A different perspective

Charu is wrong and needs to be packed off to somewhere far away...but hey guys did you even realise for a moment that as a new bride who is not accepted by her husband (despite all her faults) and whose husband is still in love with someone else who is living inside the same house it could have an effect on her?
All of Charu's actions and temper tantrums are wrong and I detest her character. But for once think about what Mayank is doing - as a responsible grown-up who is now married with the blessings of his family he is still waiting for another woman and that is - TOTALLY WRONG!
First Mayank needs to be thought that marriage is not a game ( he considered it one when he dumped Gunjan and picked Charu and then dumped Charu for Gunjan again - but rightly so Gunjan opted out of it)
Secondly, Mayank needs to get his priorities right - as a husband he needs to accept his wife - and get a job and settle down in a place that will not have any distractions - I think he should have ideally taken up that job in some other place and moved out of the Garg house with his wife.
Thirdly, Mayank needs to realise that by chasing behind Gunjan he's not helping her, himself or his married life - Gunjan wants to move ahead, He needs to act more responsibly and his married life is in tatters due to his immature actions.
In fact, I seriously think that both Mayank and Charu are acting as immature adults. And this latest incident of Charu has only given Mayank a good reason to showcase to the world that his wife is no good so I am right to kick her out - I believe this should not be the case and CVs need to devise a plan to show that marriage is about helping the other partner when they go wrong and get them back on the right track -
Though Charu was always determined to get into Mayank's life when he took his life because he wanted Gunjan then Charu herself could have opted out of the marriage and left him. But no as always the woman is made to make concessions and stay on.
As much as Charu is at fault then Mayank has not proved himself an ideal husband either - so both are equal.

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But Mayank when he got upset with Gunjan picked Charu to marry - then when he realised that Gunjan is not bad after all wanted to marry her - I think in all of this Mayank and Charu were too young to get married in the first place - but now that they are married it is no excuse to point out other's wrongs and then destroy the marriage - if he is SOOO good and has brains then he needs to be able to set things right and treat the woman he married as his wife.

I so completely agree with you... U said all that I wanted to, amazing post 😃

well babe, i do repect ur opinion and also see what u r trying to say...

what I don't understand is how can Mayank be an ideal guy for Gunjan and why even those on the forum think that divorce is the way out - is that what Indian culture teaches ? I am sure NOT!!

Originally posted by: sdias

what I don't understand is how can Mayank be an ideal guy for Gunjan and why even those on the forum think that divorce is the way out - is that what Indian culture teaches ? I am sure NOT!!

Originally posted by: sdias

what I don't understand is how can Mayank be an ideal guy for Gunjan and why even those on the forum think that divorce is the way out - is that what Indian culture teaches ? I am sure NOT!!

I think if you are not happy with each other and are actually not growing individually and in the relationship it s better to end it. This marriage is only bringing the worst out of them. I am all for reforming but Charu has no hope in mu opinion . she does not love mayank he was just a toy which she could not get and she did everything possible to own it.mayank may not be an ideal guy but Gunjan is still in love with him . Indian culture has changed a lot and people are open to divorces and moving on in life. I hope this show handles this issue maturely .You don't have to ruin your entire life for one wrong decision, there should be second chances..

I seriously don't understand why people fail to see that it takes two to tango - why does Charu have to deal with everything (I know her ways and means are wrong but still)
when Mayank was in ICU - it was because of Gunjan and not because he had a bad wife - he was the one chasing behind a lost dream in place of his wife - lets try to look at things not as a serial show but as a realistic one!
so obviously his wife would have been angry, sad and at her age she was insecure and immature and so reacted in that manner - did not her husband act in the same way when he jumped off the bridge? - the thing is we are so used to seen the so-called mahaan wives of other shows that we think mahaan is the way forward - but no sometimes people do react in different ways.
If Mayank had only thought of even going out with her or doing something for her then she too woudl have been ready to help out in the kitchen at least if it was only to prepare something for Mayank - but hell no - right from the first night Mayank had made it certain to her that he will not spare her for marrying him - helloo no one can force Mayank to marry he is a grown up and quite sane enough to understand who he is marrying - REMEMBER guys Mayank himself is doing wrong and why doesn't anyone see that lusting over another woman is called adulterous in everyday life but not in this particular serial?