After a long time - Page 5

Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

@zee di...yeah it has come in top 10 many times

@himani...lol same here stooped watching zee serials...started watching sangini cuz of binny, iqbal & additi, all 3 r my very fav but the script does not interest me...so not really following it anymore. But i always follow reality shows on zee tv...it got the BEST reality shows ever on Indian tv...specially DID/LM series ROCKS! Watch TL, SGP, SGMP & BHP now ...& I am just waiting for my rishta.com & mahi way to be back!😍

I really don't understand why a lead has to be GOOD always..Can't she become good later on? And believe me or not, physical intimacies before marriage is like very common these days..Sakshi is a girl of this generation, remember? If her repentance for the sin she has committed is shown in a proper way, I really don't think there should be a problem as such. In fact, it would be a lesson for quite a few :)

And as for Sara- why Sara alone? Someone else better than Sakshi can also be introduced..Why has she gotta be a look alike of Sadhna? Does a look alike of Sadhna equal Sadhna?

Some mean to say, tomorrow even if Sara is brought back to Bidaai as some bar dancer, you're gonna accept her...But accepting Sakshi is hard coz she's Sulagna? 😆

I do understand that Ranvir's death wasn't shown in a proper way..CTs could have handled it better. But he died coz of his wounds, acceptable enough. Nothing illogical about that..The way they projected it was bad coz Ranvir could have saved himself.

@Sadia I just like calling you Shonaa : ) its such a sweet nickname : )

"shaking head"

Can you guys imagine just a few months ago we had the best saalekh moments?

I agree with all of you no hopes left with this show.

@ashrozia... well no matter what the generation is... Pre-marital relationship is a sin period (which you agree as well) but I do not know what lesson one would take from such a scenario that get pregnant , trap a rich woman in need get married to her son and then repent and leave the boy friend and be sorry for what you have done and be all good and kind to the new husband and everything is good?!?

Repentance goes with the weight of the sin. If the sin is too big then the repentance needs to be big as well.

It gives out wrong ideas... and sends out incorrect messages.

What has Alekh done to deserve this? As Sadia mentioned all the hard work that Sadhna put in recovering Alekh was just thrown down the drain. Soo illogical and weird. I will go for a look alike or even that it was someone else who died and sadhana waas kidnaped by choti ma story lol as someone posted in one of the threads few months ago.


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I have always maintained that I am not a fan of Sara Khan. I am a fan of Sadhana and like I said if Sadhana were to come back she will become Sadhana (even if it is her look alike) and she will not be introduced as a bar dancer as it will not suit her personality in the show.

And if you say what if she is.. I say it wont be done in that manner. She might be a petty thief She might be someone looking for quick money but she won't be shown as someone selling her body for money or of that nature.

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About accepting Sakshi...Its hard cause her introduction had no basis , her role has no strong point, its just bunch of mumbo jumbo script put together to pull of another 6 months of reel time. (which all the members have already gone through)

If sakshi was not pregnant I would have assumed that there was a possibility she might become a good wife but, now that she is pregnant I do not think so . And that is why I feel Sadi might return and she is just like Sonia for Ranvir.
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Finally about why the lead has to be good always that is not really the case here. We are talking about Sadhana and her return. We are attached to that character and we are hoping she would return. There are other shows where the lead is not really good has grey characters etc.

So two different things. Why do we have to accept whats been given to us, rather we want to see what we fell in love with. That is Sadhana and Alekh Together.

Why not? Repentance is the answer to every sin..Doesn't mean you keep on committing sins and keep repenting..There's a limit to everything..That's why I said, if the repentance is shown in a proper way, there shouldn't be any problem as such. Repentance should be big, yes. And please, the track hasn't even started..How can you be sure of it not sending out any message? Pre-marital sex is the most common thing out there, if they are trying to send out a message for the majority, then why not?
And yes, Aalekh hasn't done anything to deserve this..But then, Sakshi will fall for him if she's here to say. She'll love him to bits of which I am sure!

LOL! 🤣 I spoke about the bar dancer thing as a possibility..Why not? Television hain, sab possible hain..So, you would accept her if she's a bar dancer just because she looks like Sadhna. And yeah, just because a girl looks like Sadhna doesn't mean she's Sadhna..And I can also say, what if Sakshi becomes as true as Sadhna was in the later part of the serial? That shouldn't be a problem then? If one can see only the negative part of Sakshi, there is another positive part in her too..Or could be.

And her being pregnant isn't the end of the world, c'mon! Just because she had pre-marital sex, doesn't make her a BAD person..If she repents enough, she can be every bit true!

Sadhna-Aalekh together? How would that be possible now? Reincarnation? 😆

What do viewers want to see?Sadhana's look alike or Sadhana?Even if Sara comes back as Sadhana's look alike,how would everything be the same.We can also say that she might come as matlabi as Sakshi is now though in the end she might repent and all that.

Unless as discussed yesterday to the point of exhaustion,it's all someone's dream,there is no chance of seeing Sadhana or Ranvir which I think everyone wants to see

Originally posted by: Ashrozia

Why not? Repentance is the answer to every sin..Doesn't mean you keep on committing sins and keep repenting..There's a limit to everything..That's why I said, if the repentance is shown in a proper way, there shouldn't be any problem as such. Repentance should be big, yes. And please, the track hasn't even started..How can you be sure of it not sending out any message? Pre-marital sex is the most common thing out there, if they are trying to send out a message for the majority, then why not?
And yes, Aalekh hasn't done anything to deserve this..But then, Sakshi will fall for him if she's here to say. She'll love him to bits of which I am sure!

LOL! 🤣 I spoke about the bar dancer thing as a possibility..Why not? Television hain, sab possible hain..So, you would accept her if she's a bar dancer just because she looks like Sadhna. And yeah, just because a girl looks like Sadhna doesn't mean she's Sadhna..And I can also say, what if Sakshi becomes as true as Sadhna was in the later part of the serial? That shouldn't be a problem then? If one can see only the negative part of Sakshi, there is another positive part in her too..Or could be.

And her being pregnant isn't the end of the world, c'mon! Just because she had pre-marital sex, doesn't make her a BAD person..If she repents enough, she can be every bit true!

Well.. its not Just because you see...
I cannot accept that. Personally I cannot accept anyone in Sadhana's place , except Sadhana and I hold that if a look alike of Sadhana were to be introduced then she will fall properly in her place cause of the rep she is holding in this show.

If sakshi were to become like Sadhana I would be fine with it but, since they are showing as pregnant then I do not think it's a possibility of her being anything like Sadhana.


Unfortunately , people consider pre-marital intimacy to be of something of an easier note. It certainly is not. I did not call her bad but the act is sinful.

Now . she is pregnant (is it confirmed yet? and even if it is not it does show that she did have relationship with tarun, otherwise why would she suspect)


What will happen to the child? Abortion? Another issue ... killing a life?

to hide one sin another sin is being committed. How convenient and then one asks , that its not the end of the world , C'mon? If she choses to abort the child , its the end of the world for that child. What wrong would that child have committed?

About the messages its sending out.. today's world its a 'c'mon' to have pre-marital intimacy and to be taken lightly so if thats not wrong message I do not know what else is.

i agree with both u😆.....i am so confused.....suchitra made some very good points....some of them i agree with completely....and kez(if thats ur name)also made some good ones......i am such a thali ka baingan

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Well.. its not Just because you see...
I cannot accept that. Personally I cannot accept anyone in Sadhana's place , except Sadhana and I hold that if a look alike of Sadhana were to be introduced then she will fall properly in her place cause of the rep she is holding in this show.

If sakshi were to become like Sadhana I would be fine with it but, since they are showing as pregnant then I do not think it's a possibility of her being anything like Sadhana.


Unfortunately , people consider pre-marital intimacy to be of something of an easier note. It certainly is not. I did not call her bad but the act is sinful.

Now . she is pregnant (is it confirmed yet? and even if it is not it does show that she did have relationship with tarun, otherwise why would she suspect)


What will happen to the child? Abortion? Another issue ... killing a life?

to hide one sin another sin is being committed. How convenient and then one asks , that its not the end of the world , C'mon? If she choses to abort the child , its the end of the world for that child. What wrong would that child have committed?

About the messages its sending out.. today's world its a 'c'mon' to have pre-marital intimacy and to be taken lightly so if thats not wrong message I do not know what else is.

Ok, what if Sadhna's look alike turns out to be another Sakshi? U wouldn't be saying the same right..U'd say that she'll become good..Same with Sakshi.

And puhleeeeeezzz! I never said 'C'mon' for pre-marital sex, don't twist my statements please! I have values good enough, thank you. I said that there are loads of people in and around India who're involved in pre-marital sex, that doesn't make them bad people..Their acts, however, are sinful. If they repent more and enough, it's not wrong..Repentance brings you closer to God..U can't be faultless, everybody commits sins..How you repent for it determines your character. It's just human to be sinful.

Besides, pre-marital sex is one of the biggest temptations going around..Not many can resist it. Many do that and realize how wrong they were later on..Sakshi would be doing just the same. She'll repent for her sins, and thus, her character would be redeemed.

And abortion? LOL, it's not even confirmed that she's pregnant, how did the issue about abortion come in now? How can you be so sure that she WOULD abort her child? Give her a break, LOL! 🤣

no sex before marriage......our culture and our minds just dont accept it......no matter what time or period it is......girls and boys who engage in this kinda behaviour will always be looked down upon.....and it should remain that way.....otherwise we will become like the west....where 9 year old girls are getting pregnant these days.