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Firstly, I'd like to apologize for not being present all week...have LOADS of work to complete in the next few weeks. But I'd like to take this opportunity to tell EVERYONE that I will be pretty inactive for the month of June. With tests, labs and now exams right around the corner...I cannot guarantee how much I will be online. If the matter is VERY important and must be dealt with right away, please do NOT hesitate to PM me. I will try and login as much as I can...but I'd like to request everyone to try their best and progress with healthy discussions.
And yes...I did say healthy discussions. I know many must be looking at this and going "is she for real?!" 🤔
Yes, I am for real...and I know considering the not-so-good times we have been having in terms of character bashing & personal attacking, the words "healthy discussions" seem obsolete. 🤔
It's time for the STAR PARIVAAR AWARDS...the time where the STAR PARIVAAR comes together. Is it too much to ask for the BIDAAI FORUM PARIVAAR to come together as well?! 🤔
We should REALLY be working together as a PARIVAAR and supporting BIDAAI. If this continues...you really expect Sadhna, Alekh, Ranvir, Ragini, Salekh OR Ragvir to get an award? The Sadhna fans will vote for Sadhna, Ragini fans for Ragini, Ragvirians for Ragvir and Salekhians for Salekh? Votes will be distributed and all of you will end up losing, and with that loss...Sara, Parul, Kinshuk AND Angad will lose out JUST BECAUSE of the partiality in this place. Lets face it...if we come together, theres no stopping us.
But can that really happen? Now, I leave that up to you all...because considering what has been going on in my absence, I am wondering if Bidaai will win anything this year. 🤔
Lets give our thanks to the WHOLE Bidaai team...because we ALL know that without Sara, Parul, Kinshuk OR Angad, Bidaai would not be what it is today. So instead of taking into mind if we're Ragvirians or Salekhians...can we not just be Bidaaians for now? 🤔
I was SO involved in the SPA voting system last year...because everyone wanted Bidaai and ONLY Bidaai to win, but what happened this year? Bidaai isn't based around Ragvir or Salekh...the whole TEAM has played a part in bringing you both couples.
Okay, regarding the personal attacking....are you people for real? Even after Jyots and I kept posting notes in every other topic like 2 weeks ago...you're still making us type all of this again? After we said we were getting strict? It seems like some of you WANT to get in trouble...please prove me wrong.
PERSONAL ATTACKING IS AGAINST THE INDIA-FORUMS CODE OF CONDUCT, THEREFORE LEAVE IT OUT OF HERE. Personal attacking is the by far, the action that I have the BIGGEST problem with...which is why, I have been repeating myself. Call me annoying...but you tell me, wouldnt you feel frustrated if people were just NOT listening to you and distrupting the peace of a forum where such nice people exist?
And character bashing? Lets face it...Sadhna & Ragini both played crucial roles in bringing each other's jeevan saathis closer to them. In other words, Ragvir wouldnt be where they were today if Sadhna encouraged them...and Alekh would still misunderstand Sadhna if Ragini didnt discover the truth and be the mastermind behind the plan. Away from Ragvir and Salekh for a second...let me go with Sadhna & Ragini, as everyone seems to be arguing who is the better patni, behen, DIL, SIL and so on. I know this defeats the purpose of the SPAs...but no matter who you all find the better patni or behen, the truth is that both Sadhna & Ragini are beautiful human-beings, who love each other so deeply that now, nobody & nothing can do anything to break them apart. Their love for each other is eternal and will never die away...yes, we did see the rough times a few months back. But look...it just made their love grow into such a beautiful picture. Being a good human-being is the most important thing...and Sadhna & Ragini have met the expectations.
So before saying Ragini is a negative character, who only loves Ranvir and doesnt care for anyone else...or before saying Sadhna is a terrible patni and takes advantage of others, lets just drink some cold water and think about our actions. Because one day...God forbid, Ragini sacrifices herself for Sadhna's sake...or God forbid, Sadhna sacrifices herself for Ragini's sake...the people who are bashing the "opposing" character today will end up praising their "mahaan" actions and realizing that it is either sister who saved their other sister.
I can make this one simple too...I know that most of you here are IMMORAL and can tell when you are violating the rules of NO CHARACTER BASHING, NO INDIRECT REMARKS, NO UNNECESSARY SARCASM, NO HURTFUL REMARKS and so on. So please...dont bombard us with even more work, waise bhi...I am already flooded in the amount of work pending so I'd appreciate it if you THINK TWICE before you post ANYTHING you know is instigating. DON'T DO IT...ITS AS EASY AS THAT.
Anyways, I'm over and out...giving this topic ONE LAST CHANCE to continue with ANY POSITIVE DISCUSSIONS, WITH NO BASHING OR INDIRECT REMARKS. Any justified complaint against any post henceforth...will force me to close this topic.
Thanks,
the Bidaai Development Team. 😊
thanks for this. wil read it later though
btw u guys mod dont take tension
we are goody goody now
BTW Darling..i aplricate u r work
thanks for this
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