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@Tish_Ani

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Jammy-

Ego is never a good thing. She needs to learn that lesson. Whats ironic is that Saras refused to marry her without even knowing or looking at her and she behaves this ruthless without knowing him.

Where is the Kumud who saw a certain 'dard' in his eyes?? Mind you that was just by looking at his 'eyes.

Usko sirf ek hi baat chubi hai that 'HOW can someone refuse ME??

I am glad that Saras made her run through the house. Payback is good for people with HUGE egos!

exactly, her EGO is hurt...

and dat wil happen, now she wil suffer in saras' luv!

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mishti_17

@mishti_17

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

She is really acting tough but then I dont blame her.. He said NO to her without even seeing, for a girl it goes as an insult.. 😒 And the way Kumud is, it wud have been weird if she just let go it.. So she will act tough with him but yeah I didnt like the way she judged him.. 😒 Absolutely no one has the right to judge anyone..

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Jammy-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: mishti_17
She is really acting tough but then I dont blame her.. He said NO to her without even seeing, for a girl it goes as an insult.. 😒 And the way Kumud is, it wud have been weird if she just let go it.. So she will act tough with him but yeah I didnt like the way she judged him.. 😒 Absolutely no one has the right to judge anyone..

I agree that she felt insulted but to that particular thing the punishment is not let him see her face. That was more than enough.

Oh I cannot wait for her repentance. 😳

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rogerrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Lol..completely agree but am so glad we finally have an imperfect female lead who is human and prone to do mistakes😆

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Asma

@anjaani07

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Agree with you but ego is something that's very real and present in everyone - just the extent differs in people. I liked her mother's words to her today, she's right and I hope Kumud took that advice on board and keeps it in mind in future too.

It is ironic that she is so hurt that he refused her without seeing her face and yet she herself has judged him with so much finality from his letter that even after he saved her father's life she refuses to change that opinion of him!

Anyhow I still like that she isn't perfect, everyone has flaws and it'll be interesting to watch her change, I love that he isn't a doormat either and his antics really got her worried! They're well matched in that sense😉

*edit: PS, I love your profile pic - I'm a huge Arrow fan x

Edited by anjaani07 - 12 years ago

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nemesis12

@nemesis12

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

i know she's being all egoistic atm. But still i like her :P. atleast she isn't unreal like other female characters, she's imperfect have her own flaws and that makes her more relatable.

And i know she's going to repent very soon for her behavior, she's already feeling guilty :)

Edited by nemesis12 - 12 years ago

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MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

She is wrong this time and she knows it.. What started off as pride has now become an ego..and that too so big that its stopping her from acknowledging his genuine efforts to save her father.. Her mother showed her the mirror today and brought her feet firmly back to the ground. I don't think Saras was gonna leave..his decision to stay back and take care of Kumud's father was not only righteous but very smart too.. He needs to make her realise that if he had made a mistake of rejecting her without seeing her then she has made a mistake today by judging him without knowing him. Atleast he has tried to apologise..They are even now and the ball is in her court.. 😉

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Newbiesoapfan

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Agree with you completely. She is acting like a spoilt child whose favorite toy has been taken away from her... throwing tantrums and being rude...

I know she is hurt -- she had pinned her hopes on this alliance... so hurt to banta hai... but the guy was upfront with her... its a problem with him that she needs to understand... I liked her when she said ... come and tell my father... but she could have atleast thanked him after he saved her father... big fat ego nonwithstanding...

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dua_44ever

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

I agree she is egoistic! Yes, she does have a huge ego but with that we also need to realize that she was hurt badly. I mean put yourself in her place. Traditionally in India, when the guy and his family comes to see the girl and rejects her later on, how bad does the girl and her family feels? The whole society starts talking about it. It's one of the worst things about our society and culture. The whole blame comes on the girl and her family.

In the show, Saras didn't even see Kumud and rejected her and on top of that, didn't even give her a reason of his decision. I am glad that the show didn't show Kumud as a bechari who will bear the injustice. This isn't just about her, it's about her family and most importantly her father who was so excited about this rishta.

Coming to Saras, I agree Kumud should have at least said Thank You to him for saving her father's life but she didn't. She shouldn't have judged him to that extent. But from the time Saras has been in Ratnagiri, he never said sorry to Kumud either. Saras has his own share o f ego. He is no less. Plus, he has so much of anger in him. But, I loved the way he told her off today indirectly about her opinions of him! Brilliant!! 👏

What I am trying to say here is that they both are equally at fault and I love the way they both are portrayed. I am loving the show a lot and both Jen and Gautam are doing a fab job 😃

Edited by dua_44ever - 12 years ago

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MistyDawn

@MistyDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: Newbiesoapfan
Agree with you completely. She is acting like a spoilt child whose favorite toy has been taken away from her... throwing tantrums and being rude...

I know she is hurt -- she had pinned her hopes on this alliance... so hurt to banta hai... but the guy was upfront with her... its a problem with him that she needs to understand... I liked her when she said ... come and tell my father... but she could have atleast thanked him after he saved her father... big fat ego nonwithstanding...

Isnt she so like todays girl..? like one of us? we all have a ''spoilt child'' in us somewhere...we are not right always..are we? This is why I can relate to her.. I find her actions wrong and I am sure deep down she does too..well thats the reason she went to stop him..had he not entered her father's room she might have apoligised too..who knows! But despite of that I can relate to her..coz I have acted like that so many times.. said hurtful things to my friends yet not apoligised coz I was hurt too..ego is never a good thing but its something a lot of people have in big or small measures..One should know how to keep it check specially with your loved one.. This is something she will learn from Saras..he has pride and self respect too like Kumud but its not ego like it is in her case...

Edited by vaishali-AR - 12 years ago

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