Ok guys, regarding Anand's issue, some of us think Vasu would have become the way she is now bcos of Indrajeet's infedility, whereas others think it might be Vasu's attitude & behaviour toward's Indrajeet that instigated him to commit such a mistake. So in either case, one of them changed the other in the relationship. But who changed who? Well this is my take on the issue....
Having seen Vasu's attitude all this while towards relationships, people, etc., its very difficult to believe that she is the one who was wronged and it wasn't she who initiated the entire thing.
If you take individual incidents of Vasu's attitude and behaviour with people, her OWN sister wanted her DESTROYED and we all know what led CM to do everything that she did (even though its wrong), so if her attitude towards her ELDER sister was like this, do you think she would have respected her husband? We all know how her behavior towards Dadi Bua was, we have heard that it was Vasu who kicked her out of the Rajvansh house. Whatever it is, it was DB who brought up Indrajeet, so disrespectfully sending her to some old age home was definitely not right. Her behaviour towards Sadhna & Ragini, towards Maamaji and his family, and now even towards her sons, tell me which relationship has she done complete justice to till now in her life? Someone as selfish as her, who just want people older and younger to her to live their life as how she demands, to obey her rules, how can any man be happy with someone like her?
In my opinion, definitely Vasu would have shown her true colours just after marriage. And at that time maybe Indrajeet was young with high expectations from marriage and his wife and within 1 year of marriage, he would have been totally shocked and disappointed. This initial disappointed must have made him vulnerable and led him to find solace in someone who understands him. And maybe he legally wanted to separate from Vasu and not cheat her, but Daddaji would not have permitted this considering 'badnami' in society, bad name to 'Rajvansh', etc. So I don't think property would be the main reason Indrajeet stayed back. Since Indrajeet respected Daddaji, Daddaji must also have emotionally blackmailed him and taken his promise to remain with Vasu. And we all know that Indrajeet is not as money minded as Vasu, if we think about his positive attitude towards Maamaji and family, and his attitude towards love, relationships, etc.
If Vasu was shown as someone who does justice to everyone and only punishes wrong people, we can think about the possibility of her having become like this because of her husband's infedility. But considering that her attitude from the beginning itself was like this, maybe this is just the way she is and its not any incident that made her like this, cos if it was so, she wouldn't have ill-treated people like her OWN ELDER sister, DM, etc. at that time itself.
Edited by *dewdrop~pearl* - 15 years ago