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Posted: 15 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: serialjunkie


@ Red - WOW!!!!! I am watching this serial too now!! It is just superb and is quite funny. I am loving it. Me too quitting Bidaai soon.



I am almost out of Bidaai... I am not interested in rona dhona revenge sacrifice themes. I am a happy bindas person and want to live in my happy world to eternity... !!!😆😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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VIEWBIES NOTE

"Freedom of speech is the oxygen of the soul. "

This topic was intended to discuss people's viewpoints on today's episode...yet there are 8 pages of personal attacks, sarcasm, instigation and bashing? 🤔

Is everyone just having a bad day or do I have to really explain the India-Forums Code of Conduct? 🤔

Tired of my lectures? 🤔

Then please visit the following links, so I wont have to sound like a broken record. You can save yourselves the patience and you can save us the time. 🥱


IMPORTANT: India-Forums Code of Conduct

The Bidaai Forum's RULES and REGULATIONS

Some excerpts from our rules and the India-Forums Code of Conduct:

By the India-Forums Development Team, made up by Global Moderators and Site Admins:

Making posts that personally attack, insult, threaten, harass or are clearly disrespectful of the opinions of other participants. This means, if you are engaging in debates that involve challenging, questioning and disputing the opinions and views of others, you are required to do so in a civil manner and ensure that your posts are relevant and on-topic. This rule does not exclude posts that are critical or questioning. It does, however, require that you carefully consider the tone of language in such posts to ensure that they are civil.


By the Bidaai Development Team (jyoti06, Kiran. and *Eva*)

:It has come to the notice of Dev team that almost in every post personal attacks have become a common issue and this is what instigate fights.If a member does not agree with another member's POV,try to ignore the post or simply state you own POV saying "I disagree with you for so and so reason" instead of saying "Just stop your nonsense";India-Forums gives us the freedon of expression and so everyone has the right to speak out what they feel is correct but that does not mean you will have to agree with it.So these are the condition we are putting on this issue hoping that the members will follow it.

Some of us dont agree with Alekh, while others dont agree with Sadhna. Can we just agree to disagree? I understand that disagreement will ALWAYS be part of terms of joining and forum...but we all must remember that we are HUMAN BEINGS. We all have opinions and viewpoints...thats a given, but is there a need for the harsh language, personal attacks and bashing?

Let me put it to all of you this way...PERSONAL ATTACKS AND BASHING ARE NOT ALLOWED ON INDIA-FORUMS. The Bidaai DT has been quite easygoing as of now...due to the "rift" track and due to the negatvity in the show. We understood that you all were frustrated with the track, as was I so we decided to hear everyone out.

Regarding personal attacks, we are ALL human beings. We have feelings. We have emotions. We have opinions. We have viewpoints. India-Forums is not meant to burden people with ATTACKS and STRESS...its meant for people to have healthy discussions. Bidaai is a FICTIONAL show. Angad, Sara, Kinshuk, Parul, Alok ji, Seema ji, Vibha ji and the others only PORTRAY these characters for your entertainment. Attacking others because of fiction? Sorry, that doesnt really work for us...I mean, I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE Bidaai BUT I won't tolerate PERSONAL ATTACKS towards ANY member because of the show.

And regarding the bashing of characters, it's seriously gotten on my last nerve. Ever since the rift track...there has been Sadhna AND Ragini bashing going on. Don't treat them as bobble heads and bash their brains out...in this place, we have so many Sadhna fans, so many Ragini fans, so many Alekh fans and so many Ranvir fans....but we are all Bidaai fans right? Just like it hurts me when others bash Bidaai and the characters / bonds of the show, it hurts the setiments of SO MANY other people when you bash characters by degrading them and giving them nicknames. We are all connected because of Bidaai right? So lets give the characters of the show some respect here...you may not like a character of the show, but that does not give anyone any right to degrade them so much that defensiveness must lead to closed topics.

I think you all have listened to this a gazillion times by now...so I will finish it off there. PLEASE respect the opinions and feelings of others while posting and REFRAIN from posting remarks that will lead to fights. 😊

I am going to leave this topic open and see if we can REVERT this topic back to its original intention. 😊

Have any questions / concerns / suggestions? PM one of us for any queries regarding our regulations. 😃

Thanks,
the Bidaai Development Team. 😊

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Posted: 15 years ago
#63
Lols I didn't see the episode yet...but I don't think I want to now...
Looks like even Ranvir, the MOST sensible character in the show (when he's not angry), has used the worst time ver to stop using his brains....
As for the personal attacks and other things, I just have to say this: Bidaai is a fictional show and Sadhna and every other character in the show are fictional characters.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Lols I didn't see the episode yet...but I don't think I want to now...

Looks like even Ranvir, the MOST sensible character in the show (when he's not angry), has used the worst time ver to stop using his brains....
As for the personal attacks and other things, I just have to say this: Bidaai is a fictional show and Sadhna and every other character in the show are fictional characters.



Todays episode is a mockery of all sensibilities... 😆😆😆 Even a little kid knows what to do in case of fire... 😆😆😆 And that too Ranvir being so dumb when he is educated in US... we have fire drills all the time.... 😆😆😆 These drills sometimes interrupt us in the middle of something very crucial. yet we all follow the drill 45 mins - 1 hr gone just like that... 😆😆😆 And Ranvir was shown so dumb... not even any other character...
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Posted: 15 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: vishmewell



I wanted to see today's epi only to prove my point that there is no bad mother and speculations that Vasu would set the fire to kill Sadhana...

As I mentioned in my yesterdays post, it is electrical short circuit... i waned to prove this too..😆😆

Vish, I havent seen any posts telling that Vasu doesnt love her children. Did i miss something?
Yes, I too talked against Vasu that is for obvious reasons. I have called her bad mother and even now I think she is, unless she proves herself. According to me a bad mother is not the one who doesnt bother even when her children are caught in fire (no mother not even Ambika will do that). A bad mother is the one who plays with others (including her sons') emotions for her own benefit.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishmewell

Is Bidaai going down the drain? Today's episode is total Bakwas, non-sense and a creation of bunch of ku ku heads.

Ranvir was shown so dumb. He did not call for help until the entire house got on fire.... RS and Creatives, PLEASEEEEEEEE.... your team needs help. hire a good psychologist who can help you with human psychology and how people would react in situations like today's episode.

When you see fire, the first reaction would be to shout in panic. And he was looking on until half the house was burnt down trying to put off the fire with a pillow? when it is 3/4 burned down, he screams for help... well mohalle wale reacted faster than ranvir...

When he heard Vasu is inside the house, all they have to do is to scream he is out of the house...

People held Ranvir and Alekh tight and didi not let them go inside... and they show 90 lbs woman walking right into... that must be a joke. Ridiculous... kisse bewakoof bananaa chahthe hai????

Creatives you get a F there's nothing lower than a F otherwise I would have given that too...






awww...vishu, u didn't like it yaar...? 😳 i thought it was GREATTTTT. though i do agree, i too would've given the ranvir-stupidity part an F as well. but you know what, the rest of the episode, with mamaji, alekh, and malti, and all the intense scenes, all of that...i thought MORE THAN made up for the rannu thing.
i guess they just somehow needed to show the house getting on fire, and one of the bros to be in danger, so that would ultimately lead to vasu's involvement, hence sadi's involvement...i guess that's why, in order to lead to that part, they showed rannu's illogical stupidity. cause really, a man like ranvir, who is so intelligent and highly educated, would he really have done something so bluntly STUPID if it was real life??? NO! so i guess this is just another case where you take it with a grain of salt, and tell yourself, "ehhh...its JUST A SERIAL. UNTRUE, FICTIONAL serial!!!"
but like i said, the rest of the episode was DHAMAKA, HATKE, DHAMAKA, HATKE!!!!! 👏👏👏👍🏼👍🏼😃
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Posted: 15 years ago
#67

Originally posted by: vishmewell



Nobody can do mind reading. How is Aalekh to know what his mother is thinking? Sadhana is also not a good wife. So she needs to prove herself... I dont are she took care of him in his sickness... she signed a contract to be his nurse and got paid... she ended the contract by signing the divorce and again got paid... so anything that happened in between this is pure contractual agreement. and Sadhana performed her duties as a nurse. Sh got paid waaay more than her services...

Vish, this is something I didnt expect from you. We all know it is a fiction and all characters are fictional but still giving a comment like this is not right.
When we present our POV, we can be strongly positive but not strongly negative like this.
Edited by reguser - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

Vish, this is something I didnt expect from you. We all know it is a fiction and all characters are fictional but still giving a comment like this is not right.
When we present our POV, we can be strongly positive but not strongly negative like this.



reguser, i COMPLETELY agree with you here.
and vishu, i CAN'T BELIEVE YOU SAID THAT YAAR!!!!!! 😲😲 please tell me you were JUST speaking out of frustration ONLY, and didn't really mean it.
what you said about sadi...it just ain't right, just ain't right...👎🏼 i admit, sadi sometimes frustrates me too, but how can you call her a mere NURSE, who got PAID for her services???!!!!! 😲😲 good god, you know what i JUST realized...??? vishu is sounding EXACTLY how vasu does about sadhna!!!! 😲😲😲
i know i'm putting a lot of "shock-icons" here, but that's because i truly am very, very SHOCKED to read vishu's comments.
vishu, dear, sadhna may hide stuff from alekh, and true, she did kind of treat their relationship like a "contract" at times. but this is also true: her sacrifices for him, her love, is IMMEASURABLE!!!!!!! they wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy OVER OUTWEIGH her flaws in the relationship. and don't forget, alekh has been NO SAINT either, so we can't put all the blame on sadi either.
anyways. i don't wanna cause fights, so will end it right here. i just hope, vishu, you will open your eyes about sadi. anyways. back to topic...

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishmewell



I believe no one should be called on to justify any character. It should be left to ones own discretion. As serialjunkie rightly put it, "Freedom of speech is important, and it must include the freedom to say what everyone else believes to be false, and even what many people take to be offensive."by Peter Singer




That was so uncalled for. Why would I need to support you or anyone else all the time ? I don't play favorites, I have my own opinion and viewpoint.
The way Sadhana took care of Alekh and gave him so much love was commendable. She accepted him wholeheartedly. This aspect of Sadhana sets her apart from other characters and makes her so special and unique. That's why I am not liking the way her character is shown after their special night. Hopefully Cvs will do something about this.
Edited by --Anu-- - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: reguser

Vish, this is something I didnt expect from you. We all know it is a fiction and all characters are fictional but still giving a comment like this is not right.
When we present our POV, we can be strongly positive but not strongly negative like this.



If the positive thing can be expressed strongly, why not a mistake? There is only One lesson one can learn from an established success. But a man cannot stop there. Because insaan se hi galathiya hothi hai.. But we learn 100 lessons from a mistake made... so my perspective is to analyze the situation where there are failures, so that we can document lessons learned. The wisdom grows by learning lessons from mistakes.

Accepting mistakes shows only ones magnanimity and the first step to true spiritualism.

To give few examples:
Wasn't Bheeshma Pitamah, Drona charya, Krupa charya, icons in Mahabharat? Yet they weren't exempted from getting killed in Kurukshetra war. Why? Although they know Dhuryodhan is committing a blunder, did not speak up he was wrong. Did not make any attempt to stop him. And galat ka saat diya hai... Galat ko galat nahi kaha. Na Yudhishtir ko roka na Dhuryodhan ko. This is not the reason I am giving. That is what Lord Krishna said in Gita.

I have always spoken the facts. Truth is bitter.

I not only justified my argument about Sadhana's actions on the basis of Legality, now I am defending my statements of facts thru Mahabharat. Tell me why I should not follow Gita. You believe that a fictitious character Gita pe haath rakh kar jhut nahi bolsakthi tho, why as a real person should i not follow Gita?

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