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gilmores

@gilmores

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#21

I think we need to take a chill pill here. There's no need to go personally attck members and publicly insult them on the forum if you disagree with them. Just like Jyoti says, if anybody has personal problems with any other member, we have PM services for a reason.

Also, let's remember that Bidaai is a F-I-C-T-I-O-N-A-L show with fictional characters. Most of what happens in Bidaai is not possible in real life and the way characters react is also very unrealistic. Let's face it, 7 year olds do not act like Khushi/Tammy do. Sadhna used to go overboard in her sacrifices. Ragini's reactions in the rift track were not only against her own character but also nowhere near how people behave in real life after a miscarriage. Ranvir--well nobody tells his wife to marry somebody he met 4 days ago and tells her that he doesn't want anybody to ever remember him. People on the forum, however, are REAL.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: SohaniD
@Omshanti1111,

I have a small thing to tell u regarding this whole thread.

When somebody is attacking u by stooping so low, how r u tolerating it..

I would like u to take strong steps regarding this..

I will never take this kind of personal attack against me and will fight till last

Because I dont have any intention of interacting with few members in anyway, whether good or bad. I never read also some mebers posts and nowadays by experience, without opening a post, I can make out what the other person has written. I see here some posts are made just to contradict me, I dont care. I always try to keep myself aloof from severe praises or criticisms. I know what I have written for Ragini and what my intentions were. I have criticised Sara Khan also in the blog for showing her waist line always...I never did anything wrong...

I want to share something. A time came, when some members ganged up and made a false id to demean me, I know who the persons were. You can only have sympathy towards that.

Again, a member wrote to me that Bani, because of your continuous demand for a proper repentence track for Ragini, those powerful doalgues of repentence were given to Ragini post
Sampoorna Parivaar"...

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478480

Suspended

Posted: 15 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
Because I dont have any intention of interacting with few members in anyway, whether good or bad. I never read also some mebers posts and nowadays by experience, without opening a post, I can make out what the other person has written. I see here some posts are made just to contradict me, I dont care. I always try to keep myself aloof from severe praises or criticisms. I know what I have written for Ragini and what my intentions were. I have criticised Sara Khan also in the blog for showing her waist line always...I never did anything wrong...
I want to share something. A time came, when some members ganged up and made a false id to demean me, I know who the persons were. You can only have sympathy towards that.

Again, a member wrote to me that Bani, because of your continuous demand for a proper repentence track for Ragini, those powerful doalgues of repentence were given to Ragini post
Sampoorna Parivaar"...

I can't believe people can stoop so low for a fictional show.. good u have that much patience to handle it..

I can't do it

Edited by SohaniD - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: SohaniD

I can't believe people can stoop so low....

its not stooping low...I dont blame them...I think they could not understand what I had tried to convey by the use of that word to the creatives, it was a message to the creatives, that they are doing extreme injustice to the character of Rgaini and that a strong repentence track was needed...everyone, whether a Ragvir or Salekh fan was totally upset in that track ...Salekh fans were tired of criticising Ragini and Ragvir fans were tired of defending Ragini...everyone wanted the rift to end.... I think in order to understand something properly one needs to go through the whole picture...Anmol's character cannot be understood from one day, but when we take the whole pic of seven years, we can say how genuine the character is...its same for my posts...I kept on telling the same thing gain and again, so that attention is given to that detail.

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Purehearts

@Purehearts

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#25

Bani I have immense pleasure to read your analysis as it is well written always.In my opnion the word has done much harm then serve its purpose.We all have our opinion and I respect everyone's here.

Ct s are changing their stand as the script demands( to increase TRPs off course).And Ragini was a very confusing character at that time, lot of question arise and she was unexplainably different and negative.I guess Cts were continuing their story and also giving what the viewer demanded(Ragvir romance) at the same time.But we can't deny what we saw, though we all might interpret it very differently.

In serials no character is stable and any serial for that matter is not worth detailed analysis.

But we all come here as a social group with common interst, at the end of discussions, it helps us grow our analysis, and understand variety of people and their thoughts.When thoughts flow the analysis will change as we accept others thoughts.We all have the same rights to talk about a character whether it is Sadhana or Ragini.Everyone has freedom to say their thoughts, and people can agree or disagree.
So verbal abuses are uncalled for here.We need to maintain sanity and respect here for each other as we are all real people with real feelings!!!!

Edited by Purehearts - 15 years ago

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

Inactive

Posted: 15 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: Purehearts
Bani I have immense pleasure to read your analysis as it is well written always.In my opnion the word has done much harm then serve its purpose.We all have our opinion and I respect everyone's here.

Ct s are changing their stand as the script demands( to increase TRPs off course).And Ragini was a very confusing character at that time, lot of question arise and she was unexplainably different and
The guess Cts were continuing their story and also giving what the viewer demanded(Ragvir romance) at the same time.But we can't deny what we saw, though we all might interpret it very differently.

In serials no character is stable here and any serial for that matter is not worth detailed analysis.

But we all come here as a social group , at the end of discussions, it help us grow our analysis, and understand variety of people and their thoughts.When thoughts flow the analysis will change as we accept others thoughts.We all have the same rights to talk about a character whether it is Sadhana or Ragini.Everyone has freedom to say their thoughts, and people can agree or disagree.
So verbal abuses are uncalled for here.We need to maintain sanity and respect here for each other as we are all real people with real feelings!!!!

exactly, thats what I am saying, If you do not like anything of mine, just tell it in a proper way.

Like I used to write Ragini as Rags and Sadhna as Sads, and a Ragvir fan wrote to me, pls dont write "rags". Believe me, after that day, I never wrote Rags for Ragini or Sads for Sadhna. I did not report against the person that he/she was trying to attack me, I just respected his/her wish, although he/she did not have any authority to tell me what to write and not.

If you look at the blog and read the posts, you will yourself forget what "sanity" is. I dont blame RS for not responding.

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

Alumni

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: SohaniD

I can't believe people can stoop so low for a fictional show.. good u have that much patience to handle it..

I can't do it

Relax everyone and hv faith on Dev team..necessary action has been taken against the member..so peace😳

And PMs will b answered by tomorrow😳

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Sweet-Violet

@Sweet-Violet

Rocker

Posted: 15 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111
Because I dont have any intention of interacting with few members in anyway, whether good or bad. I never read also some mebers posts and nowadays by experience, without opening a post, I can make out what the other person has written. I see here some posts are made just to contradict me, I dont care. I always try to keep myself aloof from severe praises or criticisms. I know what I have written for Ragini and what my intentions were. I have criticised Sara Khan also in the blog for showing her waist line always...I never did anything wrong...
I want to share something. A time came, when some members ganged up and made a false id to demean me, I know who the persons were. You can only have sympathy towards that.

Again, a member wrote to me that Bani, because of your continuous demand for a proper repentence track for Ragini, those powerful doalgues of repentence were given to Ragini post
Sampoorna Parivaar"...

@bold: What's the need for this statement ? Someone could just be sharing his/her own views that doesn't tally with yours. On one hand you are saying that you read selective posts then how come you know someone is trying to contradict you. Are you part of the CV team or PH who knows exactly what they are trying to show in a particular scene ? There are so many people in this forum who don't agree with me...so what..are they doing this intentionally ? This is a public forum...we come here to discuss the show and everyone has their own viewpoint. Its just a TV show...don't think anyone is right or wrong in their analysis. We all speak from our viewpoint, experiences and likes and dislikes and I see nothing wrong with that.

Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago

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smitha

@SPN_JD_Addicted

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 15 years ago

#29

LOL Anu!Everyone comes here to discuss as per the epi and happenings don't they?Why would one want to post if they don't 'feel' it just to contradict!I know,i give importance to my thoughts and accordingly post them here! 😉 Otherwise imagine lol all your posts can end up being wrong lol.One view here and one elsewhere!

BTW,what was this topic abt?TaShi right?
Not natural what the CT's are trying to show!Teenagers I could understand.But 7 for god sake!they are just babies!

Edited by SPN_JD_Addicted - 15 years ago