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Rahm

@Rahm

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Posted: 15 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: shanti05
Hum tho Gandhigiri kar rahey hai 😆 Right sammy !!!

We don't come here to fight either. At least not me. I come here and talk about my frustrations that I'm sure others are feeling.

Live and let live as we've been saying. If that was done then there wouldn't be any fights.

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@sami01

Sparkler

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Posted: 15 years ago

#112

arey shanti jyo ka forum hai, uska lihaaz kar rahe hain hum ...aur waise bhi gandhigiri ..to hum hamesha ..se karte aa rahe hain....😉

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gilmores

@gilmores

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Posted: 15 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: Rahm

My point was that Mamaji's character is making illogical moves. He knew that if Sadhana spoke the truth, his damand, his daughter's husband would remain in jail and perhaps even get a longer sentence, but he believed in speaking the truth regardless of the consequences. Luckily, the gunda told the truth otherwise Ranvir would still have been in jail.

Now after finding out how Ranvir died, he asked that to be hidden? This is so important not only for him, but for Ranvir's family. They DESERVE the truth. Mamaji might regret it, but for the time being his entire character is being questioned by me. All throughout Bidaai from day 1, Mamaji has preached telling the truth and now that ideal of his is gone?

It really is a point of no return. That's why I said live and let live. If you like the show, join in on the positive topics about it and ignore the negative. It's really not that difficult to do. If you do notice bashing then report it otherwise you keep to the topics that make you happy. This is the only way things will be peaceful.

I don't understand why some people are complaining. Just like you like the storyline, there will be others who dislike the storyline. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, na?

Completely agree! Word for word!!

Mamaji's sudden change is too much. From a man who preched the truth under all circumstances, he is now like, Ranvir's death should be hidden! His daughter has a right to know how her husband died! Ranvir's family NEEDS to know how Ranvir died! He wants his daughter to begin a new relationship on secrecy? Mamaji?😕

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Shanti

@shanti05

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Posted: 15 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: Rahm

We don't come here to fight either. At least not me. I come here and talk about my frustrations that I'm sure others are feeling.

Live and let live as we've been saying. If that was done then there wouldn't be any fights.

Areey No yaar I was trying to spread Gandhigiri and many do the same thing in their own way

Chalo we will take the nara "Live and let Live !!"😳

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Rahm

@Rahm

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: shanti05
Areey No yaar I was trying to spread Gandhigiri and many do the same thing in their own way

Chalo we will take the nara "Live and let Live !!"😳

Great. 😊 I'm glad we settled that. I hope that you do continue posting. 😊

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Rahm

@Rahm

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Posted: 15 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: chocolover89
Completely agree! Word for word!!
Mamaji's sudden change is too much. From a man who preched the truth under all circumstances, he is now like, Ranvir's death should be hidden! His daughter has a right to know how her husband died! Ranvir's family NEEDS to know how Ranvir died! He wants his daughter to begin a new relationship on secrecy? Mamaji?😕

Relationships that begin on secrecy often fall apart when the truth is revealed. How Ranvir died has been kept from Ragini for 6 years. If she chooses to move on and then the truth comes back to her, it will hit her so hard that she will fall into a bigger depression than she is now and it'll be even harder to get her out of it. She will question every move she made before the death and everything after it. It is better than everything is out in the open before she decides to move on because then she will have true closure.

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Shanti

@shanti05

Stunner

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Posted: 15 years ago

#117

Maybe if Anmol starts feeling for Ragini and if she also starts doing the same Anmol himself may want to tell her and she might decide abt what is right for her ..

So we may have to wait for that high point of the show..

It will nt be fair if Ragini dose'nt knw the cmplete truth of Ranveers death and move n in life if she does with Anmol
And I hpe the creatives dn't make Anmol hide it frm Ragini if they have any kinda cnfessin fr each thers in the future

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Rahm

@Rahm

Rocker

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Posted: 15 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: shanti05
Maybe if Anmol starts feeling for Ragini and if she also starts doing the same Anmol himself may want to tell her and she might decide abt what is right for her ..

So we may have to wait for that high point of the show..

It will nt be fair if Ragini dose'nt knw the cmplete truth of Ranveers death and move n in life if she does with Anmol
And I hpe the creatives dn't make Anmol hide it frm Ragini if they have any kinda cnfessin fr each thers in the future

I hope he does tell her the truth and doesn't listen to Mamaji.

If he doesn't tell her truth, when the truth comes out, Ragini will be furious with him, not her father. Also, it will make Ragini question everything in her life. She needs complete closure before she can move on and if she moves on without this closure, things are going to be really bad. She might become like Vasu--bitter.

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15836

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Posted: 15 years ago

#119

Maybe I am the only the person who has watched this show from the beginning (well not every episode but b/c family likes it, I knew everything that was happening-watching 85% episodes) and has enjoyed the leap more than before.

A bidai is always done of a girl, maayka to sasural-so this show started off as a show of two sisters. The concept of fair and dark was very interesting and something I was willing to watch. At the beginning they kept to the original, however, I lost interest when it went into the same old ek hi jaan suffering-how cliched. After both marriages, bidai hogi thi so what was Bidai then?

I never liked this show b/c they never explored the concept. I hated the jiji jiji chant of Sadhna's, and Ragini's underdevelopment. I would have prefered some realistic storylines-Vasu ki treatment to Ragini due to her color, and dislike for Sadhna. I would have liked transitions to have been realistic.-even in rift track. I would have enjoyed the rift track if it was more realistic. I never understood why Ranveer was waiting for Sadhna to say it in court. He was all smiles when he was sentenced, and I was so angry at him. He could have easily told the court haan I did it. However, they illogically had to stretch it and make Sadhna suffer.

Oh and then after marriage when Ranvir tells Ragini those three rules. I never liked Ranvir again after that episode. If it were me, I would have taken my mangalsutar and ring off, and would have given them back to him. I would have told him good luck buddy finding a servant, last time I checked I was a wife. Seriously now, husband nahi koi malik ho gaya.

What is my point? Oh yes, generalizing that those who have watched from the beginning may not enjoy the leap is not fully correct. I am one of those who has liked the leap (mind you, I'm just waiting for the love story and Alekh's acceptance of Sadhna gone). Well, I never really care for the jodis so maybe that is why I don't mind when they break. I usually end up choosing the new person b/c they always seem to respect the individual more lol.

For me Bidaai has gotten to back to its' title-a bidai of daughters. Khushi and Tamana ki ab bidai hogi. Again both are dark and fair, but Tamana seems to have more self-confidence than Ragini did-maybe b/c of the enviornment. However, I feel there will be more testing times. Ragini has been through color discrimination and it will be nice to see how a mother in her handles it. Kaushi was a mami to Sadhna, but Ragini is a mother to both-a situation that I am more than willing to see. How will Ragini be a mother to both, and how the girls will grow up etc is interesting to me.

Lastly, as this is a public forum everyone is entitled to have an opinion (theoretically speaking). Yes, there is emotional attachment to shows, but at the end of the day they are just shows. There is absolutely no need to argue with each other over opinions b/c opinions are not facts and everyone can say whatever opinion (IF it is polite to others' opinions along the way). Criticism and bashing have just a thin line separating both, so one needs to be careful. As this a public forum, the underlying tone of the post may not be read, and something very different could be taken. So opinions are most welcomed on this public forum, but these opinions must be respectful of others' opinions too.

This is my POV only-my opinion.

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gilmores

@gilmores

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 15 years ago

#120

Originally posted by: Rahm

Relationships that begin on secrecy often fall apart when the truth is revealed. How Ranvir died has been kept from Ragini for 6 years. If she chooses to move on and then the truth comes back to her, it will hit her so hard that she will fall into a bigger depression than she is now and it'll be even harder to get her out of it. She will question every move she made before the death and everything after it. It is better than everything is out in the open before she decides to move on because then she will have true closure.

Beginning a realtionship on secrecy and especially one of husband-wife is a terrible idea. I hope Anmol tells Ragini the entire truth of how Ranvir died. She deserves to know and she needs that full closure as well before she begins her new life. If she finds out afterwards, it could have adverse effects..but I think that is why the DT has left it..they want to create drama/ misunderstandings with it..

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