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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

I won't start being a hypocrite now by saying I am a 'TRUE BIDAAIN' cos I always watched Bidaai for RagVir and now I will watch it for AnGini!Whether it's considered as supporting Bidaai or not,don't know!

Thanks so much. Appreciate your honesty😊 Truly. 😳
I am not a Bidaaian, for that matter I don't consider any television serial so important to my life.
We watch television for leisure and therefore I come to this forum for updates and news. Its depressing to see young people so consumed by fictional characters and reel heroes that they forget what is their own life.
Its sad to see young girls abuse producers, channels and cry their hearts out........over what?? A reel hero and heroine? A television actor?.......When nothing wrong has happened in our real lives. Its not our mother, father, brother sister who is dead or has gone away......So why create so much heartburn for oneself.
If support has to be given, then it should be peripheral and positive, not something that is going to make us full of harsh feelings.
Hope you understood and I did not hurt anyones feelings.😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU....Its good to know their are other people who also think the same way as me
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I totally agree with the topic maker.... it was their choice to leave the show so y should the rest of the team suffer on their cost with nasty comments from these so called "fans"
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

A true Bidaai fan is one who loves or criticises Bidaai based on the performance of it as a complete show, as a team...your article is very logical...as long as the script and execution are good, its worth watching...but then everyone has their own likes and dislikes...

Thanks for understanding😊 Appreciate that you wrote. I must confess, I regularly follow what you write and find you one of the mature people around here.😳😳
I understand and am all for personal likes and viewpoints. But liking should not be taken to such a level that the lines between our real and reel imagination get blurred.
I am no one to comment on anyones preference, but if some of these angst ridden activists were my sisters or brothers, I would feel sad at what our culture has come too.
Life is beautiful, and television is a short part of it. Why let it consume us so much.
As for your point on logical story line and execution, I agree with you. I think the current storyline is very engaging where its interesting to see how Ragini helps shape the kids. Its much better than watching a cluless mush filled track.
Of course it may not be very engaging romance wise, but then how engaging can a constant television showcase of Mills and Boons get😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: StarzzPro

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU....Its good to know their are other people who also think the same way as me

Thanks for writing😊 And for giving the comfort that there some people do identify with my rationale. Cheers!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Kasturilover,I really can't blame the girls as well cos at that age it's easy to get attached to a fictional show and the characters and trust me I have been there too and its normal.I can say for myself that in my teenage years and early twenties I wanted only romance be it books or films.Thank God I haven't watched any TV shows at that time.So I can understand what they are going through.

Just cos Sara and KInshuk left that doesn't mean the show has become a joke.What abt the remaining two who chose to continue?I will watch for them and more than anything comments like we are seeing made me to watch it even more lol and I am a romance addict and though I love RagVir I still would want to see love between AnGini cos second chances do come in a lifetime.What they are showing is not unrealistic!In RL,we don't want our sister or a friend or any girl suffer for eternity if they lose their husband, it being shunned here is really sad.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: komalk88

I totally agree with the topic maker.... it was their choice to leave the show so y should the rest of the team suffer on their cost with nasty comments from these so called "fans"

Thanks for writing😊 . That was precisely my point.
In fact I think its good to see them explore new shows. A good example is someone like rajeev Khandelwal or Ronit Roy, he has improved with a variety of roles. Or even Hussain, I like him very much as a reality show host.
They have shown their versatality and why not encourage them😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

To like minded members of Bidaai

This is not about Sara or Kinshul or Apurvaa. This is about the serial Bidaai.
I would not want Bidaai to end. Here is why
a) Respect the actor........not just the character
I think Sara and Kinshuk are talented young people and if they decide to pursue something better at a young age then their wishes must be respected.
So called "true fans" should be happy for their 'idols' and support them as people........not as mere characters. 😳
I like Kinshuk and Sara and support them. But I also support the entite unit of Bidaai which is trying to produce a television serial. 👏
b) Bidaai is also about the others actors, technicians etc
Bidaai and Directors Kut is not about the leads. What crime have people like Alok Nath, Seema, Angad and Parul done that their serial should be shut just because people don't like a particular story track or pairing?😕
There are many technicians, back-up artistes, support staff, spot-boys, ordinary workers, creative team whose livelihood depends on this show. 😳 Why should they suffer so much hate mails. Just because some of us don't like the romance shown of a so called unwanted pair?😕
Now we can say they can all find new jobs. So then what about their families if they dont find jobs. Indian TV Industry is a very competitive and crowded place where all of the above other staff and artistes may not easily find jobs.
c) Are Sara and Kinshuk our slaves or puppets?
I must confess I never really understand what a 'true fan' means? 😕Sure we must show our displeasure. But the above actors have left out of their own will for better career prospects.
Will you like it if your job task or study materials is the same every single day of your work life/ student life. Will you not want to progress in your career. So why not Sara and Kinshuk.
Why create such a furore over their leaving. If we really so called love them, then we must hope they move on to better things and succeed.👏
Anyways to cut the story short, I would want Sara and Kinshuk to excel in their chosen path and wish them the best for their future endeavors. 😳
Therefore I would not want Bidaai to end........not now when the story is still engaging. It is still a far better serial than the some of the other terrible fare on Television.😳
I am not preaching. So if you cannot understand the context and don't have constructive comments, you may kindly not respond.
Thank you.

I totally agree with ya. Infact you said pretty much what I've been thinking all these while.As a Bidaaian I love this show.
Agreed that we had two deaths in bidaai family that was hard for all of us to cope with, it was devastating but then life moves on and you start to cherish those memories and be happy with what you have. I watch Bidaai for wholesome entertainment and Bidaai itself ( this is not the first time I am saying this ). I don't know why on earth some ppl want this show to end when they claim that they aren't even watching it.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Kasturilover

Thanks for understanding😊 Appreciate that you wrote. I must confess, I regularly follow what you write and find you one of the mature people around here.😳😳
I understand and am all for personal likes and viewpoints. But liking should not be taken to such a level that the lines between our real and reel imagination get blurred.
I am no one to comment on anyones preference, but if some of these angst ridden activists were my sisters or brothers, I would feel sad at what our culture has come too.
Life is beautiful, and television is a short part of it. Why let it consume us so much.
As for your point on logical story line and execution, I agree with you. I think the current storyline is very engaging where its interesting to see how Ragini helps shape the kids. Its much better than watching a cluless mush filled track.
Of course it may not be very engaging romance wise, but then how engaging can a constant television showcase of Mills and Boons get😳

first of all thanks for your kind words...
As far as I understand, Bidaai is now a mature story line and there are many intersting things to happen or can happen/, some of them I look forward are
1. Anmol-Ragini relationship: as I wrote before, Ranveer-Ragini relationship, so is Anmol-Ragini. Accepting Anmol in no way makes Ragini do injustice to Ranveer, even if Ranveer had not forced Ragini to marry. It is a mature love story and I look forward to it. I am pretty sure, taht there are many real life incidents like Ragini, where the girl loses husband at a young age and not many find people like Anmol. So, its worth seeing how this sort of situation should be tackled.
2. Khushi-Tamanna-Kavya: how they behave, how they think...all are actually influences of genes and parenting. All three are kids, they are born with their minds as "kora kagaz."...their need to be saved from getting polluted.
3. Alekh-Vasu: Vasu chose Sadhna, which became a triumph card for her, as sadhna was basically a good person, But now through this new girl, she is attempting again the same thing, to get Alekh married. But its not obvious that this girl will be another Sadhna for Alekh. So before she makes any decision, she needs to know exactly what she is doing.
there are loads of good stuffs from this story line.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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SPN_JD-Addicted, Nepkanchhi, Omshantii1111

Thanks so much for writing and sharing your pespective. 😊 Ifeel honored and humbled.

There are some thing I wish to write in response and will write to your posts shortly.

Thanks again, I was very apprehensive when I made my topic, but now I am glad to have received your participation😊

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