Personally, I don't think there is anything wrong with asking questions and enquiring about things you deserve to know. I think the OP addressed the situation well. Expressing your frustration and allowing him to know how angry/ upset you are about the situation is fine. Insulting him, and accusing him is not! I'm only referring to what I've seen on the blog. While some of us have been simply enquiring or and venting our frustration, others have been a bit abusive. So in that respect , yes he does need a break. And when did we finally get a response from rajan? When the OP addressed him in a respectful manner… that says a lot. Perhaps if we continue this way, he might give some answers.