Solve the basic problem .. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I think both should make concrete plans, and since Sadhna is the victim here, Ragini has to think in the right direction, what to do, so that Vasu can feel herself the worth of Sadhna. If Vasu starts feeling that Sadhna is a well wisher and not an enemy, everything will automatically fall in place.

This Sdahna cannot do, as she cannot go and say that she is good...rather, others need to work on that, to improve the relation between Vasu and Sadhna. If any plan needs to be indeed made, it is this plan only..

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

@Bold - honestly, its a noble goal but I strongly believe time heals many wounds. Sometimes you dont need to jump to "fix" a situation but allow it time to settle hurt feelings and ruffled feathers.

I also dont know how one can try to improve the relationship when Vasu is so adamant and uncooperative. She is convinced that Sadhna is not a good person. My personal experience is that once a person has decided such a thought about another person, and any amount of explanation is not useful, then its best to leave ti alone till a better time.

What these kids need to do is show their support of Vasu and be with her during her time of need. What they should NOT do is "stage elaborate productions to patch the brothers with Vasu. This kind of staging and enactments tend to backfire in many cases, just as the STAGED POOJA for Aalekhs birthday backfired by revealing Vasu's athyachar on Sharmas to all, leaving Aalekh and Ranvir even MORE angry.

One thing I fail to understand is the pull for Sharma girls to "save the world". Mending relationships takes time, diplomacy and wisdom. You cant do that in one fell swoop. However, I stand by my contention that this is a serial and CTs want to keep us busy guessing, so they create elaborate and incredible story lines. Agar such ki life mein yeh sub hotha tho hum serial kyon dekhthe 😆

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

Great question - the Sharma sisters are solving the wrong problem. What they need to focus on is Vasu's distrust of Sadhna. Another thing they must realize is that sometimes time needs to pass before jumping to solve some problems. but this is a serial and what the CTs dont have is time because TRPs matter and they need to keep audience glued to the show.

Therefore, Sagini are doing busy work to keep the serial going forward. Lekin kuch tho achi story honi chahiye - a good measure of a serial is that you can watch it any one day and get hooked to it. If a new person starts to see bidaai they have no reason to be hooked. Its a hodge-podge mixed khichdi right now.

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I think both should make concrete plans, and since Sadhna is the victim here, Ragini has to think in the right direction, what to do, so that Vasu can feel herself the worth of Sadhna. If Vasu starts feeling that Sadhna is a well wisher and not an enemy, everything will automatically fall in place.

This Sdahna cannot do, as she cannot go and say that she is good...rather, others need to work on that, to improve the relation between Vasu and Sadhna. If any plan needs to be indeed made, it is this plan only..

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

@Bold - honestly, its a noble goal but I strongly believe time heals many wounds. Sometimes you dont need to jump to "fix" a situation but allow it time to settle hurt feelings and ruffled feathers.

I also dont know how one can try to improve the relationship when Vasu is so adamant and uncooperative. She is convinced that Sadhna is not a good person. My personal experience is that once a person has decided such a thought about another person, and any amount of explanation is not useful, then its best to leave ti alone till a better time.

What these kids need to do is show their support of Vasu and be with her during her time of need. What they should NOT do is "stage elaborate productions to patch the brothers with Vasu. This kind of staging and enactments tend to backfire in many cases, just as the STAGED POOJA for Aalekhs birthday backfired by revealing Vasu's athyachar on Sharmas to all, leaving Aalekh and Ranvir even MORE angry.

One thing I fail to understand is the pull for Sharma girls to "save the world". Mending relationships takes time, diplomacy and wisdom. You cant do that in one fell swoop. However, I stand by my contention that this is a serial and CTs want to keep us busy guessing, so they create elaborate and incredible story lines. Agar such ki life mein yeh sub hotha tho hum serial kyon dekhthe 😆

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

I think both should make concrete plans, and since Sadhna is the victim here, Ragini has to think in the right direction, what to do, so that Vasu can feel herself the worth of Sadhna. If Vasu starts feeling that Sadhna is a well wisher and not an enemy, everything will automatically fall in place.

This Sdahna cannot do, as she cannot go and say that she is good...rather, others need to work on that, to improve the relation between Vasu and Sadhna. If any plan needs to be indeed made, it is this plan only..

Originally posted by: Bidaaifan09

Why should sadhna have to regain her trust Sadhna has done nothing to lose that trust so this woman and her illogical view of the world is in need of a deep awakening. Sadhna has nothing to prove so actually its up to Vasu to make the changes. I only have one issue why is it always up to the girls to fix relationships while its commendable it is also unnecessary for them to do this the guys need to work through the issues they have with their mother on their own and with vasu but other than that I feel they need to live their life and move on.

Originally posted by: anu rulz

true...all these plans of sagini are directed towards sumthng tht is known to everyone involved..tht ranvir-alekh and vasu love each other..what the problem is?vasu's ego..and tht only and only vasu can deal wid...