why is GUNIYAL angry at Saras for her fault!???

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@lilmzsunshine

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Posted: 12 years ago

#61

Jeez, really?

It seemed logical to me ... if my hubby was angry with me for hiding something huge, I'd be scared and worried.

If my hubby was angry with me for hiding something huge that would hurt him, but if he found out from someone else, I'd be scared, worried, and very confused about what to do.

But, if my hubby was angry with me for hiding something huge that would hurt him, but was a 100% someone else's doing and not mine, I would, very nonrmally, hold that person at fault ALONG with being very guilty and scared and worried and confused.

I think that's what Guniyal is doing ... I don't see anything wrong with it.

For those of us defending Saras ... while he was humane in caring for the VC, do we REALLY think it is normal to go and stay at someone's house when you have rejected their daughter, and that too, AFTER first a proposal went from your house to begin with? And to top it off, over mail, to the girl? Not even via the parents.

He stayed there KNOWING he had no intention of marrying their daughter. why'd he even go there? I wouldn't. Over a spite/pride/ego issue?

You don't wanna marry someone, totally your prerogative. But you show up at their house, stay there, REGARDLESS of your intentions, is just not the wisest course of action, no matter how good your intentions.

So, just to be clear, I'm not saying that Guniyal, Kumud, etc are not guilty. But Saras isn't blame free either. And he's definitely not the 'least guilty' party.

-S

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@unknown.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#62

Completely agree!

I just didnt like how guniyal was behaving today.

Saras and Kumud are still young. Why are you blaming them?

I know in some way it was their fault too but still no need to blame them.

Guniyal being the only adult (other than saras's mom) knowing about this should have told VC.

Especially yesterday/today when they started the engagement preparations.

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

#63

Guniyal is not angry at Saras for HER fault..she knows where she is wrong ( hiding truth from her husband ) and she regrets it. Guniyal is angry at Saras for HIS faults which can not be ignored either.. the faults that she clearly pointed out :

1. Writing the letter to Kumud and not VC.

2. Coming to Ratnagiri without informing his parents about the reason he was going.

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Nkapoor3

@Nkapoor3

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Posted: 12 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR
Guniyal is not angry at Saras for HER fault..she knows where she is wrong ( hiding truth from her husband ) and she regrets it. Guniyal is angry at Saras for HIS faults which can not be ignored either.. the faults that she clearly pointed out :

1. Writing the letter to Kumud and not VC.

2. Coming to Ratnagiri without informing his parents about the reason he was going.

if she would have told her husband while he was arranging everything, the whole fiasco would have been avoided! Why is she blaming a poor stranger for her household issues!?!??

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
if she would have told her husband while he was arranging everything, the whole fiasco would have been avoided! Why is she blaming a poor stranger for her household issues!?!??

Firstly a guy who is eating, living,sleeping in their house for a month, calling him mausi ma, getting involved in all family celebrations as well as problems voluntarily, is no stranger. So lets not address Saras as stranger.. They have known him since he was child.. he calls ma or mai only to people he respects from his heart..like Guniyal and Dukhba.. so lets settle that first..Saras is no ''stranger'' in that house.😊

Yes the whole fiasco could have been avoided today if she told her husband for which she took the blame infront of everyone and she will keep begging for her husband's forgiveness till she gets it.. But the whole fiasco would not have started, had Saras not written the letter to Kumud..instead addressed it to VC or better still made a phone call from Dubai..Did she blame him saying that my husband doesnt trust me because of you?No she didnt say that.. There she knows its her fault.. Doesnt Guniyal have the right to be angry about his faults? Why did he have to come to India on Kumud's insistance, that too without informing his parents ? I will tell you why! Because he was drawn to her voice and he was getting restless to see the person who spoke to him on skype that day.. thats the reason he came.. If he had come to reject her..he could have done that long back ..Kumud doesnt hang around with him all the time to stop him right?

Edited by vaishali-AR - 12 years ago

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Nkapoor3

@Nkapoor3

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Firstly a guy who is eating, living,sleeping in their house for a month, calling him mausi ma, getting involved in all family celebrations as well as problems voluntarily, is no stranger. So lets not address Saras as stranger.. They have known him since he was child.. he calls ma or mai only to people he respects from his heart..like Guniyal and Dukhba.. so lets settle that first..Saras is no ''stranger'' in that house.😊

Yes the whole fiasco could have been avoided today if she told her husband for which she took the blame infront of everyone and she will keep begging for her husband's forgiveness till she gets it.. But the whole fiasco would not have started, had Saras not written the letter to Kumud..instead addressed it to VC or better still made a phone call from Dubai..Did she blame him saying that my husband doesnt trust me because of you?No she didnt say that.. There she knows its her fault..Doesnt Guniyal have the right to be angry about that fault of Saras? Why did he have to come to India on Kumud's insistance, that too without informing his parents ? I will tell you why! Because he was drawn to her voice and he was getting restless to see the person who spoke to him on skype that day.. thats the reason he came.. If he had come to reject her..he could have done that long back ..Kumud doesnt hang around with him all the time to stop him right?

he did go to VC to tell him only! but it was guniyal and Kumud who stopped him from doing so!

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

#67

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
he did go to VC to tell him only! but it was guniyal and Kumud who stopped him from doing so!

As far as I remember, the only time Kumud stopped him was after the fire accident.. and she had a legit reason..VC was not well so they were concerned about his health.. I dont remember any other instance when he was stopped.. Even if he did try to go to VC..that doesnt take away his fault of writing the letter and coming to Ratnagiri without informing his parents..she scolded him for precisely those 2 reasons not for her husbands anger on her..

Edited by vaishali-AR - 12 years ago

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Nkapoor3

@Nkapoor3

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Posted: 12 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

As far as I remember, the only time Kumud stopped him was after the fire accident.. and she had a legit reason..VC was not well so they were concerned about his health.. I dont remember any other instance when he was stopped.. Even if he did try to go to VC..that doesnt take away his fault of writing the letter the coming to Ratnagiri without informing his parents..she scolded him for precisely those 2 reasons not for her husbands anger on her..

she scolded him for the pain he has caused Kumud! Kumud is upset because her father is angry with her! The father is angry because the daughter hid the truth! What does Saras have to do with that!? It is not his fault that both of them did not tell the truth to VC! They infact stopped Saras from telling the truth

Edited by Nkapoor3 - 12 years ago

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myviewprem

@myviewprem

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Posted: 12 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Abaddon no need to explain someone who is watching another show 😉...She is in her own belief.😃

I said it 4 times All Saras owed was an answser to his father for this proposal...which was NO

He did not need to write to Kumud and kumud did not need to challenge him to come and refuse with NO to VC...

None of this would have happened if SC had said NO to LN...

Rest is all bakwaas..

Saras told no in initial episodes that he never wants to marry kumud bu his dad told him "he did not ask saras opinion it was an order to marry her"

hence saras ask sunny what to do and sunny suggests write letter to girl rejecting marriage proposal. but LNV already arranged Videocon where Kumud challenged him to come and tell her father hence he arrived.

Edited by myviewprem - 12 years ago

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3
she scolded him for the pain he has caused Kumud! Kumud is upset because her father is angry with her! The father is angry because the daughter hid the truth! What does Saras have to do with that!? It is not his fault that both of them did not tell the truth to VC! They intact stopped Saras quite a few times from telling the truth

Ofcourse he is one of the reasons she is in so much pain today.. He himself knows it even if you dont agree.😊 Father is more hurt than angry my dear.. He is hurt that they dint trust him to deal with the heartache ..they dint trust him to guide them through this crisis.. Well Saras too didnt trust his father to understand him which is why he wrote the letter to the girl he rejected.. The only difference is that Kumud and Guniyal were protecting VC from the hurt whereas Saras knows his father is oblivious to him so he didnt trust him to understand.. Ofcourse its not his fault that they hid it from VC.. Guniyal didnt scold him for that..Guniyal scolded him for his mistakes not theirs.. And I would really like you to tell me the exact instances when Saras was stopped from going to VC.. Like I said he was stopped only once and that was after the fire accident..

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