Shadi ke side effects - Page 4

Originally posted by: Arshics

You are awesome, excellent questions, esp why is she never nice to him?

Why this akhdoo attitude always? Even now, I thought she will finally stop torturing him and pamper him a little

And then jale pe namak was her calling him methi ka laddoo

Poor guy was being so sweet and indulgent

She was the kadwa karela as always

My biggest crib is that we see Kumud in only two states

She gets into trouble and calls out to him

Mangalsutra ki kasam

Can't live without my husband

Come and save me etc etc

When things are fine

She is all cold shouldering him

Ignoring him, showing attitude

There is never any warmth in non crisis situations!

Originally posted by: Gul.S_Ef

Twila kahan hain app... 😊

missed u so much 🤗

uff kya kahain kya karain,dil bhut dukhta hai laddoo ki aisi halat pur 😭

Arshi you have wrapped up this marriage issue so well. Tell you the truth, Kumuds behaviour is really saistic. To me this is not love but sadistic pleasure that she is feeling. What will be her next nakhree, She bores me with her tezz dhaar etc. As for Saras high time he left her to her devices and she would realise his worth, But then Kumud being Kumud will always be right in her thoughts.

lol but i like it anyways

Originally posted by: Arshics

You are awesome, excellent questions, esp why is she never nice to him?

Why this akhdoo attitude always? Even now, I thought she will finally stop torturing him and pamper him a little

And then jale pe namak was her calling him methi ka laddoo

Poor guy was being so sweet and indulgent

She was the kadwa karela as always

My biggest crib is that we see Kumud in only two states

She gets into trouble and calls out to him

Mangalsutra ki kasam

Can't live without my husband

Come and save me etc etc

When things are fine

She is all cold shouldering him

Ignoring him, showing attitude

There is never any warmth in non crisis situations!

Just can't agree more..

Now Kumud is really getting on to my nerves.. Urgh! 😡

@BOLD - Yes Arshi ji.. well said.. we do really find only 2 states.. ironically.. both are worst! I mean that is like using the person for her needs.. Go at him when in any need.. Just dont give any damn when not needed??? 😳 Kumud, really??

Hi Arshiji,

First and foremost the excessive and recurrent usage of BDs of lead characters remain an 'eyesore'(makes for unappealing and unpleasant viewing - today almost the whole episode). Today it was a combination of worthless first half and a cute and enjoyable second half. It is understandable that 'filling-up' is unavoidable in daily soaps but at the same time it should be well made with fun, entertaining or engaging stuff and serve as a welcome break in-between tracks. But writers are not effectively using the time-pass techniques and constantly come up with senseless and irrelevant things. I was taken aback by saras's sudden transformation as a hindi film hero (that too old style) and saras enticing kumud and kumud sulking were shown in the true filmi style. The complete reverse of saras original character was inappropriate and unconnected. The next moment he was back to his true self. Another inapt scene is just to while away the time family indulged in kabir's marriage talks, everyone trying to impose their opinions on him. How thoughtless and inconsiderate these people are of kabir's state of mind, his wishes and priorities. Writers' negligence about this age controversy is very unfortunate. The damage is already done and let all of us leave it at that. Instead they still continue to write scenes bringing it to light again. Such insensitivity, haste and excitement from family members is silly and uncalled-for. As such kabir is confined to his shell still brooding over the past and doesn't mingle with them. No one including saras cares to help him either. Cvs can actually show a heart to heart conversation involving LN and kabir (touching, well written with poignant dialogues) as an alternative to such mindless filler scenes. The last part of the episode was too good to make any complaints. Beware of danny and Kusum. The couple are slowly stealing the limelight from samud and danny can snatch the romantic-lover boy tag from saras at any moment and Kusum is sweetness-personified nowadays. Saras was as usual very adorable in the kitchen scene(though his actions overdone) and kumud's stubbornness has changed to teasing attitude today. Kumud's antics and pranks and saras's tantrums(adorable in every form) in the bedroom scene were really delightful. I hope when they live in Mumbai as nuclear family we do get more romantic and light-hearted samud moments and back home dansum moments too so that we can overlook all the flaws, shortcomings, inconsistencies in the script (hoping to be minor) as always.

My take:

Originally posted by: truptishree

Hi Arshiji,

Wow you really got true picture of marriage.

It does happens in real life but let's face it this Kumud is too much.

Today seriously I wanted to spank her for torturing our sweet ladoo.

God how much he have to put up with everything just for her!

He was the heir of business empire in Dubai but he left everything,fought with his father to just be with her.

Stayed like servent in Pramad's house just for her but this mata is not ready to leave RN just for 6 months.

And so true she never run behind him.This time I really want Saras to leave her alone so she can come crying and running behind him.

From today I officially hate these CVs.

What is wrong with them?can't they write Danny Kusum kind of scene for Leads?

Really this Kusum is much more better than buddhi Kumud.

She always so loving and caring towards Danny and she always appreciates what he did for her.

Haila today she called Saras bhai How yucky!

I think these writers completely forgot that she used to love him and made all those lust filled attempts on him.

Family trying to find girl for Kabir not interested.

Thanks for lovely bytes.

Hopefully this week story will move forward in right direction and for a change I want Kumud to run behind Saras to go with him.

Originally posted by: romancefan

The writer needs to have his head examined. He has forgotten who are leads and who are supporting actors😕

Not just head eyes also so they can see who are the leads. And what is wrong with them if they don't have any idea regarding romance they can visit here and get ideas from so many talented people here who will happily help them.