My take on today's epi:not at all hppy wth Suhaana - Page 4

Originally posted by: rdfan

oh did she ...havent seen the epi ...but why cudnt she tell Meena herself ??? why radha bua???

Cuz Radha Bua herself told her when she first walked in there to go upstairs to her friends who are sitting there alone and they'll take care of everything else....but then later on, everyone was upset after what Suhana said about having ordered the food from outside and never having asked everyone to cook the food....so everyone was kinda quiet for a bit in the end and that's when Suhana (clueless as ever) turned to Radha Bua and asked her if she could tell Meena to send the drinks upstairs....and then she turned back one more time before leaving to ask her to make sure the drinks are DIET cold drinks😆

Originally posted by: nureat01

Cuz Radha Bua herself told her when she first walked in there to go upstairs to her friends who are sitting there alone and they'll take care of everything else....but then later on, everyone was upset after what Suhana said about having ordered the food from outside and never having asked everyone to cook the food....so everyone was kinda quiet for a bit in the end and that's when Suhana (clueless as ever) turned to Radha Bua and asked her if she could tell Meena to send the drinks upstairs....and then she turned back one more time before leaving to ask her to make sure the drinks are DIET cold drinks😆

Thats why i find Suhana totally weird ............one day she'll display sense and tell Ishaan radha bua isnt a maid ...and one day she'll go arnd treating people the way she feels without seeing what position they hold in the house ........ one day she can feel badi ma's pain ..then the other completely clueless as to how rajni and disha are feeling......

Originally posted by: rdfan

Thats why i find Suhana totally weird ............one day she'll display sense and tell Ishaan radha bua isnt a maid ...and one day she'll go arnd treating people the way she feels without seeing what position they hold in the house ........ one day she can feel badi ma's pain ..then the other completely clueless as to how rajni and disha are feeling......

Suhana's psyche is indeed quite difficult to understand.....but honestly going by her character sketch so far, I could still understand why she didn't realize that asking Radha Bua to do that didn't sound right....in her mind, she was just asking for some refreshments to be sent for her friends cuz she had already been told by Radha Bua to go upstairs to her friends.....what bothered me more was her total lack of sensitivity and reaction after seeing how much effort everyone had put it into making the food....the fact that she didn't even bother thanking them annoyed me more.

Suhana is a veryyyyy pampered and spoilt brat....I guess she's used to ppl doing things for her like this....like even now, everyone in the family DOES pamper her with her, 'bring me juice and coffee together in the morning' funda😆😆....so it's going to take some time for her to get out of this mindset and learn to be more considerate.

*Edit: Oh and I kinda do understand how she can feel Badi Maa's pain and not understand Disha-Rajni's feelings....with Badi Maa, Suhana has always had a deeper connect....and in recent times, it's become even deeper....she somehow connects with Badi Maa's pain and loneliness and also the way Badi maa explains things to her....she listens....ofcourse Badi Maa hain hi aisi....who wouldn't love her.

But the other ppl in the family so far....Suhana is still not so attuned to their emotions...I guess it will take time....Suhana is quite eccentric and mule-headed in many ways....a mental sort of character as Ragini herself has said😆😆

^^ Agree ...also for someone who gets hurt easily and on the smallest of things ...shudnt she realise that the same can be the case with others ......when u are so sensitive for yrself ...how can u be insensitive to others ....

Originally posted by: rdfan

^^ Agree ...also for someone who gets hurt easily and on the smallest of things ...shudnt she realise that the same can be the case with others ......when u are so sensitive for yrself ...how can u be insensitive to others ....

Ne ways this is nothing ....cause bigger things are abt to happen ......till then .Adjustment can wait

I think Suhana is still very childish in her thinking that way, that is why she doesn't realize.....but in some ways, that is what makes her an intriguing character.....she can annoy us so much one day and the very next day make us go 'awww' with something endearing like that scene with Badi Maa.

Ahh so bigger things are about to happen?? Matlab the situation is going to get even more worse than this?? *sigh*😆

^^ yeah ..this is just minor stuff .........bigger things are abt to happen in the near future

Originally posted by: rdfan

^^ yeah ..this is just minor stuff .........bigger things are abt to happen in the near future

LOL ok....will wait and watch then.....so you're one of those ppl who've seen the Bengali version, right?? Are we going to get a light hearted Ishaan-Suhana this week later on?

Is it not enough that a character like Suhana is trying to make some adjustments and living with Ishaan's family in Chawri bazaar, no complaints or whining whatsoever ? lol Yes they all are very loving and caring but this was not Suhana's choice. She didn't fall in love with Ishaan and married him. I think it would be difficult for anyone(even a middle class girl) who is not used to living in joint family on a small budget.
Her main goal is to prove to Sid that she is a marriage material. She is not connected with any family member except BadiMa who is like a mother to her. Ishaan is nice to her and she knows this but he has no X factor and all for her to fall in love with him. She has to get over Sid and understand the real meaning of happiness that comes from real love and family bonding. If she changes for better too fast then there is nothing left in the storyline. It would become any other typical show. At-least she is not throwing any tantrums or insulting anyone intentionally.
Her only fault was that she didn't even thank Disha and Rajini for their efforts. That was insensitive on her part. Even Rajni and Disha didn't ask her what her friends would like to eat for dinner.