Could Kumud really find her match?

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Naah! It's too difficult. Men are mostly MCPs and Indian men toh - totally given to partriarchal notions! You talk of real life? I've seen them throw their weight around online also and instruct females to be "soft" in their conduct or remain in their limits on account of being girls! Ladki ho hadh mein raho, sar pe mat chadho, tumhara attitude bahut kharaab hai, real life mein aisa nahi chalega etc.! I'm also assertive and once someone (unknown!) told me if I continued to "behave like that" my married life would end up in divorce or I wouldn't be able to get married at all! Ha! Imagine! You don't even know me but are predicting doom for me just on account of interaction across an online forum? Heights of MCP-ness of Indian males! 🤢

Many of them are still spoilt rotten by their families and society makes them feel as if they can do anything while a girl needs to be submissive, quiet and coy. They don't tolerate girls like Kumud or eventually lose patience and bark about character, manners, upbringing and attitude of girls like Kumud!

A guy like Saras is very very rare!

Originally posted by: sorcha

Exactly...100% agree. Our culture is very patriarchal. I don't know how many times I have argued with my mom about all the pathetic gender differences. I get that you don't call your husband by his first name because you respect him, but what about him? Husbands can call their wives by their first names, but wives can't called their husbands names. Seriously?? It is situations like these that always escalate into a hot argument in my family's dinner table...I know that now days many couples call each others by their names, but some people still frown on or make gossips if a wife calls her husband by his name. To find a guy like Saras, who is modern yet very religious and has golden values...sadly rare indeed!

Originally posted by: kiokyo

Nice topic! 😛 I had this thought after a couple of episodes too. I mean Kumud is exactly like what you described ... and yea Saras is the perfect match in the story. But in real ... a girl like Kumud, I really doubt that with all the attitude she has and how she made Saras run for her face 😆 ... in reality, would any guy like Saras even bother ? Or do guys like him even exist for girls like her? Sorry if am deviating here but what amazes me is that she refused to show her face and all but doesn't that in itself kind of rises the guy's expectation?

In reality if a girl does that, the guy will just get bored and fed up of the rebellious and 'arrogant' attitude. Don't get me wrong, she isn't mean or bad or anything, deep down she is lovely but will there be a guy who will be patient enough to see her nice adorable side? 😉

And btw am like her and you too somehow 😆 A bit arrogant, no-nonsense and in-your-face kind of person, so am talking for all of us!

So in short ... to answer your question .. I doubt there is her match. 😒

Originally posted by: BHAVII

Usually Marriages are made in Heaven arranged on Earth and the second name of marriage is adjustments. To continue any relation its not important how much good a match is its how much they can do for each other and how much can they adjust.

Kumud a woman of substance, who is good in household work, has good sanskaar is a leader and fighter along with being beauty with brain is a rare combination. Since she knows that she is best she has developed a ego and that will kill her relation.

To get a match for her is difficult but not impossible. In real life no two people are at equal level. One is higher than another and there are chances that she may find someone with the virtues which are better than hers.😉 and when she finds someone like that her ego will automatically suffice😆

(MY POV)