Indrajeet or Vasu - Who Changed Who?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Ok guys, regarding Anand's issue, some of us think Vasu would have become the way she is now bcos of Indrajeet's infedility, whereas others think it might be Vasu's attitude & behaviour toward's Indrajeet that instigated him to commit such a mistake. So in either case, one of them changed the other in the relationship. But who changed who? Well this is my take on the issue....
Having seen Vasu's attitude all this while towards relationships, people, etc., its very difficult to believe that she is the one who was wronged and it wasn't she who initiated the entire thing.
If you take individual incidents of Vasu's attitude and behaviour with people, her OWN sister wanted her DESTROYED and we all know what led CM to do everything that she did (even though its wrong), so if her attitude towards her ELDER sister was like this, do you think she would have respected her husband? We all know how her behavior towards Dadi Bua was, we have heard that it was Vasu who kicked her out of the Rajvansh house. Whatever it is, it was DB who brought up Indrajeet, so disrespectfully sending her to some old age home was definitely not right. Her behaviour towards Sadhna & Ragini, towards Maamaji and his family, and now even towards her sons, tell me which relationship has she done complete justice to till now in her life? Someone as selfish as her, who just want people older and younger to her to live their life as how she demands, to obey her rules, how can any man be happy with someone like her?

In my opinion, definitely Vasu would have shown her true colours just after marriage. And at that time maybe Indrajeet was young with high expectations from marriage and his wife and within 1 year of marriage, he would have been totally shocked and disappointed. This initial disappointed must have made him vulnerable and led him to find solace in someone who understands him. And maybe he legally wanted to separate from Vasu and not cheat her, but Daddaji would not have permitted this considering 'badnami' in society, bad name to 'Rajvansh', etc. So I don't think property would be the main reason Indrajeet stayed back. Since Indrajeet respected Daddaji, Daddaji must also have emotionally blackmailed him and taken his promise to remain with Vasu. And we all know that Indrajeet is not as money minded as Vasu, if we think about his positive attitude towards Maamaji and family, and his attitude towards love, relationships, etc.

If Vasu was shown as someone who does justice to everyone and only punishes wrong people, we can think about the possibility of her having become like this because of her husband's infedility. But considering that her attitude from the beginning itself was like this, maybe this is just the way she is and its not any incident that made her like this, cos if it was so, she wouldn't have ill-treated people like her OWN ELDER sister, DM, etc. at that time itself.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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One thing I wanna know is Anandwa's age. Is he older than Alekh? If so it means he was conceived before Alekh...and at a very early stage of Indu's marriage with Vasu...which means that Vasu ticked him off immediately. If Anandwa is younger than Alekh, then it's more complicated...perhaps this incident happened after the Dadaji incident, and after Alekh's issues began...which would then mean Indu had this affair while married and father of two sons already...

I personally think Vasu is the issue here (she always is)...but it doesn't justify Indu ji's actions.

I won't say more...I'm sure my dear Laxmi will chime in soon and have a lot more to elaborate on. 😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wonderful post Aparna...worth thinking..

I feel Vasu was a dominant character from her childhood. I wont say she was bad, but she definitely had a superiority complex about herself, which led to all these. This complex might have been in her, and also our society and family sometime become responsible to increase this complex. The surroundings of Vasu from her childhood might also be equally responsible, as instead of putting her to right track and checking her habits, they probably pampered her. It is not a very rare scene in our society, where someone beautiful is always pampered and parents have blind affection towards a child.

Also, I dont think its very logical for Vasu to marry a guy, who has rejected your own elder sister's proposal , just because she was dark complexioned and wanted to marry Vasu just because she was fair and more pretty. This also gives some wrong ideas about Vasu's character.

Next, with my thought that Vasu was dominant, this might have resulted in Indrajeet's and Vasu's widening of gap post marriage. No marriage can survive by control, rather marriage is where both partners share and show their understanding side.

Vasu minus her ego and her rude behaviour, is an ideal character, for me. If Vasu's personality can be acquired by any girl wihout that ego part, I am pretty sure, it will be great.
I hope Vasu's parents had rectified her, because childhood is the only time when someone can be moulded easily.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice analysis on Vasu.
Only one doubt I have here is about Dadi Bua. I havent seen much of Bidaai during that time. So dont know much about this character. I feel, there must be a reason for Vasu's disliking towards her. Dadi Bua must have questioned Vasu's authoritative nature as I feel Dadi bua herself wanted to rule everyone (not so sure). So Vasu being what she is, wouldnt have tolerated someone else questioning her supremacy. And the way Dadi Bua instigated Ragini, I dont think she is a saint šŸ˜†
I cant justify Indu's past and at the same time I cant say he was totally wrong. He being a weak character, may not have fought with his problems ("marnewali biwi" šŸ˜†). This is (or was?) the problem with Vasu. She majboors weak characters take drastic actions (eg. Indu, Ambika).
But, I have a feeling he stayed back not just for fearing for "Khandan ki izzat" but also for money and the social status along with the fear of loosing his family (which includes his father, wife, son (may be Alekh was born), and brother).
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

Nice analysis on Vasu.

Only one doubt I have here is about Dadi Bua. I havent seen much of Bidaai during that time. So dont know much about this character. I feel, there must be a reason for Vasu's disliking towards her. Dadi Bua must have questioned Vasu's authoritative nature as I feel Dadi bua herself wanted to rule everyone (not so sure). So Vasu being what she is, wouldnt have tolerated someone else questioning her supremacy. And the way Dadi Bua instigated Ragini, I dont think she is a saint šŸ˜†
I cant justify Indu's past and at the same time I cant say he was totally wrong. He being a weak character, may not have fought with his problems ("marnewali biwi" šŸ˜†). This is (or was?) the problem with Vasu. She majboors weak characters take drastic actions (eg. Indu, Ambika).
But, I have a feeling he stayed back not just for fearing for "Khandan ki izzat" but also for money and the social status along with the fear of loosing his family (which includes his father, wife, son (may be Alekh was born), and brother).

You are right about your analysis of Indu..
as per DB is concerned, DB and Vasu both are dominating characters, thus they will never be able to stay together. They both were strong personalities and thus would clash.But there is a way to everything, not just throw her to an old age home and ask everyone to cut ties (Indu used to send money without anyone's knowledge).
actually, instead of putting her in old age home and cutting ties, they could have worked some other alternatives, where she could enjoy her independence and authority as well as could see her people around...it was best to engage her in some activities (like the work she used to do in old age homes), ...idle brain is a devil's workshop
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

You are right about your analysis of Indu..
as per DB is concerned, DB and Vasu both are dominating characters, thus they will never be able to stay together. They both were strong personalities and thus would clash.But there is a way to everything, not just throw her to an old age home and ask everyone to cut ties (Indu used to send money without anyone's knowledge).
actually, instead of putting her in old age home and cutting ties, they could have worked some other alternatives, where she could enjoy her independence and authority as well as could see her people around...it was best to engage her in some activities (like the work she used to do in old age homes), ...idle brain is a devil's workshop

Oh she was in oldage home is it? Didnt know that. Thats sad. But, I am surprised after coming from oldage home, she didnt change her nature šŸ˜† This shows people dont change really.
Anyhow, whatever was done with her was not right. As u suggested, there are better ways to handle the situation.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

Oh she was in oldage home is it? Didnt know that. Thats sad. But, I am surprised after coming from oldage home, she didnt change her nature šŸ˜† This shows people dont change really.
Anyhow, whatever was done with her was not right. As u suggested, there are better ways to handle the situation.

you see, people's basic nature never changes...
Sadhna had suggested Ragini-Ranveer as to DB staying in another house with all facilities, when she had heard about the problems between DB and Vasu. That would have been a mature decision. Anyways, DB's nature and her clashes with Vasu did not allow her to last long in RH house, sadhna anticipated this very well.
Avni actually instigated DB against Sadhna saying that Sdahna was against her returning home. Anyways, DB was always against Sdahna as Sadhna was fair and pretty, Avni added more fuel to the fire...
actually, this was another example, which showed how Sdahna's beauty was a curse on her...which was actually the major question in the story of Bidaai...are prettier girls indeed lucky than their dark skinned counterparts?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i think cv's have changed vasu and will soon b changing inderjeet too.....................lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: yanks28

One thing I wanna know is Anandwa's age. Is he older than Alekh? If so it means he was conceived before Alekh...and at a very early stage of Indu's marriage with Vasu...which means that Vasu ticked him off immediately. If Anandwa is younger than Alekh, then it's more complicated...perhaps this incident happened after the Dadaji incident, and after Alekh's issues began...which would then mean Indu had this affair while married and father of two sons already...

I personally think Vasu is the issue here (she always is)...but it doesn't justify Indu ji's actions.

I won't say more...I'm sure my dear Laxmi will chime in soon and have a lot more to elaborate on. 😃

Well I guess Anand should b older than Alekh as remember Vasu was telling Inder couple of days back about something that happened one year after their marriage? So I guess everything happened after one year of marriage, so dont think it would be after Alekh was concieved. Definitely, Inder's actions cannot be justified if he had an affair with another woman as there is no excuse to infedelity, but since we know Inder is not a bad human being and a much better one than Vasu, we are just trying to analyse the reasons and situations that must have led him to commit such a mistake.
Well we have lots of possiblities gathered by many members in the forum regarding the situation that must have led Inder to conceive Anand, from movies like, 'Ek Hi Bhool' - shower sequence, 'Ganga Jamuna Saraswaathi' - transfering body heat situation, etc šŸ˜†!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Well I guess Anand should b older than Alekh as remember Vasu was telling Inder couple of days back about something that happened one year after their marriage? So I guess everything happened after one year of marriage, so dont think it would be after Alekh was concieved. Definitely, Inder's actions cannot be justified if he had an affair with another woman as there is no excuse to infedelity, but since we know Inder is not a bad human being and a much better one than Vasu, we are just trying to analyse the reasons and situations that must have led him to commit such a mistake.
Well we have lots of possiblities gathered by many members in the forum regarding the situation that must have led Inder to conceive Anand, from movies like, 'Ek Hi Bhool' - shower sequence, 'Ganga Jamuna Saraswaathi' - transfering body heat situation, etc šŸ˜†!

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