the show doesn't justify whatever Suhana does. So I def. don't blame the writers for her character sketch at all. We've seen her be lonely and miss her mom, we've seen WHY she's behaved the way she did with Rajni and Disha, we've seen WHY she ran off leaving Ishaan with his khatara scooter (LOLLL), you know? It's all been shown and justified so it makes sense.

I guess there's many ways to interpret Suhana's character since there's SO much to her. But I think it's more about how her character GROWS that we need to look for, rather than how she behaves at ONE point of time, you know what I mean?

I mean come on, this girl who in the beginning hated the fact that she had to come live with such a large family is now craving to talk/ be with family members!! She HERSELF wants to spend time with her family members. She's warming up to them on her own, she's making the effort!!! I think that counts for SO much! I think it's these little changes in Suhana that count for SO much more than her randomness, mistakes and crazy momentary antics. Suhana is someone who needs to be understood for what she is deep inside: CRAVED for love and understanding. Deep down, she's really VERY simple, it's only outside she appears so complicated and confused with her mood swings and random antics. 😆

Just my two cents. :)

Also wanted to add, (as if this post isn't long enough already 😳), that I think you're right that Suhana IS confused! She herself is battling with herself with all these inner conflicting emotions and values. And I think that scene with Ishaan of hers previously where Ishaan tells her that she herself doesn't know what she wants is SO SO significant. It kind of provides insight to us about Suhana as well as TO Suhana herself. It allows her to reflect back on herself too. She's been brought up a certain way, lived a certain way of life and all her life she's been SURE of what she wants. And whatever she's wanted, she's got right away. But now, she's in different atmosphere, with SO many changes happening that she herself is confused. She's battling with herself regarding her previous state of mind regarding Sid, money, car, fancy things etc. AND warming up to the family members. So that's why all these conflicting emotions are coming out of her. She's as confused with herself as we are with her! 😆 So I think the creatives are handling her character very intelligently when the audience is in the exact state of mind as the character herself no? ;)
Edited by cute2stay - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: shwetha.spring

nice post aman..i just feel she is yet to discover what relationships are...she lost her mother and that means she has not seen her mother in a wife's role...i think its the mother who teach the girl child her responsibilities as a wife when she gets married...so suhaana does not have that...

next...i think suhaana thinks being a wife is just to live with husband a family...i think after alok said that a wife has relation not only with husband but with the family...and she is slowly discovering that...
just think..suhaana was shouting for privacy but now she want people with her...she wants to chat with them...i think she is confused abt realtions...yes...suhaana is slowly understanding...
but she being a tubelight....she is very vrey slow....



Completely agree....welll explained..............a gal without her mother's guidance is like a Flower without her charm....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *Aman_I*

It seems like Suhana's character is between confusedvs ignorant. I mean like we all know she seems to ignore her mistakes and thenis simply confused on what is going on, around her?

No one would be that naive to not understand why someone is upset with them.


First she lives in Ishaan's house and calls herself his "offical wife" yet totally doesn't understand the duties of a wife. She does no house work.. we only see Disha and Rajini do all the work. As a daughter in law of the house..its her responsibility to help out.


Isn't she ignoring the duties of a wife even though Ishaan and her share no relationship?


And second she is trying to prove herself that she is "marriage material"... basically she is using Ishaan to prove herself. On the second hand she says "she will have to live in this house forever..?" and "she can't leave this house as she believes that she will have to stick with this relationship forever now". Here she seems to be confused on what exactally she want.


Comments..?





even i'm confused coz she calls herself "suhana vajpayee" and acc. to ishaan, she can leave the house anytime whenever she wishes...then she calls herself his official wife...so where does this relationship stand ? 😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anu rulz

suhana is a very complex character in sum ways and incredibly simple in sum..she dsnt hold grudges for long (except her dad i guess) and so dsnt expect others to do the same either..i thnk tht is one of the reasons she dsnt understand y bhabhis are angry..secondly,suhana being suhana has NO idea what must have happened to R and D tht nite..which frankly is kinda stupid for normal people bt not her..complex in the sense tht her ideas of marriage and marriage material are totally wierd..to her thinking,living in the kashyap house is proving tht she is fit to get married to..house work ka concept for sum reason she dsnt get..which again is dumb coz she sees the other women working bt she dsnt..bt the people of the house dnt hold it against her coz they understand how she has been brought up..and i do think tht she has adjusted quite a lot to the kashyaps..the first culture shock she got when she came into the house has now become this familiarity for her..she does think abt others and accepts tht they are nice..bt she ends up doing childish things..



well written..but what I think that the family members should not think so much about Suhana..like they should tell her to do some household work nd let her do herself and tell her that whenever she needs help she should call them nd they should keep a sight on her side by side nd when ever she does some mistake they should tell her that this is the mistake nd you should b careful nxt time..thn only she will feel better there..more interaction will make her more comfortable..actually she has been there at her home all her life alone alone so she enjoys spending time alone..so she has nt spend lot of time with too many ppl in house..so it will take time..nd I think she is improving now she dun mind to b involved in family gossips nw..nd nw when she is improving, thn the bhabhis are nw doing all the wrong works nw if they do like that what ever change came into suhana now will all go away nd it will b again difficult for her to live in there..so Bhabis should b frnds again wid suhana..nd all the family member should not joke like that "the ishaan- khatara scooter nd all that too infront of suhana waise toh chalta hain but they know na very well that suhana gets angry very fast so they should nt have done that..
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