Selflessness is in her blood... - Page 4

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Purely scientifically, no one is born is selflessly. There may be parents who were selfless in life, but their children can be anything but that. Genes sadly do not make you selfless, b/c there there is no selfless genes. Genes may make you timid, extrovert/introvert, but even these characteristics need enviornmental influences ji.

As a child, individuals carry with them a sense of who they are and what makes them different from everyone else-real or imagined. Bidaai has basically shown Sadhna to be selfless, and she is dead. From this logic, Khushi cannot make this characteristic involved into her personality b/c she does not have that example around her. For a child, to think abstractly at the age of 7 is so far seen to be impossible. Research has shown that abstract thinking happening after puberty hits, ie adolosecence years.

Some members have discussed egocentrism already, so I will not go into that. I shall go into something called the intuitive thought substage-a substage where children begin to use primitive reasoning and begin to want to know answers to all sorts of questions. This is a stage that occurs in a 7 year old's life. Khushi seems to be well beyond this stage, and is reasoning more abstractly and asking questions that are more abstract. Personally for me going by research and science, Khushi portrays a very unrealistic 7 year old. Children can be nice and sweet, no denying that. However, children cannot be selfless in the sense Khushi is shown. Their brain development cannot allow that. Also, Khushi's environment is not the kind that will evoke such feelings, if any feelings do get evoked it would be shyness.

The CVs (or CTs) are showing something very unrealistic. It is a fiction show, however at least get your basics right. They are showing an adult formation of moral development in Khushi's character. She is 7, she cannot think abstractly to have this development. For her to reason out her moral decisions towards others is very impossible for one simple reason-her brain has not developed to that extent. Her moral reasoning should only be at heteronomous or autonomous morality.

That being said, it is a fictionous show. I do not expect it to show reality, and for me Bidaai is very fictionous. I agree there are selfless people in the world. However, I do not agree to how Bidai has shown it; especially in a 7 year old. Genes work only so far ji, and that too in accordance with brain development.

This is solely my point of view that I have put forth according to what I have learnt and observed through psychology and med. Everyone is allowed to disagree with me :).

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Purely scientifically, no one is born is selflessly. There may be parents who were selfless in life, but their children can be anything but that. Genes sadly do not make you selfless, b/c there there is no selfless genes. Genes may make you timid, extrovert/introvert, but even these characteristics need enviornmental influences ji.

As a child, individuals carry with them a sense of who they are and what makes them different from everyone else-real or imagined. Bidaai has basically shown Sadhna to be selfless, and she is dead. From this logic, Khushi cannot make this characteristic involved into her personality b/c she does not have that example around her. For a child, to think abstractly at the age of 7 is so far seen to be impossible. Research has shown that abstract thinking happening after puberty hits, ie adolosecence years.

Some members have discussed egocentrism already, so I will not go into that. I shall go into something called the intuitive thought substage-a substage where children begin to use primitive reasoning and begin to want to know answers to all sorts of questions. This is a stage that occurs in a 7 year old's life. Khushi seems to be well beyond this stage, and is reasoning more abstractly and asking questions that are more abstract. Personally for me going by research and science, Khushi portrays a very unrealistic 7 year old. Children can be nice and sweet, no denying that. However, children cannot be selfless in the sense Khushi is shown. Their brain development cannot allow that. Also, Khushi's environment is not the kind that will evoke such feelings, if any feelings do get evoked it would be shyness.

The CVs (or CTs) are showing something very unrealistic. It is a fiction show, however at least get your basics right. They are showing an adult formation of moral development in Khushi's character. She is 7, she cannot think abstractly to have this development. For her to reason out her moral decisions towards others is very impossible for one simple reason-her brain has not developed to that extent. Her moral reasoning should only be at heteronomous or autonomous morality.

That being said, it is a fictionous show. I do not expect it to show reality, and for me Bidaai is very fictionous. I agree there are selfless people in the world. However, I do not agree to how Bidai has shown it; especially in a 7 year old. Genes work only so far ji, and that too in accordance with brain development.

This is solely my point of view that I have put forth according to what I have learnt and observed through psychology and med. Everyone is allowed to disagree with me :).

Originally posted by: ~*simran*~

Purely scientifically, no one is born is selflessly. There may be parents who were selfless in life, but their children can be anything but that. Genes sadly do not make you selfless, b/c there there is no selfless genes. Genes may make you timid, extrovert/introvert, but even these characteristics need enviornmental influences ji.

As a child, individuals carry with them a sense of who they are and what makes them different from everyone else-real or imagined. Bidaai has basically shown Sadhna to be selfless, and she is dead. From this logic, Khushi cannot make this characteristic involved into her personality b/c she does not have that example around her. For a child, to think abstractly at the age of 7 is so far seen to be impossible. Research has shown that abstract thinking happening after puberty hits, ie adolosecence years.

Some members have discussed egocentrism already, so I will not go into that. I shall go into something called the intuitive thought substage-a substage where children begin to use primitive reasoning and begin to want to know answers to all sorts of questions. This is a stage that occurs in a 7 year old's life. Khushi seems to be well beyond this stage, and is reasoning more abstractly and asking questions that are more abstract. Personally for me going by research and science, Khushi portrays a very unrealistic 7 year old. Children can be nice and sweet, no denying that. However, children cannot be selfless in the sense Khushi is shown. Their brain development cannot allow that. Also, Khushi's environment is not the kind that will evoke such feelings, if any feelings do get evoked it would be shyness.

The CVs (or CTs) are showing something very unrealistic. It is a fiction show, however at least get your basics right. They are showing an adult formation of moral development in Khushi's character. She is 7, she cannot think abstractly to have this development. For her to reason out her moral decisions towards others is very impossible for one simple reason-her brain has not developed to that extent. Her moral reasoning should only be at heteronomous or autonomous morality.

That being said, it is a fictionous show. I do not expect it to show reality, and for me Bidaai is very fictionous. I agree there are selfless people in the world. However, I do not agree to how Bidai has shown it; especially in a 7 year old. Genes work only so far ji, and that too in accordance with brain development.

This is solely my point of view that I have put forth according to what I have learnt and observed through psychology and med. Everyone is allowed to disagree with me :).

Originally posted by: KiNnY-pArTnEr

I wil read all the commes tommrow than wil reply..🤣

Originally posted by: Veritas

well said..
being a fictitious show...logic is far away from bidaai cts...
But we have seen discussions on morality and religion based on bidaai tracks..
so a scientific opinion should count once in a while too..😊

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

LOL Sania!