Sadhna cannot be too ziddi I know ... but when she will get that unconditional love, I reckon she will feel that she have more rights on Alekh than ever before ... and so she will be more open to him ... and yes, Alekh should enjoy that alot!...
Thus, I dont think that this "sweet nagging" actually comes out of being "ziddi" ... but it probably comes out from being "more open" to ones spouse ... trying to work on trying to bring more into a relationship by being very opinionated ... or by being very proactive to make the spouse or the relationship more enriched....
Sadhna's ways are also very special... she is the not the one who would pull Alekh, or jump, or be stubborn ... ... but she will just sit shaking in a sad corner, looking curiously at the marbel floor ... concerned... AND THIS LOOK WILL DRIVE ALKH LIKE CRAZY ... and he will rush in to say "Kya hua Sadhna" ... and then Sadhna will tell her "opinion" ... unless Alekh be UNDERSTANDING... she will look curiously concerned at the floor .... and then ALEKH AGREES ... she will jump with joy and look at him in his eyes 👏😊 ... and maybe a Kiss 😉 (wow what a bonus~!)👏😳