Partiallity to Suhana

I think it was wrong of rano to ask for ac in suhana's room. although i know she was feeling sorry for her, but this decision is going to cause a lot of problems. I know that if i was in rajni or disha's place i would be very upset too. Why the special treatment to one lady of the house and not to all. This is what badi ma was afraid of and it was an unfair decision by the elders for others. it would have been different if Ishaan had paid for the AC with his money. but if the elders were paying, they should have treated all childeren of the house similarly.

Jiya...😛..... I was exactly thinking on the same lines....but glad Rano understood the seriousness of the situation.....

I found Elesh very understanding and humble today....though he was sailing in the same boat....he did not bother to give much importance to the entire issue....👍🏼.

Now Badi maa has to make Rajni and Disha understand why she had to give in to Rano's request and if the reason told and the situation put forth in front of them this way..... I am sure they will understand....😛

If not , the situation might worsen up in their minds..👎🏼..

Well, the decision might have been unfair but it was taken in the context that BM and Radha know the truth of the marriage and they want the marriage to survive at any cost. Ishaan is the blue eyed boy loved by everyone and all this was done to make sure Suhana is comfortable and she does not leave n go away . So in the light of that situation, the decision was correct....the idea is to make her comfortable in this house. Both Radha and BM don't want Ishaan to go away either. Also, what happened after AC came was silly too...I mean the whole family sitting in that room is too much. Disha and Rajni have been married for a long time n understand the home dynamics very well. But not Suhana. As it is she feels suffocated by having a crowd around her all the time. Ishika using Suhaana's stiff without asking her is again not acceptable.

Originally posted by: Anshu_A

Well, the decision might have been unfair but it was taken in the context that BM and Radha know the truth of the marriage and they want the marriage to survive at any cost. Ishaan is the blue eyed boy loved by everyone and all this was done to make sure Suhana is comfortable and she does not leave n go away . So in the light of that situation, the decision was correct....the idea is to make her comfortable in this house. Both Radha and BM don't want Ishaan to go away either. Also, what happened after AC came was silly too...I mean the whole family sitting in that room is too much. Disha and Rajni have been married for a long time n understand the home dynamics very well. But not Suhana. As it is she feels suffocated by having a crowd around her all the time. Ishika using Suhaana's stiff without asking her is again not acceptable.

In nutshell, the family lives together happily but they need to learn to respect other person's privacy too.

It is being taken for granted that SUhana understands how things work in this house....so it's not just her but the rest of the family need to learn a few things as well....it takes a lot of effort to keep the family together. Out here it's Badi Ma who is that source and since she knows the truth, she will find ways to control Suhana and the rest of the family...esp the other bahus. I am sure Ishaan and Inder can afford an AC but probably never given these things much thought. With Suhana in Ishaan's life, things will change for sure.....

But I am happy how the show is focussing on small things instead of over the top narrative...

The elders of the family are walking a tight-rope and trying to deal with this renegade called Suhana!!!

I think putting A/C in Sushaan room was not a bad thing in itself. What the family should have done was before putting the AC in the newly weds room, explain to each sub-unit that its not because there is anything against them but because Suhana has been raised in comforts and luxury and may take more time to adjust.

I think Badi Ma shooing them away unceremoniously caused more damage than Suhana's reaction. Badi ma should have called Rajni aside and told her that everyone congregating in Suhana's room will create discomfort for Suhana, so for a few days not to barge in but allow the new bride some space to breath.

I think the elders in this joint family will have a tough time balancing this act for a while. They got a girl for Ishaan who is much much much above their station in life. They should have anticipated these issues. And that my friend is the heart and soul of SGP story, the conflict that will define the sub-plots in the serial for a long time to come. :-)

first of all it was truly unfair to have AC only in Suhana's room and not for other bahu's. But Badi ma and Radha bua agreed to it because they wants to see Suhana being happy and comfortable in the house. Today i think both Suhana and Rajni Disha were right if u see it from their own perspective view.. anyone in Suhana's place would be mad because after days she was finally trying to relax in the house when they all got in.. so it would be irritating for anyone. Blaming Suhana alone is not right.. Then if u see from Rajni and Disha's view it was completely right to get upset...but still i think rajni and disha could have been more supportive in case of understanding Suhana and her lifestyle.

One plus point about suhaana in today's episode was that she did'nt complaint to BM about anyone and was even reluctant that BM should say anything to members in the room.

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

The elders of the family are walking a tight-rope and trying to deal with this renegade called Suhana!!!

I think putting A/C in Sushaan room was not a bad thing in itself. What the family should have done was before putting the AC in the newly weds room, explain to each sub-unit that its not because there is anything against them but because Suhana has been raised in comforts and luxury and may take more time to adjust.

I think Badi Ma shooing them away unceremoniously caused more damage than Suhana's reaction. Badi ma should have called Rajni aside and told her that everyone congregating in Suhana's room will create discomfort for Suhana, so for a few days not to barge in but allow the new bride some space to breath.

I think the elders in this joint family will have a tough time balancing this act for a while. They got a girl for Ishaan who is much much much above their station in life. They should have anticipated these issues. And that my friend is the heart and soul of SGP story, the conflict that will define the sub-plots in the serial for a long time to come. :-)

i think today situation got worse because BM did'nt handle it properly ,situation could have easily handle in manner stated above in bold.

I haven't seen today's episode so no clue how the actual scene played out. But getting an AC for Suhana is not a bad decision. There is noise about it becoz it's a joint set up and a certain section of the family can afford it while the other cannot. Alok n his family are doing well for themselves and so is Inder. It's Elesh who doesn't work but then everyone chips in the family so obviously money is distributed. When a new person comes in the family, there is a change and it takes time for everyone to understand each other and learn to co-exist. Matters handled delicately get resolved without any problem. Rano doesn't know the truth but she felt for Suhana and what she said was not wrong.....when they have got a girl from a richer family they have to take care of some of her needs if not all....Suhana is adjusting too. Didn't she come in the auto??? She is not used to living in such a big set up....she is using the common washroom etc etc . Anyway AC is a necessity now...not a luxury and is not expensive either....