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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: happychappy

I dunno why... 😉


but, I just came across this page "the Pious Infant" and it reminded me of our (not so) dear Kumud Sundari!




Perfect happy, we can see glimpses of Kumud in this
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Posted: 11 years ago
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A wonderful post Arshi and so true! We do love them both and they love each other but both have different ways of reacting to situations.

Saras's whole world is Kumud and only Kumud. Kumud's life is Saras but her family is her world.

Both want best for one another and hence they clash.

Kumud's decision of Kusum marrying Saras was also on the belief that Saras would do absolutely anything for her happiness and at the moment her happiness lies in what kusum wants.

I know they will be fine but I want to see them together without all this. At the moment, kumud will never even think of marrying saras even tho she is getting a divorce.

Pramad has really played a trump card here because he has given her what she wants but now it's almost of no use to her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Beautiful description of Kumud and Saras.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KK84

A wonderful post Arshi and so true! We do love them both and they love each other but both have different ways of reacting to situations.

Saras's whole world is Kumud and only Kumud. Kumud's life is Saras but her family is her world.


Both want best for one another and hence they clash.

Kumud's decision of Kusum marrying Saras was also on the belief that Saras would do absolutely anything for her happiness and at the moment her happiness lies in what kusum wants.

I know they will be fine but I want to see them together without all this. At the moment, kumud will never even think of marrying saras even tho she is getting a divorce.

Pramad has really played a trump card here because he has given her what she wants but now it's almost of no use to her.


@bold - perfectly said Kat, and this is the jad of all fasad anyway

And this pramaad. He has done the damage he came for, and this drama, of achchai will now be over.

Now he knows that this divorce will be another ticking bomb in the already explosive Saras Kumud situation
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25
Arshii ...


Great post ...👏


and Beautiful lines to explain the two Basic Personalities ... Insightful !! 👏



But while all of you seem to be in quite a Benevolent mood towards Kumud today ,i am not yet quite so Forgiving towards the CVs for what they have turned her into ...

We know that Kumud Loves Saras ... But Unfortunately now a days , we do not see even an Iota of that Love ... Where is the Love ??

All we see is a Kumud ever ready and most Willing to SACRIFICE Saras for the cause of others ...
... be it that PPP or now that shame in the name of Sisterhood ... Kusum ... and treat him as her own pet Plaything who can be passed around like a Toy ... rather than another Living , Breathing Human with an Identity of his own ... with human feelings too...

All we see is a Kumud ever ready to bludgeon him and Shatter his Heart into pieces with her Anger ...Callousness and Indifferrence

All she says to him now a days are Nasty and Stinging Barbs... Her Stony Cold heartedness towards her so called Love is soo Extreme that if we were not aware of the Story , and were newcomers to the Show , we would think that Saras was her biggest enemy ...

Despite his begging and Pleading for her Help and Support she refuses to step down from her High Horse ...her self Righteousness ... and that rigid Arrogance of " I am alwasy Right ...and the others are Wrong ... "

What is the point of saying that she Loves him and takes him for granted ... when all she does is to Hurt him ... Insult his feelings ... gives Zero respect to his Decisions ... refuses to Trust his decisions ...

What kind of Love is this ... and what is the use of such Love which gives only Pain ... Hurt ... Disrespect ... ?? 😕

and Why should Saras be expected to put up with this for ever ...Isn't he Human and does he not have human feelings ... ??

He also needs to get some Happiness ... some Care and Affection from his Beloved ... Some Trust and Respect ... from the one who professes to Love him ...

Where is the Reciprocity of Feelings ... Where is the Equality and Balance in this Relationship ??

Why has it become such a Lopsided Equation ... with Saras alwasy being the one who has been Giving and Giving his all ...while the other side is always taking and Taking ??


How can such a One sided relationship continue to keep us Invested in this Love Story as Viewers ... How can it keep us Engaged for long as we stop feeling for the characters ... ??


I think the CVs need to Restore the Balance in this Relationship ... and that too Urgently ... before we start Hating Kumud so completely as as to Give up on them altogether ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arshi.
Well observed.

We all make impulsive decisions but mostly keep big picture in mind.

Kumud is real that way. But of late the way she yo=yos is baffling. I think she does not know how to deal with roadblocks. She only got love and happiness before marriage. This territory is new for her. She loses track of the big picture easily.

I can understand many of her impulsive decisions but not her decisions Wrt to Pramad. She wanted to go to US with him for treatment. Seriously. Is that trust in him.

Saraswatichandra makes impulsive decisions too. But learns from them. The second time he made a big decision, he told Dugbaa. He thought a lot and not only that, he thought about each and every person involved. Great growth in him.

What I like about their relationship is not just the love. Its their companionship and teamwork. They are teammates. Who know each other so well. That understanding and comfort level they have with each is what I like. Whenever they worked together, they just were great. During that prayaschit after gohatya case or during that school inauguration.

Lovers have passion, love. But these two share a spirit of companionship that is so special.



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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arshi

Love your post.

This is exactly the way Saras and Kumud grew on us. Until some time after Kumud-Pramad marriage also, this was maintained.

Conflict between the personalities of Saras and Kumud I can understand.

But Saras pleading to be understood, and Kumud turning into stone I dont, especially after seeing and experiencing his complete unconditional love for her again and again. Now she will forgive him, only when either he helps her again, or proves he is right.

In any relationship, it isvery unfortunate to constantly having to prove yourself to the other person.

It would have been alright for Kumud to be hurt and sad, but this callous anger ? Dont know, find it kind of too harsh !

A conflict, some fights between the leads can add to the spice of the show. It would have been nice, if they were in more believable scenarios.

It would also be nice, if the makers did not have to compromise on the strenght of one character to maintain the other. But time and again I have seen, in the very few serials I have ever watched, that they can never sustain the characters of both leads. One does get butchered, in favour of another.

My apologies to all the passionate members of this thread, if I have said anything to offend!

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Twila, Santhi, Sudha,
The post is about why they have such opposing way of looking at life situations, and to try and understand their perspectives.

Of late Kumud has been taking decisions that push Saras away and put him through a lot of pain.

It does seem that while his priority is Kumud only, her priority is the whole world including pramaad, excluding Saras

I just hope this is a part of the plan of cvs where Kumud later faces the consequence of taking Saras for granted, when he is disillusioned and walks away.

And it's not just poor writing where, Kumud is just turning into another Tulsi Virani
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshics



@bold - perfectly said Kat, and this is the jad of all fasad anyway

And this pramaad. He has done the damage he came for, and this drama, of achchai will now be over.

Now he knows that this divorce will be another ticking bomb in the already explosive Saras Kumud situation



Yeah Arshi n Pramaad knows that at this point kumud won't want to marry saras. He def has done the damage he came for. I hope tho that kumud signs the papers.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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While I too am angry at kumud and saras doesn't deserve all of this but Ad made a good point that when he asked for her support she didn't say no but she didn't say yes either(I still haven't had a chance to see the last two epi)

So perhaps this means that she can't ever deny him of her support n she will help him in this so she has this mask of Akkad which will drop soon. We are going to have to be very patient.

The only thing that bothers me is as for kumud her family is a big priority ESP kusum she will never ever realise that she was in the wrong abt asking saras to marry kusum.

N I just can't think of how kusum will accept Danny n get over saras. She is a selfish cow who won't ever think abt her sister...n until she goes on abt saras I don't see how kumud will ever accept saras.

When I think abt all this I see a black hole but there is faith in them that their love will emerge stronger out of all this.

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