What gives the right to Kumud...? - Page 4

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

Kumud, ah she is human!!! She is a woman of today, with pride and respect...especially with pride there comes always an ego!!!

I agree, she is wrong. We all think that because we ALL know why Saraswatichandra had rejected her, we all know what is kinda going on in his life and mind. Kumud doesnt!! I know she should listen to his side of the story...BUT we have to also put ourselves in her shoes!

This girl received a letter in which the man that she had already fallen for by just looking at his eyes had rejected her. This guy didn't even see her!!! How can he?? Ego is formed from reflection of what others think of you; hell this guy didn't even give a chance of looking at her and said no!! That is a big OUCHIE for Kumud!! On top of that her father who is extremely happy with the alliance...the man whom she loves...the first man whom she ever loved!!! He is her pride...her everything...this no will hurt her dad!!!

Next he shows up because of her challenge and instead of telling him the truth, she thinks he is wasting their time and is getting too close. In day from her family members she is reminded that she was rejected!!! Damad ji this...jiju this...ever since he has walked in that door...she knows he is here to say no...but since he has been there she heres these two words echoing in her ears...and everytime she hears it he pinches her because she knows he is never going to be hers!!

It isn't just ego...it is fear of falling for him to an extent where she won't be able to live without him despite her knowing they won't marry.

Don't you see, she is trying sooo HARD to make herself hate him...to kick him away from her...and especially her dad!!! She doesn't want him to stay there for that long so people love him only to be broken with his rejection later. It isn't just the part that he never saw her...it is now also "there is no point in seeing me"...you ain't marrying...right?? You aren't going to change your mind!!! You said no...thats that...and so there is NO point in seeing my face!! Ego is the reflection of others think...what if he sees me?? Will he think I am ugly??? Will I not be good for him? She doesn't want to see him look at her...and then see what his eyes reflect or express her own reflection of herself back to her!!

She knows that Saraswatichandra has saved her dad...she is thankful...she wants to thank him...BUT she can't!! Thanking him is the first sign of trusting someone...accepting someone...and she doesn't want to do any of that especially when there will be nothing formed between them. Then...OMG he rejected me without looking at me...comes...so it is like a whole a bunch of factors that make her the way she is...😆😆😆

Deep down she doesn't realize that she loved him already...and that all of this hate that she is trying to portray...trying to put him off with will only make her see the good side of Saraswatichandra...will only make her fall deeply and madly in love with him!!!

Deep down, she may already trust him...hence she i think was testing him whether he would go back home...and so when she finds out he is leaving BAM again she is hurt...she wants to stop him...but yet she can't get up to do it...him leaving is burning her in the inside...

until her mom tells her that she is being stupid...immature...childish...and she needs to cut off that ego of hers...because it might just end up hurting her own dad when she doesn't stop saraswati chandra!

I agree with your post...what gives her the right...but she didn't even tell SC to his face that he is selfish?? It wasn't even really meant for him...it was more of something she wanted to make of him to hate him even more...to show her sister that she doesn't care for him!!! However, when she finds out that he heard her...it hurts even more!!!

Everytime she pains him...she feels double of that pain!!

Now that SC told her indirectly that she is thinking wrong of him...going by her character she still may not care...because whatever she saw will make her even like him more...the way he cares for her dad...the way he respects him...and this might set off a whole other thing in her...😆

Hayeee...i hope i made sense...but I love your post...it made me actually want to discuss...

All i know is...that when she learns the truth about Saraswatichandra...all of that ego will vanish...the ego of being rejected will be gone!

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

Kumud, ah she is human!!! She is a woman of today, with pride and respect...especially with pride there comes always an ego!!!

I agree, she is wrong. We all think that because we ALL know why Saraswatichandra had rejected her, we all know what is kinda going on in his life and mind. Kumud doesnt!! I know she should listen to his side of the story...BUT we have to also put ourselves in her shoes!

This is exactly why I am so against the harshful words she said. She doesn't know half of the story. She doesn't know anything about Saras other than the fact that he rejected ME! because of which she shouldn't have made remarks about his nature.

She knows that Saraswatichandra has saved her dad...she is thankful...she wants to thank him...BUT she can't!! Thanking him is the first sign of trusting someone...accepting someone...and she doesn't want to do any of that especially when there will be nothing formed between them. Then...OMG he rejected me without looking at me...comes...so it is like a whole a bunch of factors that make her the way she is...😆😆😆

Deep down she doesn't realize that she loves him already...and that all of this hate that she is trying to portray...trying to put him off with will only make her see the good side of Saraswatichandra...will only make her fall deeply and madly in love with him!!!

Deep down, she may already trust him...hence she i think was testing him whether he would go back home...and so when she finds out he is leaving BAM again she is hurt...she wants to stop him...but yet she can't get up to do it...him leaving is burning her in the inside...

until her mom tells her that she is being stupid...immature...childish...and she needs to cut off that ego of hers...because it might just end up hurting her own dad when she doesn't stop saraswati chandra!

The above is a fresh perspective for me. I am very well aware about love-hate relationship. Lets see whats in store for them and for us.

I agree with your post...what gives her the right...but she didn't even tell SC to his face that he is selfish?? It wasn't even really meant for him...it was more of something she wanted to make of him to hate him even more...to show her sister that she doesn't care for him!!! However, when she finds out that he heard her...it hurts even more!!!

Everytime she pains him...she feels double of that pain!!

I know that they have this connection. But she only reacted when her mother came to her and tried reasoning with her. She needs to be told when she is wrong and Saras did a wonderful job today by not allowing her to walk all over him. They both are ziddi and this is capable of creating magic.

Now that SC told her indirectly that she is thinking wrong of him...going by her character she still may not care...because whatever she saw will make her even like him more...the way he cares for her dad...the way he respects him...and this might set off a whole other thing in her...😆

Hayeee...i hope i made sense...but I love your post...it made me actually want to discuss...

All i know is...that when she learns the truth about Saraswatichandra...all of that ego will vanish...the ego of being rejected will be gone!

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

@Vaishali...i saw you posting here...and I stalk you and reemz...y'all say some good things...i followed you here...LMAOO...

@Jammy...your post really made many of us think...and I agree with you...perhaps because maybe we don't have much of an ego as Kumud...

Originally posted by: Jammy-

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Vaishali and Reemz indeed say good things. 😉

Originally posted by: vaishali-AR

Thanks Jammy and you do great too😆 this show has the depth that compels you to debate and discuss.Glad you make topics so I can give my input Lol

Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427

@Jammy...i think her mom blasting her off for her behavior was more like a wake up call for her...that this is not only about her and SC...but her dad too...he isn't well and him leaving like this might make his health worse...what her sister was saying probably didn't effect her because whenever we see Kusum tryin to knock sense into her...she is always teasing her too...which made Kumud more defensive lol...

I feel like Kumud has soo much ego and pride is because of her parents. Look at the way her mom is...she herself is agressive...and dad always saying his daughter is beautiful...compliments her...

usually ego is created due to the reflection of what others think of us...and her dad's reflection of Kumud is what makes her so proud...and carry ego.

Like i said...Kumud called SC selfish, but failed to realize that she was being selfish herself...she claims to love her dad sooo much but couldn't let go of her pride and simply just tell SC to stay until he gets better...instead gave him an option to test him...to see if he can live up to her trust...and deep down she knew he may not leave...BUT him overhearing her calling him being selfish iniated him to leave.

It was kinda like...apnay pao par khud kuladi maring...or w.e...not that great with hindi phrases lol...

It was all about HER...rejection...HER heart being broken...and for a while she forgot that her dad...that maybe she should put her inner turmoil to the side...and tell him to stay...

however, the moment she was reminded she ran putting her inner turmoil to the side...but to her surprise that she didn't have to do anything...he stayed...I wonder if this gel well with her...that he will stay with her dad...

gosh...the two men she loves in the same room...one she pretends to hate LOL...