Selflessness is in her blood... - Page 7

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I just read your comment, will read the others later..

yeh, CTs want to show Khushi as a roop of Sadhna, as Ragini has said also, that Khushi does not even know what sacrifice is..so she is basically not doing any sacrifice for the sake of it, she is just seeing her happiness through Tammy's. Different people have different explanations of happiness, same goes for children. Different children have different needs and reasons to remain happy. Look at Kavya, he is almost of the age of Khushi-Tamanna, but he is different, his environment is different. He is taking mostly his mother's qualities, although he is staying in a joint family. Inheritance is a big factor. For Khushi, happiness is defined in another way and which is not normal for a child of her age.

Ragini is very right that she needs to make Khushi understand what Khushi is doing, Ragini is acting very mature and wise. Anmol also left the decision upto her, and let her make the decision and then supported her decision saying what she did was "perfect". Anmol did not want to impose, rather make Ragini confident enough, if her decision is right, she is fine, if it is wrong, then also it is fine, she will learn from her mistake.

Khushi will not suffer like Sadhna, because she has Ragini, Vasu, Inder, Anmol...noone hates her like Kaushi, Nani did to Sadhna.

Originally posted by: reguser

Ragini's reaction to Khushi's words seems really positive. It is good to hear that Ragini wanted to stop Khushi after knowing Khushi's intentions.

Actually, both kids need to be guided in this matter. Khushi should know that lieing to teacher (for whatever reason) is not correct and at the same time, Tammy should learn to accept winning/loosing (getting/not getting a role) are all a part of life. Ragini has a major role as a mother here.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Agree with you.Forgot to mention this earlier that Ragini was actually so worried for Alekh after he took the blame on himself of cutting the dress into pieces. She was telling Anmol that she would discuss this matter with Alekh's doctor when he comes for next visit. There could have been serious complications for Alekh. He has no idea of right and wrong at this moment, he was just helping Khushi as her best friend not as a responsible father.
The point is that we often fail to look the bigger picture. There are 40 kids the class, why would teacher only choose Tammy even if Khushi backs out. This is very unrealistic situation and this is something she has to understand.
As for Khushi being Sadhana's roop, the way she takes care of her father and loves her father the most says it all along with her bonding with Ragini and Tammy.

@Bold - Yes, I know. According to me the cutest phase of Bidai was Sadhna and Alekh's dosti after their marriage. It was something unique. Yes, Khushi is similar to Sadhna. Hope Alekh gets better for the sake of his daughter soon. That will be a good track to watch,

Originally posted by: reguser

I totally understand your point and agree with it 100%. Khushi doesnt do the sacrifice just for the sake of it. She gets happiness in it. I have mentioned about my 2 cousins in one of my previous post where one of my cousin was just like Khushi (to her sister) when we were all young. Khushi doesnt even know that she is sacrificing. For her, Tammy's happiness is more important than her own. That is her nature.

But, having seen the past history of Bidai, I hope Cts never make Khushi as sacrificing as her mom. As you (and me too) always mention, selflessness doesnt need to be sacrificing all the time. I expect Khushi to get all the happiness in her life which her mother didnt get (for whatever reasons).

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Ragini yesterday used another word along with sacrifice while relating Khushi and Sadhna....She used the word "love"..."Pyar aur kurbani isse Virasat mein mili hain"..for Khushi, its not sacrifice, she does not understand what sacrifice is... it is her definition of happiness. Her happiness lies in seeing others happy and this will lead her to become a selfless human being later. Everything happens in stages. One can make out whether a child will be interested in science or arts, by observing his/her interests from childhood. Whether a train is heading to north or south, one can make out from the direction of its engine and the track it is following, right?

I liked Anmol so much yesterday. The example he gave Ragini was to make her aware that she is the mother of two children, she has to decide right to instill positivity in both the children. Even if Khushi wants to leave the role of fairy, Ragini as a mother figure wants to stop that. First of all, she needs to make Khushi understand that what she is doing might not be right at the end, at the same time she is making Tamanna understand the value of acceptance, that we do not always get what we aspire for.

Originally posted by: reguser

Brilliant analysis again, Bani. 👏

You are making me see Bidai now. 😛 I really want to see the part where Ragini says these words and also want to see how she feels for Khushi.

I had actually stopped watching it since many many days. Just reading the updates for the sake of coming to forum.

This forum has magic. There are really good discussions taking place.

Now, I will see the episode 😃

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Wow Ragini. what a dialogue you said that "Khushi is Sadhna's daughter, sacrifice is in her blood". A daughter like Khushi can only be born from a mother like Sadhna. At this age, such selflessness, such attitude to see others happy...Ragini is right, Khushi is not ordinary. An ordinary girl cannot think so big. A girl of her age is expected not to behave so selfless.

I had a complaint that CTs should have shown Sadhna's childhood more, only a few sequences were shown. I wanted to see how people like Sadhna are from their childhood. Khushi fulfilled that wish, I know that Khushi is exactly Sadhna's childhood figure. Sadhna also must have all these qualities from her childhood, that made her extraordinary. Today, Bidaai seems to be complete, they showed a selfless woman in Sadhna, a selfless man in Anmol and a selfless child in Khushi....these people who make the world, because they are not ordinary. They know to laugh and cry at other's happiness and sadness and they have the heart to take away the tears from others eyes and bring smile to the others faces...

Originally posted by: luv_sakshi

Well said!👏👏👏...Truly, loved Ragini's dialog on how only Khushi can be so sacrificial 'coz of her genes..😳..she's truly inherited that quality from her mother!👏👏👏...n there are only a few people like her, who'd go out of their way to see others smile!😊...Khushi is a complete sweetheart!🤗...she was so determined to see Tammy become the fairy in the school play, that she pretended to be ill..😭...n she kept telling Tammy that there couldn't be a better fairy than Tammy..😳👏...n did you notice how much she was enjoying herself from the backstage, watching Tammy perform?...Aww..how sweet👏👏👏...n the last part where Khushi fights for her Dad, confronting everyone n letting them all know that she had the best Papa in the whole wide world n that she was so proud of him!!👏👏👏👏👏..That Khushi-Papa scene on stage today was so touching!!😭😭😭...Khushi silenced everyone who dared to accuse her Papa..👏👏👏...Long Live Khushi!😳