gunjan is right

Originally posted by: happygirl123

I guess Shail was just trying to distract Gunjan's mind with the festivity and make her part of their family too..

Originally posted by: riva2987

u know , its all about thinking...if u celebrate something, doesnt mean that u forgot the person who died, it will be called as u have MOVED IN UR LYF...stucking on the same thing doesnt bring dat person back, rather u will keep on hurting ur self, rather take their precious memories within ur self...and dat doesnt mean am totally opposite for those who dont want to celebrate things..its dere choice, dere opinion, dere lyf's...even i want to share my experience my dadu died just 15 days before my bro marriage ( bhua's son),, we didnt called off marriage jus cuz my dadu would never wanted to called of their mariage for his sake...so u know it all depends how to approach the things, and how u think...😊

Originally posted by: Mohini19

I totally agree with your post. But, I also feel that shail is not an insensitive woman. Seema and Sangeeta definitely are characters. I haven't watched the last episode yet. But, I'm just appalled at the importance given to this annoying son of the family, mayank in this family.

Can't the wedding wait for an year? He is like what, 21 yrs and supposedly will graduate from an Engg. school.

Finally, while I understand the logic that some people are giving that we should try to celebrate life and not death. But, one thing that cannot be forgotten is that Sneha died at a very young age. Plus, there is ABSOLUTELY no need to get mayank engaged and married now. He is 21 yrs of age and almost brainless.

Originally posted by: payalgarg

ur dadu died 15 days before marraige.I dont know with how much luxury u celebrated the marriage but usually a marriage never stops if somebody in the family dies just before it but the guests are limited and it becomes a simple family ocassion rather than hulla gulla and expenditure.look at Shails's family.is anybody thinking about doing it that way?Instead what sangeeta said ki hum kya kare,ab uske liye kya hum apni khushiyo mein bhi katoti kare was highly insensible.First of all they should not have discussed all this in front of Gunjan and secondly why is Shail jumping so much?Sneha was nothing to the devrani jethani jodi but she was Shail's sister.do u feel she thought even once how can I celebrate in one month of my sister's death?

Gunjan is absolutely right.Shail has actually forgotten Sneha.So much materialism and so called practicality that emotions take a back seat is not acceptable in life.

As far as moving ahead in life is concerned time doesnt stop for anybody but there is a time for everything.i feel sorrowing for somebody u have lost is actually a right rather than just a feeling and nobody should try to take away this right from somebody in such a short span of time.Its not that gunjan will be sobbing for the whole life for her mother but this is just too too too early and stupid for Shail to ask her to MOVE ON...

Originally posted by: payalgarg

ur dadu died 15 days before marraige.I dont know with how much luxury u celebrated the marriage but usually a marriage never stops if somebody in the family dies just before it but the guests are limited and it becomes a simple family ocassion rather than hulla gulla and expenditure.look at Shails's family.is anybody thinking about doing it that way?Instead what sangeeta said ki hum kya kare,ab uske liye kya hum apni khushiyo mein bhi katoti kare was highly insensible.First of all they should not have discussed all this in front of Gunjan and secondly why is Shail jumping so much?Sneha was nothing to the devrani jethani jodi but she was Shail's sister.do u feel she thought even once how can I celebrate in one month of my sister's death?

Gunjan is absolutely right.Shail has actually forgotten Sneha.So much materialism and so called practicality that emotions take a back seat is not acceptable in life.

As far as moving ahead in life is concerned time doesnt stop for anybody but there is a time for everything.i feel sorrowing for somebody u have lost is actually a right rather than just a feeling and nobody should try to take away this right from somebody in such a short span of time.Its not that gunjan will be sobbing for the whole life for her mother but this is just too too too early and stupid for Shail to ask her to MOVE ON...