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Posted: 15 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: unhappyviewer

and..........if she really regrets what she has done she would admit she is pregnant with taruns child.......and not keep any secrets.....but if she doesnt admit it then i do not see her as a person with a conscience.

Why would she admit it when she's planning on running away and never crossing paths with RV family again?
She might when she realizes the truth.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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its very tricky...

I am just seeing from the point of view of Alekh and Kushi...

After having a mother like Sadhana and a Masima like Ragini..

can Sakshi fill in their shoes? What values are being taught.

I am not saying she should die and doesn't deserve to live... but I am saying is I do not know. I being very honest would never accept her. Call me close minded .. or what not.


It might happen a lot ... pre-marital relationships but its wrong.

What can be done is,

Sakshi can be given the support she probably will need. Moral and Financial to raise her child.

I do not see her besides Alekh... and no way as the mother of Kushi.

yes She is an orphan, I agree... I do not know really... I just do not know :(
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Posted: 15 years ago
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She was totally misguided so its time she can repent her misfortune and become a better person.

She did say that Sakshi is not the ideal bahu so she may take guidance from Ragini and turn out to be a good wife and good mother

She cannot take anyone's place but she will try to be good and make her place as a good wife and mother !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1

its very tricky...

I am just seeing from the point of view of Alekh and Kushi...

After having a mother like Sadhana and a Masima like Ragini..

can Sakshi fill in their shoes? What values are being taught.

I am not saying she should die and doesn't deserve to live... but I am saying is I do not know. I being very honest would never accept her. Call me close minded .. or what not.


It might happen a lot ... pre-marital relationships but its wrong.

What can be done is,

Sakshi can be given the support she probably will need. Moral and Financial to raise her child.

I do not see her besides Alekh... and no way as the mother of Kushi.

yes She is an orphan, I agree... I do not know really... I just do not know :(

I am not saying Sakshi is amazing and a great human being. I am just saying she's better than Sonia. The one and only thing I can thank Sonia for is that she left Ranvir broken and thus Ragini came into his life as his phone friend Anamika😆
Can anybody match upto Sadhna? Even Ragini who grew up with Sadhna and got the same values hasn't reached Sadhna's level, not that I would ever want Ragini to become like Sadhna. Then who is Sakshi to fill into Sadhna's shoes and match upto her.
Forgot to add..I don't think you're close minded for not accepting Sakshi. LOls I haven't accepted Anmol and he's very positive😆
Edited by chocolover89 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol@ not accepting anmol haha.. : ) poor guy
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Posted: 15 years ago
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The is a no questions Sakshi is way better, coz she is a good person, she has a conscious, whilst Sonia didnt have one at all
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Posted: 15 years ago
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adding to the drama.. what if.. Sakshi was an un-attractive girl.
Would people still accept her?


Its strange sometimes when the face of a person can make their deeds to be forgotten
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Suchitra,...
a very "hatke" type of topic to discuss...thanks for opening thus
MY POV IS: Sonia was totally money minded and Sakshi is also, I say partially because she also needs money and she is doing this for her better future with Tarun,. The difference is Sakshi on her own would not have accepted Alekh, as she is in love with Tarun.
but that does not make Sakshi innocent wholly, just provides a justification of her actions. Sonia was not clever, I'ld say she was rather foolish and greedy. Had she married Ranveer with a true heart, Ranveer would have given her everything, without her even asking for those...be it name, wealth, love.
Sakshi is fully aware that she is cheating the Rajvanshs, and she is justifying herself by saying she is doing "tit for tat". When Tarun runs away, the only and best alternative for her is to get the title of Rajvansh bahu, in that way she can be saved and she will have a secure shelter. And then slowly she might accept Alekh.
Sonia was never shown to have physical intimacy with Ranveer or the other guy, but Sakshi is shown to have been physically involved with Tarun. I feel when the Cts have decided to cast Sakshi opposite Alekh, they should not have brought this issue of premarital sex. Esp. when the Cts were aware how much protest was done over the illegitimate relationship of Inderjeet.
If this premarital stuff of Sakshi was not brought into, Sakshi could have easily got sympathy of the viewers and the eventual acceptance. But now, at least to me, I did not expect this from the Bidaai cts. I love Sadhna's character a lot, but that in no way stood in my thoughts to see Alekh normal and happy with another girl. Thats the reason I wanted to see a girl with some values, and Sakshi day by day is falling short. Beyond a limit, some mistakes become sin and cannot be washed off easily. Poverty, circumstance can never justify a person's getting involved in premarital sex.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1

adding to the drama.. what if.. Sakshi was an un-attractive girl.
Would people still accept her?


Its strange sometimes when the face of a person can make their deeds to be forgotten

Sakshi is not very attracytive as per me...she is pretty but something is missing in her, as per me...MY pov...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111


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I agree....I feel that there is no animation in her face....perhaps its the role she is playing, secretive and sly..but yes, I agree with you ..

I also feel that there is no justification for her actions towards to Rajvanshs.....if she was so offended by Vasu's proposal, she should have thrown the offer in Vasu's face. In an open and above board manner. Cheating and criminality is by no means justified.....there can be no excuse.

She really ought to be thrown in jail....maybe then she'll realize that she has let herself be severely compromised....it's her own responsibility. I would hate for her to be Alekh's wife...He and khushi deserve 1000 times better than that. Sadhna was one extreme (in the positive sense)....why must they now sink to the lowest level now?? surely there is a middle ground?

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