Originally posted by: ManaliS
I am not a bidaai fan...i don't even watch this show anymore...
but yes this used to be my fav serial once n i used to adore ragvir n salekh! anyways today i just logged on to this forum n saw this post....saw the replies first n then saw the video..
n i am honestly surprised...
this forum has changed so much..i mean its like there are two group of fans who can't miss a single opportunity to bash the other group's fav...what the heck was wrong with this video? beats me..
she is an actress and a model.. n she was doing her job.. i do NOT see anything wrong in that photo-shoot...very normal one..which most models would do..where did religion n all came from?
i started disliking bidaai long back...but yes one more thing contributed to that..n that was this FORUM...sorry to say that a forum which used to be friendly...n where everyone used to have healthy discussions n fun has been overtaken by bunch of obsessive fans!!
i was a huge ragvir fan... ask anyone here...i mean the old members...everyone knows it... but all the old members disappeared n this forum became like just another forum with bunch of crazy fans..who are obsessed with their favs....this is what forced me to quit this forum..whether its ragvir or salekh..no one leaves an opportunity to bash the others favs..
i am not sara or sadhna fan anymore...nor do i care abt parul or kinshuk....but i can say this with 100% confidence that had parul done a similar photoshoot...the very ragvir fans who r pressing the like button for everyone saying things against sara wud have supported her action...no matter what... hypocrisy much??!!
any ways i don't know why i replied..i guess its just that i was an integral part of this forum once..n sometimes i just feel sad to see this way it is now...
Hi Manali, welcome back to the forum (even though your here temporarily, I guess)...
Firstly I would like to say, are Parul/KinRul/RagVir fans the only hypocrites (as you directly/indirectly called them)??? wouldn't this word imply to all fan groups here (to some extent atleast)???
And as you said that you can say with 100% confidence that had Parul done a similar photoshoot, all the RagVirians who pressed the like button for comments that were against Sara would have supported Parul. Well I can also say with 100% confidence that it would have been the other way around for the other fan group too... Many of those who are supporting Sara here (not talking about you, as I have never interacted with you in the past) wouldn't even have given it a thought for a second and would have started criticizing Parul as if its the end of the world. Heck, this topic is still nothing compared to what we have seen in the past... The discussion going on in this topic is still at a mannerable level, where members are disagreeing/agreeing with eachother, but are well behaved, and nothing nasty has been said on a personal level... The comments that we have seen in the past, that were directed towards Parul were those of a completely different level... (and many times they weren't even valid debateable topics)... As for Sara fans who are supporting her, or Parul fans who are against all this (even though I saw some Parul fans who also said that they don't have a problem with this), they all are judging this video on different criteria... some are saying that the main reason they don't like it is from a cultural/religious view point, some are bringing in the "celebrity status" factor, and for others it just varies... so everyone here is right in their own way... and thats how it should be as everyone has their own point of view/opinion, and its not necessary that we all have to agree...
As for the photoshoot, I saw it, and I would say that Sara looked pretty in some parts, and for others, all I would say is that its just a little too bold for my taste, but hey, its not my life, its Sara's personal life, so if she has no objection in displaying all this, then good for her... because after all that is said and done, it is Sara's personal life, and just like us all, she can live her life the way she wants... so if she's happy this way, then whatever...
And now last but not the least, as you called us "obsessive fans", yes I agree, and that too very very proudly, that I am a HUGE, not obsessed but wayyyyy over obsessed, diehard fan of Parul, and you might say that I came in defense or whatever, but the fact is that I only said what I personally felt... I was about to bring up this point earlier, that if Parul's fans are giving Sara a hard time over this photoshoot, it would have been the same if it was the other way around (and even though some will say that I am wrong here, many of us have been here for quite some time now to be able to tell the difference)... The only reason I didn't write all this before is because then it would have been said that there was no reason for me to bring Parul into this topic, but hey, now since she is here, I couldn't hold myself back... Sorry Eva ji and Jyoti ji, I don't want to start any argument here, but I am only stating my POV...
Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings, that was definetly not my intention...
Edited by RagVir4eva - 15 years ago
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