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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am angry and at the same time feel sorry for her. But yes she has made her own bed and now she has to suffer the conquenses of her actions. She is has gone into shock when Saras is going to say that he and Kusum are having an affair. But why shock Kumund. Didn't Saras go into shock when you married Pramad on the rebound and you just want to be with your alcholoic husband who treats you like shit. Sleeps with the maid and absues you every single day. He does nto treat you like a wife rather likea doormat who he steps on every single day of your life and yet you choose to be with him and want to change him. Really that is not going to happen and you know it. You choose Pramad over Saras. If I were in your shoes I would have left him a long time ago. When I found out that he was sleeping with Kalika but you overlooked that and forgave him again. Yo deny everything he is doing sorry Kumud but right now I with Saras who is protecting you for the lets see Upteenth time. This time it your honour that he has saved. Guys don't hate for saying this. But Samud died a long time for me.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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hopefully we see our strong kumud again.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes she deserves it.is it nice to hide such a big thing from in laws??especially he in laws are very good person and not only that they trust sara like anything.how can they both do such a thing???so basically they are liar,right???
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with both the opinions.
Kumud deserves this kind of treatment .
why ??
Because of the following wrong reasons with which she has justified herself
1)She married pramad on rebound (Sorry , but this is no reason to get married,even if you felt cheated , even if you felt that you have been left alone , you just dont go ahead and marry the first a* you come across)
2)Turning blind eye to pramad's bad habits, irresponsible behavior,disrespect towards his parents, disrespect towards wife and life , disrespect towards your parents, unfaithfulness, alcoholism, and so on
3)Trying to become wife India overlooking all the incurable flaws and going on pramad sudharo abhiyaan.
4)Allowing saras to stay in her in laws place.She can stop him from hitting pramad by giving him her kasam and all but cant make him go away.The more he stayed the more the probablity of finding her past by her in laws.(not rocket science at all)
5) Accepting maid's challenge (this is the worst).For god sakes she is the employee and she has the right to sack her any time but noo.She goes ahead with the challenge.
The only behaviour of Kumud with which i can relate is her unflinching hatred towards Saras.(Dude you screwed up big time, no sympathies)
Now after blabbering and justifying kumud's treatment
The only reason in support of kumud i can come up with is
1)She is after all the newly married bahu of family.People show some respect ,treat her with some dignity, stop treating her like s*.(i couldn't continue watching after pramad threw her on the floor so don't know if she tried to defend herself or not but going by saas -bahu soap tradition I am pretty much sure she continued crying)

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sabaSpeaks


I agree with both the opinions.

Kumud deserves this kind of treatment .
why ??
Because of the following wrong reasons with which she has justified herself
1)She married pramad on rebound (Sorry , but this is no reason to get married,even if you felt cheated , even if you felt that you have been left alone , you just dont go ahead and marry the first a* you come across)
2)Turning blind eye to pramad's bad habits, irresponsible behavior,disrespect towards his parents, disrespect towards wife and life , disrespect towards your parents, unfaithfulness, alcoholism, and so on
3)Trying to become wife India overlooking all the incurable flaws and going on pramad sudharo abhiyaan.
4)Allowing saras to stay in her in laws place.She can stop him from hitting pramad by giving him her kasam and all but cant make him go away.The more he stayed the more the probablity of finding her past by her in laws.(not rocket science at all)
5) Accepting maid's challenge (this is the worst).For god sakes she is the employee and she has the right to sack her any time but noo.She goes ahead with the challenge.
The only behaviour of Kumud with which i can relate is her unflinching hatred towards Saras.(Dude you screwed up big time, no sympathies)
Now after blabbering and justifying kumud's treatment
The only reason in support of kumud i can come up with is
1)She is after all the newly married bahu of family.People show some respect ,treat her with some dignity, stop treating her like s*.(i couldn't continue watching after pramad threw her on the floor so don't know if she tried to defend herself or not but going by saas -bahu soap tradition I am pretty much sure she continued crying)


True.its true that the way pramad treat her was very very disrespect ful,and no ne should behave with his wife like that way.
But again I will say both kumud and saras are very wrong.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: omshreejaanu

Really?

She deserves it all? Nobody is perfect u know. She didn't foresee the consequences. If Pramad deserves a second chance n Saras also( n this s the person who started it all) deserves another chance, how come Kumud deserves to b humiliated this way? I felt ashamed when Pramad forced food down her throat, I felt humiliated when everybody was looking on as Pramad n Kalia were doing their nautanki. I felt angry to see Saras silent. I felt angry at CVs. Not sorry for her but disappointed to see her accepting to b treated this way!!
CVs have butchered kumud's character the most.
But I will not say kumud deserves it all. Even if I am very angry at her.

The fact that she allowed her husband to force the food down her throat, allowed him to come near her whn he humiliated her on her wedding night, is lying to everyone in this household, meand she is bringing it to herself. I agree nobody should be treated like this, but what has she done to rectify the situation?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rimulia

No she doesnt . Nobody gets to deserve this kind of treatment from anyone. Every character in this show has flaws Kumud's parents who never even bothered to get information about their would be son in law & married off their daughter in haste. Kumuds inlaws who knew about their worthless son but still got him married to someone like Kumud ! Guniya who adviced her daughter just before the night of her marraige that a wife should always cover up her husbands faults! Saras who broke up the marraige without thinking of the consequences & now also his actions are no good either.
I feel everyone is at fault then why must only poor Kumud get beaten up & suffer all the consequences while others just stand there watching it all & doing nothing ! She doesnt deserve this kind of treatment ... no woman does !


Agree no woman deserve such treatment, but what has Kumud done to change her fate. Still headstrong about her husband, still believing she has won a battle, when she has just undergone a violent forcefeeding by her hubby. I feel she is a pathetic girl, who is supposed to be independent, but is only compiling lies over lies, and living under the same roof as her exlover.
Why feel sorry for someone who is inviting problems. I feel really angry when girls believes this is their fate, it send the wrong message to the audience.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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well hoenslty it was her fault only! there is no reason to feel sorry ...why she accepted such a moron as her husband??it is okay if he has some bad habits coz she only married him with all her sense..(which had no sense.why she was in a haste to get married?) .bt knwoing after his relations with a maid??what kind woman does so?& those who do that have to suffer in the long run..Pramad toh just throw her on the floor.bt the ladies who are ready to make their hubby parmehswar knwing all his habits is treated even badly.so ur respect in in ur hands.why the hell two man need to decide ur fate,u r a women & u need to do just things for u!!!& if u do not do so then things like this wld happen.coz i thought Kumud knew the position of women in real world.they way they r treated!!! but still when u chose such things u will get even worse things in returns!this is the only fact!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Linda25

i don't think she deserves all this humiliation .

she is not innocent , i am angry with her because she dint wait for saras ,she dint call sunny to know the truth.whatever! she at least deserve respect from in-laws house .
but is promod innocent ??
she had relation with her own fiance,she written a letter to her own fiance,she loves her own fiance now her ex fiance so what ??
at least kumud has no relation with saras now but pramad has an open relation with kalika then why the hell family not showing any of concern to their sons relation ?
they are shocked to know their daughter-in-laws relation with a guy but what their son doing with kalika ?? what about that ?

you have said it all, I am also angry ty her, but being forcefed makes her believe she has won a battle, being dragged down and not even saying one word about the pramad-kalika relationship and what happened to her on her wedding night, does not encourage any empathy. I am sorry to say, she invited everything that is happenening to her as she has been hiding her hubby's misdeeds since day one. Does writing a letter to your fiancee constitute a crime? No, Does having pms make her a sinner, maybe, (but she believed she was going to marry him), but now feeling all married and acting as the sati savitri whilst having her ex lover living under the same roof, does not make her innocent.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -B.N.K-


TM ji ...no she does not deserve this ..she deserves worse 😊 by worse i really mean WORSE ..but forum people or anyone i know wont understand that cox they r not watching kumud's story ..they r watching some indian woman's duk gatha ...so dont try ...there is no point of trying to show green to a blind.

i agree what u said and loved ur post 😳


At least one person who understands where I am coming from.

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