Originally posted by: kaadal
Ok Arshi, abh mein phir se jaake uss toofan ko deklu, abhi thoda mind clear hogaya hai lekin itna ajeeb rishtha dekha nahi aaj tak. Inke kashma kash mein hum phas gaye 😉
This is turning out to be a super long but quite interesting post. But I guess we need all the inputs.
Just saw the episode again. @ kaadal ..Got your point of view. While he does not know what the bond is yet, he is now finally aware that it is there and it is real. He is laying it out to her too. He says that he has time and again indicated to her that if he was asked to stay back again, he won't be able to leave. He is also asking her that then why does she prevent him from leaving if she thinks there's no hope of a relationship.
I guess both are in a sort of pre-awareness phase (gosh that sounds too technical), the phase where you are only just aware of a 'different', fragile but very real ink with only one special person, basis which all of us just take a blind leap of faith into developing something called 'love' for the special person.
The movement into 'love' is always a blind leap of faith from the pre-awareness phase (that's the technical word again, but can't describe it otherwise)...there are no data points just your gut...you just 'know' you need to take the chance and you step off the ledge...and start 'loving' someone...This is entirely mental...the 'harder' aspects of love like 'yeah I love him / her', expressing your love, commitment etc. come only after you have made the decision to make the leap from pure gut to 'man I want to love him / her because there is something between us'...
Please forgive if it was too windy in an already long post...but I guess we have nailed it,,,
So yes, it is the penultimate round...we still need a proper I LOVE YOU round after these two 'dobas' take their own leap of faiths...