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Posted: 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Neither Ranvir's nor Alekh's reaction was unnatural. In fact both were very consistent with their characters. Alekh usually is calm and composed, especially after he got normal. Ranvir on the other hand has always been the angry young man.
Alekh like an older brother looked at the big picture, while Ranvir is very upset with Inder--both are right. Obviously somebody needs to be angry with Inder, and to find out that your dad cheated on your mother and then pretends like everything is normal and even blames her for the fact that he strayed is nothing to be happy about.
But I will lose it completely if I hear either Sadhna or Ragini say anything along the lines of Inder made a mistake, forgive him. Cheating on your spouse is NOT a mistake. Soemthing you do knowingly is not a mistake, and Inder cheated on Vasu after their marriage because of a fight and he couldn't deal with her attitude. He should have just divorced her if he couldn't deal with Vasu. While your spouse may have some fault in you cheating, cheating is a despicable action and much woorse than anything your spouse could ever have done to you.
Vasu knows Inder cheated on her, but doesn't know about Karan right? And she still forgave him and cares about him? Now that is unlike Vasu, especially because this is before Alekh was born.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: chocolover89

Neither Ranvir's nor Alekh's reaction was unnatural. In fact both were very consistent with their characters. Alekh usually is calm and composed, especially after he got normal. Ranvir on the other hand has always been the angry young man.

Alekh like an older brother looked at the big picture, while Ranvir is very upset with Inder--both are right. Obviously somebody needs tobe angry with Inder, and to find out that your dad cheated on your mother and then pretends like everything is normal and even blames her for the fact that he strayed is nothing to be happy about.


But I will lose it completely if I hear either Sadhna or Ragini say anything along the lines of Inder made a mistake, forgive him. Cheating on your spouse is NOT a mistake. Soemthing you do knowingly is not a mistake, and Inder cheated on Vasu after their marriage because of a fight and he couldn't deal with her attitude. He should have just divorced her if he couldn't deal with Vasu. While your spouse may have some fault in you cheating, cheating is a despicable action and much woorse than anything your spouse could ever have done to you.


Vasu knows Inder cheated on her, but doesn't know about Karan right? And she still forgave him and cares about him? Now that is unlike Vasu, especially because this is before Alekh was born.




i agree with you regarding alekh and Ranvir. As for Sagini, they will be trying to maintain peace in house by trying to convince everyone that what Inderjeet has done in the past may be crime but it was long time ago and since then he had respected and fulfilled every relation.So let past be past and move on for everyone's peace sake. Yes, Vasu has been wronged and she has only two option - forgive or break the relation, both are difficult for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well ranveer ka reaction tha woh sahi tha aur alekh ka reaction galat tha kyonki agar husband apni wife ko cheat kare to kaun sa beta hoga jo bardash karega mana ki aap elder ho calm ho per calm hona gaya tail lena cheating woh bhi apni wife se itni badi bhool aur yeh kahna ki papa hum aapke saath hain bahut ajeeb aur sharamnaak baat hai kisi ke liye koi beta yeh bardash nahi kar sakta na karna chiye aur sadhna ke baare main yehi kahoongi ki usne apne husband ko galat samjhaya kyonki achha hona ek baat hai but itni badi baat ko support karna bilkul galat hai chahe aap ke ander kitni bhi achhai kyon na bidaa humain yeh sikhana chahta hai ki aap galat karo apni wife ke saath aur phir bhi aap us insaan ko support karo badi ajeeb baat hai
guys its totally my POV no offence
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree with you regarding alekh and Ranvir. As for Sagini, they will be trying to maintain peace in house by trying to convince everyone that what Inderjeet has done in the past may be crime but it was long time ago and since then he had respected and fulfilled every relation.So let past be past and move on for everyone's peace sake. Yes, Vasu has been wronged and she has only two option - forgive or break the relation, both are difficult for her.

I understand that for the peace of the family they might say that, but cheating, for me, is not a mistake. A mistake is committed unknowingly, and there's no way cheating on your spouse happens without one's knowledge.
This will never happen, but if Ranvir or Alekh were to cheat on Ragini or Sadhna, Sagini wouldn't still maintain that we should just forgive and forget right? Actually scratch that, this is Indian TV, female protagonists forgive even cold-blooded murder, cheating is like nothing. In fact usually only Ekta's heroines used to stand up for themselves and refuse to accept a cheating husband atleast for a very long time.
Vasu has a tough time ahead of her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: yshd_sharma

well ranveer ka reaction tha woh sahi tha aur alekh ka reaction galat tha kyonki agar husband apni wife ko cheat kare to kaun sa beta hoga jo bardash karega mana ki aap elder ho calm ho per calm hona gaya tail lena cheating woh bhi apni wife se itni badi bhool aur yeh kahna ki papa hum aapke saath hain bahut ajeeb aur sharamnaak baat hai kisi ke liye koi beta yeh bardash nahi kar sakta na karna chiye aur sadhna ke baare main yehi kahoongi ki usne apne husband ko galat samjhaya kyonki achha hona ek baat hai but itni badi baat ko support karna bilkul galat hai chahe aap ke ander kitni bhi achhai kyon na bidaa humain yeh sikhana chahta hai ki aap galat karo apni wife ke saath aur phir bhi aap us insaan ko support karo badi ajeeb baat hai

guys its totally my POV no offence



Well I agree that extra marital affairs are unacceptable and divorce is better option than that when there are no kids affected by it. As far salekh support to inderjeet, yes they are supporting inderjeet but their support doesn't mean that they are justifying/supporting his past misdeed/crime(affair).In my view they are supporting his repentence and pashachayatap(couldn't find english word for it) while acknowledging vasu's pain and are concerned for her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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<div>I understand that for the peace of the family they might say that, but cheating, for me, is not a mistake. A mistake is committed unknowingly, and there's no way cheating on your spouse happens without one's knowledge.

This will never happen, but if Ranvir or Alekh were to cheat on Ragini or Sadhna, Sagini wouldn't still maintain that we should just forgive and forget right? Actually scratch that, this is Indian TV, female protagonists forgive even cold-blooded murder, cheating is like nothing. In fact usually onlyEkta's heroines used to stand up for themselves and refuse to accept a cheating husband atleast for a very long time.


Vasu has a tough time ahead of her.



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Posted: 15 years ago
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Himani,well said as always!

Both the brothers reactions were normal.Alekh seems to be the mellow one of the two so it was great to see him consoling his father.That being said seeing Ranvir in despair and angry was great too(Did i mention hot?lol)Anyways.extra-marital affair no matter what the circumstances is a big NO-NO.And Ragini did a right thing by not trying to make him see Inder's POV or anything.She gave him the space he needed and just was there for him.

I think the DIL's still are numb to this revelation looking at Sadhana and how uncomfortable she was after the pooja.And I hope the girls wouldn't say to their husbands to just sweep it under the rug and forget it.And frankly,that doesn't show greatness in them,just supporting a wrong thing!JMHO!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Himani,well said as always!

Both the brothers reactions were normal.Alekh seems to be the mellow one of the two so it was great to see him consoling his father.That being said seeing Ranvir in despair and angry was great too(Did i mention hot?lol)Anyways.extra-marital affair no matter what the circumstances is a big NO-NO.And Ragini did a right thing by not trying to make him see Inder's POV or anything.She gave him the space he needed and just was there for him.

I think the DIL's still are numb to this revelation looking at Sadhana and how uncomfortable she was after the pooja.And I hope the girls wouldn't say to their husbands to just sweep it under the rug and forget it.And frankly,that doesn't show greatness in them,just supporting a wrong thing!JMHO![/QUOTE] Lols Ranvir's been looking hotter and hotter day by day! Angry young man suits him!
@bold That's what I don't want to see at all, and that's what I'm scared we're going to see especially because of the track record of both...
Plus it sends out a very wrong idea-- that you should just forgive and forget everything people do no matter how painful and wrong it is!
And you're absoluetely right! there's nothing great, or mahaan, or best bahu like in telling Ranvir and Alekh to just pretend like nothing happened and live happily ever after.
Trust is the most important aspect of any relationship, when that breaks, then the relationship can be very hard to maintain!

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