Kumud ka identity crisis

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Once upon a time there was a girl called kumud sundari Desai


The pride of Desais, she was loyal to her family and would do anything for them


She fell in love, and was looking forward to becoming kumud sundari Vyas

tragically things didn't work out, but mind you she was still a Desai,

and so followed the path chosen for her by her father



Once married, she became Kumud dharmadhikari

The name dharmadhikari became her identity

and she did everything she could to live up to it

She was loyal to her husband and so kept her family out of her personal affairs

Even though she had a chance to go back to her old love,

she did his shradh to protect her new name.



Again, sadly things didn't work out.

She filed for divorce and soon she would again be a Desai

Once again she looked forward to being a Vyas ,

and would no longer be dharmadhikari




But as it happened, the divorce didn't come through

Due to an error of judgement by her

and now no one is sure who kumud sundari is



Well in a sense she is all the above

In a sense she is none of the above

And there lies the problem



As long as she remains a Desai , kusum will keep hoping that her didi will do what didis alway do-

give their fav toy to the tantrum throwing crying howling baby of the house.



As long as she remains a dharmadhikari ,

pramaad will keep reminding of her wifely duties and obligations.



As long she keeps her hopes of becoming a Vyas,

Saras will keep expecting her to reciprocate and

give due respect to their love.


Ab it's high time Kumud decides who she is



A Desai - then she can do the mahan sacrifice of

gift wrapping Saras and gifting him to the bawling

baby - for nothing is more important for than being a good Desai



A dharmadhikari - then she can go and live in her sasural,

do pati seva till pramaad dies, do all the

vrats and make him live forever and do seva of her saasuma,

Saras can have a real shradh instead,

for nothing is more important to her than being a dharmadhikari



A Vyas - put him above all else, accept her love,

fight her husband, her sister, and all the random

aunties for her love and get married to him ASAP.

Then everyone else can figure how they deal with

their problems, instead of dumping them on her.


But for this kumud sundari has to decide who she wants to be,

today all the three names are up for

takes, it's her call, and hers only.

Till then she will keep vacillating between these three names

and keep the hopes of the likes of kusum

and pramaad alive, and keep killing Saras, a bit by bit, day after day

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said and beautifully written.

Kumud's main reason in giving Pramad a chance is that wedding of kusum with Mohan. If it's called off for any reason, will she kick Pramad out? Or use his 'repentance' as a reason and also kusum's love as a reason to go to bim?

I am not criticizing her. Just thinking out loud
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa


Well said and beautifully written.

Kumud's main reason in giving Pramad a chance is that wedding of kusum with Mohan. If it's called off for any reason, will she kick Pramad out? Or use his 'repentance' as a reason and also kusum's love as a reason to go to bim?

I am not criticizing her. Just thinking out loud



Santhi, while we hope for blue, i fear red is a more likely option. She is caught between the devil and

the mor pankh, and she is no longer woh pehle wali Kumud who threw propriety and convention to

the winds and fought with the village pandit, or refused to chadao milk to the shivji and fed it to the

needy instead.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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''Here are 3 ways to quickly cure an IDENTITY CRISIS KUMUD''
BE SECURE
Remember kumud your identity is your own choosing.You can change it anytime you wish...drop the Mrs Dharmadhikari..PRONTO😳

WATCH WHAT YOU LINK TO😳
Sometimes we bring on crisis becoz we link our personal identity to temporary things aka pramaad
PERMANENCY THY NAME IS SARAS Remember😃

REJECT OUTSIDE INFLUENCE😳
Get family n loved ones suggestions n support especially BADI MA AND SARAS 👍🏼
Remember you are responsible for your own identity
So build a NEW IDENTITY that will be BEST FOR YOU
aka MRS KUMUDSUNDARI SARASWATICHANDRA VYAS 😃


Source Forum n Internet


PPL read our darlin jealous sherni is back SLAP as desired by one n all is on the way ...(fig crossed) sundar shernis feet are firmly placed ...her priority numero uno is''saras ki patni '' identity crisis in public perception ...she is getting there slowly but surely 😉
Edited by annete - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: annete

''Here are 3 ways to quickly cure an IDENTITY CRISIS KUMUD''

BE SECURE
Remember kumud your identity is your own choosing.You can change it anytime you wish...drop the Mrs Dharmadhikari..PRONTO😳

WATCH WHAT YOU LINK TO😳
Sometimes we bring on crisis becoz we link our personal identity to temporary things aka pramaad
PERMANENCY THY NAME IS SARAS Remember😃

REJECT OUTSIDE INFLUENCE😳
Get family n loved ones suggestions n support especially BADI MA AND SARAS 👍🏼
Remember you are responsible for your own identity
So build a NEW IDENTITY that will be BEST FOR YOU
aka MRS KUMUDSUNDARI SARASWATICHANDRA VYAS 😃


Source Forum n Internet


PPL read our darlin jealous sherni is back SLAP as desired by one n all is on the way ...(fig crossed) sundar shernis feet are firmly placed ...her priority numero uno is''saras ki patni '' identity crisis in public perception ...she is getting there slowly but surely 😉


sound advice Annete, and one Kumud should follow, if she gets rid of her mahaanta syndrome
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Posted: 11 years ago
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So true!!
This is not our old Kumud u mentioned in ur post. She is now less confident of herself n dependent. That's why she fought, cried n broke down when Saras refused to support her. She has said - I need you to be able to do what I am planning to do. Without u I break into pieces!!
Serious confidence n emotional crisis she is suffering in addition to the identity crisis.
It is time for Kumud to realize n understand that you are what you are n I will give her the same advice I give to my students- you are braver than you think dear!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Arshics


sound advice Annete, and one Kumud should follow, if she gets rid of her mahaanta syndrome


Great advice. And she has a supportive family. Onus is on her
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have stopped taking kumud seriously now .she is nothing but a toy in hands of cvs who use it according to the taste of tvt aunty

suddenly she goes all strong,

suddenly so meek,

suddenly so dumb

suddenly so much in love

and suddenly heartless ...err kuch zyada ho gaya ...lol...she never goes hearless though
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

So true!!

This is not our old Kumud u mentioned in ur post. She is now less confident of herself n dependent. That's why she fought, cried n broke down when Saras refused to support her. She has said - I need you to be able to do what I am planning to do. Without u I break into pieces!!
Serious confidence n emotional crisis she is suffering in addition to the identity crisis.
It is time for Kumud to realize n understand that you are what you are n I will give her the same advice I give to my students- you are braver than you think dear!!



@ bold - sahi bola jaanu. but this girl tends to be foolhardy.

lets hope she remembers to be brave when hurricane Kusum hits
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShanUlas

I have stopped taking kumud seriously now .she is nothing but a toy in hands of cvs who use it according to the taste of tvt aunty

suddenly she goes all strong,

suddenly so meek,

suddenly so dumb

suddenly so much in love

and suddenly heartless ...err kuch zyada ho gaya ...lol...she never goes hearless though



sach main shana, her stand keeps changing from day to day.

Maybe its due to her identity crisis.

But bechara saras becomes bali ka bakra in this

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