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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rahm



Even if she had scars on her face, it would be covered up as her body is. That's what happens when you're burned. My friend got badly burned so I know and her face was covered for like a month or so. You still wouldn't have seen the burn marks.

Anyways, the CTs are showing Aalekh's unconditional love. He's the ONLY person who sees her body.. no one else. It's only his love that we the viewers need to see in such a situation.

you know, I didn;t want to say this, lest you people feel I am proud. People opine about me that I am pretty. I myself got burned in the stomach once, and that too from steam while a beautician was doing a facial. I never had any mental problems with the burn scars....it left some marks initially, but later got healed also...
there are 1000s of ways to show unconditional love and I feel its a very stupid idea on the creatives part to show Alekh's unconditional love for Sadhna this way...especially, Sadhna's character has been sketched in such a way, a character who cares the least about her beauty. She has no complexities or superiority about her beauty. Most of the time, she is even with least make up. Its like a forceful thing, actually CTs feel we have to believe what they show us.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Purehearts


@red highlighted,I think it is not Bani but our society .And also a person's self esteem might get hurt when body gets dysmorphed. Remember even the doctor at the hospital indicated that.
I have seen teenagers and some ladies cry at breakout of even a pimple and get depressed.

Yes anbody can feel low when your are not happy with your physique, be it burn or being fat.
But Sadhana, the mature girl she is, will be alright!

Today when they showed Alekh putting her saree, her hands were covered because she had fracture not because she had burns.l



Exactly!!!!!! @ the bold. That's what I meant. It's realistic to show that Sadhana is concerned and uncomfortable with her body right now. That's what I wanted to see. I wanted the creatives to show Aalekh's unconditional love which they did today.

Sadhana is mature and that's why after Aalekh claimed his love, she was fine right away. She didn't drag out the issue. She realized that she has a husband who will love her no matter what.

Yeah, but the show is claiming that her hands are covered due to her burns. If you notice, her entire stomach and back was covered too.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111




you know, I didn;t want to say this, lest you people feel I am proud. People opine about me is I am quite pretty compared to my contemporary girls. I myself got burned in the stomach once, and that too from steam while a beautician was doing a facial. I never had any mental problems with the burn scars....it left some marks initially, but later got healed also...
there are 1000s of ways to show unconditional love and I feel its a very stupid idea on the creatives part to show Alekh's unconditional love for Sadhna this way...especially, Sadhna's character has been sketched in such a way, a character who cares the least about her beauty. She has no complexities or superiority about her beauty. Most of the time, she is even with least make up. Its like a forceful thing, actually CTs feel we have to believe what they show us.



But Bani, you have to understand Sadhana's mentality. She dresses up with sarees and jewelry and makeup FOR her husband. When you're married, things are different. Aalekh never saw scars on her and now all of a sudden he will and burn marks can look pretty scary so of course yaar she's going to feel weird.

Your situation and Sadhana's is two different things.

Sadhana does care about her beauty to an extent. That is character sketch. IF she didn't she wouldn't wear so much jewelry and sarees all the time.

Remember the time Aalekh was ignoring her after he became normal? Ragini dressed Sadhana up to attract her husband. When they went to the resort, Sadhana wore a suit and stood in front of Aalekh hoping to get a compliment. She does care about she looks because she wants to be beautiful for her husband. I think all girls want that.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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maybe all these characters ( anand/chirag, karan, simran) are all somehow related to inderjeet. well there is no doubt now about karan, but then why would anand and simran help him if not for a good reason... and what the point of the bracelet scene if it has no reason to be...
I think we just have to wait and see all the twists the creatives have in store... I'm sure every thing will fit in the track eventually;
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rahm



But Bani, you have to understand Sadhana's mentality. She dresses up with sarees and jewelry and makeup FOR her husband. When you're married, things are different. Aalekh never saw scars on her and now all of a sudden he will and burn marks can look pretty scary so of course yaar she's going to feel weird.

Your situation and Sadhana's is two different things.

Sadhana does care about her beauty to an extent. That is character sketch. IF she didn't she wouldn't wear so much jewelry and sarees all the time.

Remember the time Aalekh was ignoring her after he became normal? Ragini dressed Sadhana up to attract her husband. When they went to the resort, Sadhana wore a suit and stood in front of Aalekh hoping to get a compliment. She does care about she looks because she wants to be beautiful for her husband. I think all girls want that.

Sadhna did not dress up with so much make up as does Ragini or Vasu...did u see that?.most of the time, she puts on very less make up and puts on simple saris..her beauty was always a curse for her..plus, she had an abnormal husband, and when he got cured, she was thrown out, she used to put on simple clothes and never tried to entice him with her beauty.
I feel the creatives should have shown something different, instead of this beauty stuff...like, she might be unable to conceive due to internal haemorrhage or burned her face...that would have made more impact...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: saathiya93

maybe all these characters ( anand/chirag, karan, simran) are all somehow related to inderjeet. well there is no doubt now about karan, but then why would anand and simran help him if not for a good reason... and what the point of the bracelet scene if it has no reason to be...

I think we just have to wait and see all the twists the creatives have in store... I'm sure every thing will fit in the track eventually;

Creatives would definitely come up with something and we have to swallow what they show...but how far those will be worth believing, that is yet to come up
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111



Sadhna did not dress up with so much make up as does Ragini or Vasu...did u see that?.most of the time, she puts on very less make up and puts on simple saris..her beauty was always a curse for her..plus, she had an abnormal husband, and when he got cured, she was thrown out, she used to put on simple clothes and never tried to entice him with her beauty.
I feel the creatives should have shown something different, instead of this beauty stuff...like, she might be unable to conceive due to internal haemorrhage or burned her face...that would have made more impact...



She does dress up. Have you watched Bidaai from the beginning? Sadhana wears heavy sarees. Her beauty was a curse for her until she got married. After that her beauty was for her husband even if he was abnormal. Sadhana used to wear heavier makeup. Darker lip color, but now she wears less lip color, however she wears jewelry and sarees.

The point is not how much she wears, but the fact that she does wear them because she cares about how she looks. Every single human being does.

Plus, I pointed out episodes where Sadhana has shown she cares like when she asked Ragini to help her get ready so Aalekh could notice her or when they went to the resort and she wore the suit and waited for Aalekh's compliments.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Rahm,
i completely agree to what u r saying..but Sadhna's character has been sketched very differently...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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oh, and sorry, I replied to the initial post, the subject of the tread has somehow changed to sadhna's insecurity and outer beauty... confusing 🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rahm



She does dress up. Have you watched Bidaai from the beginning? Sadhana wears heavy sarees. Her beauty was a curse for her until she got married. After that her beauty was for her husband even if he was abnormal. Sadhana used to wear heavier makeup. Darker lip color, but now she wears less lip color, however she wears jewelry and sarees.

The point is not how much she wears, but the fact that she does wear them because she cares about how she looks. Every single human being does.

Plus, I pointed out episodes where Sadhana has shown she cares like when she asked Ragini to help her get ready so Aalekh could notice her or when they went to the resort and she wore the suit and waited for Aalekh's compliments.

I have seen Bidaai from day one...that was one instance and another instance, when she dressed up well for Alekh was in the resort...but Alekh never cared for her beauty then also, although both instances are different...other than that, she is always with least makeup... during the mallika episodes also, she never tried to entice Alekh with her beauty...and plus during her recent Bidaai also, not even a kajal...she put on heavy saris, jsut after the first wedding when Alekh did not even have sense whether his wife is pretty or not..
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