Selflessness is in her blood... - Page 3

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Thanks everyone for your support. I was sacred to post that it might be taken as going against Khushi. lol

Coming back to Anmol(won't talk about Ranveer or Sadhana), He is very nice guy and I adore his character. But selfless ? Not really. Ranveer gave him a new life and the family he ever wanted. Even though Vasu dislikes him so much and Ragini hasnt accepted him as her husband in real sense, he is there for the girls (TaShi) specially Tammy who loves him to the core. Its a give and take thing. Also he is very much in love with Ragini.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

i know... i believe, rather it is my firm belief that these good quallities of any human has not gone worse... there are very nice people...

interesting incident from your Germany visit... it does not grow over night i agree, but for some people it is born & some learn eventually... for khushi it is her inborn quality....thank u....😃

agreed...

most people have these qualities in them inborn...when it is inborn, these are more pronounced. whereas people who learn by experiences also are not rare...its ultimately ones good deeds, whether inborn or acquired do not matter.

Originally posted by: Veritas

I don't believe in inborn qualities ... because tht somehow gives credence to superiority of caste/race/color....which by itself is a dangerous argument.
Upbringing matters..the situations a child sees through childhood does matter.
Yes Khushi lost her mom and her dad is not exactly sane...but she is growing up in a very loving atmosphere...
I don't mind it if they show a grown up as selfless but putting this kind of a burden on a child is quiet bad...

I agree with Anu ..a few days ago we had this discussion on kids cognitive abilities and Anu said Khushi is NOT reasoning things out or judging/predicting peoples behavior,she is innocent and thinks tearing up the dress made Tammy happy...
But in todays episode they showed her reason it all out including how the adults would behave/judge...a 7 year kid cannot plan like tht....

I may get brickbats for this but Sadhna bought a lot of suffering to herself...like for Kaushi's operation....she could have easily informed Ranvir(but th is CT's problem)...

do we want to see Khushi suffer needless ly or lead a less thn perfect childhood and sacrifice her way through life..just because they need someone always crying in the serial...I don't

Make Anmol/Ragini or Vasu cry....they have enough reasons to be sad.

Originally posted by: sami01

anu dear i want to share my POV here,since u know i believe in shanti ,absolutely respect Ur views here,but I feel Anmol was selfless from start,if u look carefully even though he helped with saving a child and all but gave all credit to ranvir,later on when he realized ranvir wanted his valuable land for charity,he gives that to him,i feel those qualities r considered selfless.See he is human being but a very good ,selfless human being.Look yes he did long for family like ranvir,but he never asked Ranvir to save his life,I agree he is in love with ragini and kids,but that doesn't make him selfish.What he did for inderjit and his family 2 days ago was actually epitome of goodness na.Also 6 years with a woman who has not accepted you,Even for sake of children is a lot to do.Also how can we forget that ranvir asked almost impossible off him.Creatives haven't shown them yet,but those past initial years where he gave even his identity away for sake of this family must have been something na...just my POv i think if he becomes more selfless than this he will become god or devta .😃

Originally posted by: --Anu--

Don't worry hon, you don't have to agree with me. 😃 Why does a person automatically become selfish if he is not considered selfless ? Why isn't there any middle ground ? IMHO, Anmol is a very nice human being but he is no saint or selfless. I don't think he is selfish either.

Originally posted by: SPN_JD_Addicted

Originally posted by: arshiya4

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I sometimes doubt wther you love sadhna and khushi or hate them.I mean after reading ur post I feel sadhna and khushi are unluckiest ppl on earth whose fans only want them to sacrfice their life's happiness just to satisfy their very want of seeing a sacrficing figure,an extraordinary personality in them

I really love this girl khsuhi alot, and i feel like scolding her when she was doing all such thing,i really want her to live life happily and exploit every oppurtunity that life brings to her.Just to be extraordinary u dont need to prove that by sacrficing anything.

Khushi doesn't need to do such unnecessary sacrifices .She was chosen as fairy and she got a wonderful oppurtunity and she must exploit it.

Comeon she is just a small baby,why do all guys want this little ,innocent baby to act as a mature sacrificing figure.