It is not easy for a guy to say I LOVE YOU! - Page 3

Originally posted by: -The_Tomboy-

Well just A question how do u know what guys feel ? are u a guy?? then u can't make assumptions in general but on saras surely! becuz u go general u go hell lot wrong many times! (Personal experience)

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

No I am not a guy, so? does that mean I don't know how they are!? most guys find it extremely hard to confess their true feelings, especially when the woman is intimidating and doesn't give a proper green signal, most guys are way too afraid of rejection

ummm maybe yes nd maybe no! becuz not all guys are the same!! well we feel most guys find it hard to confess ,guys feel something about us what we girls totally think we are not!! if u are discussing about saras that's well and fine but I don't think its right to discuss it about guys generally I know that this forum is open but I dn't think its right to think about guys becuz we really donno how they are unless u are married or something, but u may know only about that person! And if we talk about guys like this maybe there are some who come to the forum as silent reader and they might feel hurt!! Just an opinion!! no pun intended!

Originally posted by: -The_Tomboy-

ummm maybe yes nd maybe no! becuz not all guys are the same!! well we feel most guys find it hard to confess ,guys feel something about us what we girls totally think we are not!! if u are discussing about saras that's well and fine but I don't think its right to discuss it about guys generally I know that this forum is open but I dn't think its right to think about guys becuz we really donno how they are unless u are married or something, but u may know only about that person! And if we talk about guys like this maybe there are some who come to the forum as silent reader and they might feel hurt!! Just an opinion!! no pun intended!

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Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

I am not trying to hurt anyone here

umm I know! :)

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

I think it is a bit of both, Saras always feels very hurt when Kumud uses the word 'favour' for his actions

I agree. He also feels bad when she says that "he has no relationship with her and her family," but with that being said I feel like he doesn't understand why those words hurt him. He fails to understand that those words rip him apart because he is in love with the girl and can't stand the fact that he has no relationship with her. He deep down knows that he wants to be with her, but as of now I don't think he fully realizes that. I know how I worded it is just really confusing but his heart knows what he wants but he has yet to register and understand everything. I can compare this scenario to how we get confused between two things we like or want and we have to pick one thing out of those two things. We know what we want but it's not till we flip the coin to see what we should do that we really understand what we want because we end up hoping and praying that the coin lands in the favor of what our heart really desires.

Riya

Saras does not have full realisation, but KUMUD's attitude is also making it harder [IMO]

Per saras bhi Himmatwala che...

Originally posted by: Nkapoor3

A woman normally has to be in complete awe of the guy for him to confess! Sad but true!!! Kumud on the other hand keeps on being rude to Saras, and always tells him to leave, I know she is guarding herself, but her strong nature is going to make it harder for Saras to confess!

Completely agree with you...

When he can touch her (even if he was lost in her), he can also say i love you ( in the moment again).

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

When he can touch her (even if he was lost in her), he can also say i love you ( in the moment again).