A different perspective - Page 3

Seriously thinking" Mayank ko gussa kyon aata hain????😈

Divorce is NEVER the answer!!! A marriage in India is not just between 2 people but between 2 families and granted that one should never live under the fear of what society will think, ending a marriage has more serious consequences than just defamation of the family. Both Charu and Mayank need to GRoW UP! Both are blaming Gunjan for their failed marriage while neglecting their own mistakes and shortcomings. Both say that they have tried to make it work but I have never seen Mayank try to accept Charu as his wife. Charu has tried to start their relationship by gettong honeymoon tickets, etc but Mayank has always pushed her away and fought with her about Gunjan. Not justifying Charu's actions but I understand where she is coming from...just her method is wrong.

Honestly both Mayank and Charu need to stop focusing on Gunjan and look at themselves first. Shaadi kar hi li hai to nibhaani bhi padegi. In this situation, I see Gunjan as the most sane.

Originally posted by: gyadav

Divorce is NEVER the answer!!! A marriage in India is not just between 2 people but between 2 families and granted that one should never live under the fear of what society will think, ending a marriage has more serious consequences than just defamation of the family. Both Charu and Mayank need to GRoW UP! Both are blaming Gunjan for their failed marriage while neglecting their own mistakes and shortcomings. Both say that they have tried to make it work but I have never seen Mayank try to accept Charu as his wife. Charu has tried to start their relationship by gettong honeymoon tickets, etc but Mayank has always pushed her away and fought with her about Gunjan. Not justifying Charu's actions but I understand where she is coming from...just her method is wrong.

Honestly both Mayank and Charu need to stop focusing on Gunjan and look at themselves first. Shaadi kar hi li hai to nibhaani bhi padegi. In this situation, I see Gunjan as the most sane.

I actually hope Charu and Mayank have to tay together, maybe a court order, or something. I want to see Mayank grow up, and be mature, for one. Actually, after all he put Gunjan through, I don't want to see him hae her in his life, he is not worthy of her. Dumping her, then saying he'll marry her, public humiliation at her wedding, threatening suicide, actually jumping of a cliff - this does not sound like a mature person.

Why is mayank called imatuure and selfish i know he dint charu the rights of wife but then dint charu knew that mayank always loved gunjun.Dint she force herself upon him.He was in love,in a matter of day he just cant get over gunjan.He have chance to charu.Coudnt she trust her relation and god .i understand her pain but then mayank always loved gunjan isnt it.Dint she knew about it.I m happy that people are thinking charu s side ,on bv forum no one understand gauri ,in that show jagya was equaly crazy for gauri here at least mayank never loved charu.Gauri never stooped to a level of charu.

Originally posted by: tanvismile

Why is mayank called imatuure and selfish i know he dint charu the rights of wife but then dint charu knew that mayank always loved gunjun.Dint she force herself upon him.He was in love,in a matter of day he just cant get over gunjan.He have chance to charu.Coudnt she trust her relation and god .i understand her pain but then mayank always loved gunjan isnt it.Dint she knew about it.I m happy that people are thinking charu s side ,on bv forum no one understand gauri ,in that show jagya was equaly crazy for gauri here at least mayank never loved charu.Gauri never stooped to a level of charu.

Originally posted by: gyadav

When Mayank and Charu's engagement was first decided, Mayank did not love Gunjan at the time. He started loving her after getting engaged to Charu so if you think about it, Mayank was wrong from the beginning. His excuse for agreeing to the engagement with Charu was that he wanted to prove to Gunjan that he could get any girl that he wanted...so Mayank's ego and immaturity are clearly evident.

then gunjan was also wrong because she love that guy who was already engaged with another girl

Originally posted by: smruti1981

then gunjan was also wrong because she love that guy who was already engaged with another girl

Originally posted by: gyadav

When Mayank and Charu's engagement was first decided, Mayank did not love Gunjan at the time. He started loving her after getting engaged to Charu so if you think about it, Mayank was wrong from the beginning. His excuse for agreeing to the engagement with Charu was that he wanted to prove to Gunjan that he could get any girl that he wanted...so Mayank's ego and immaturity are clearly evident.

Ok thanks for info so he wanted to prove to gunjan that he could any girl ,i m sure they were tensions in relationship which were created by mayank s mother isnt it! .Situations were not in favour.Now from engagement till marriage he dint try to tell charu the truth ?

Anyways mayank is immature but charu is heartless ,when mayank was hospitalised where was charu s love ,her concern for mayank ,she tried to break relations at the cost of rachana s health .She went to destroy rachana s face.

Even killer has reasons for killing but that cannot be justified.And i think from mayank suiside attempt after gunjan explaining him he decided to his relation one more chance ,its not easy just to accept her right ,it takes time.Steps have to taken by charu also but this madam is busy involved in destroying gunjan s life.Somewhere in charu eyes i never saw love for mayank.If she truly loved him ,when he was hospitalised she woudnt act so insensive.