Testing time for Alekh-Sadhna... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

you know Pallavi, if Sadhna puts her sacrifcing nature behind, we will never be able to identify with sadhna, especially, who have seen Bidaai from that first episode, starting with that University of California picture of Sadhna, then zooming into the real Sadhna in the Taj corridoor.

If to do justice to Sadhna's character as a loving wife, creatives lose focus of her basic character, it will be a waste of all their efforts of two years. This is a great task for the creatives..where they need to show Sadha as a loving wife for Alekh and at the same time a dutiful human being, which is not difficult to achieve, ...only a skilled director and as a proper script is required and that without even focussing a full track on Sadhna-Alekh..."Make simple actions of love...that speaks a volume"

Yes, what you are saying makes sense. In order to make her romantic, they shouldnt change her character all of a sudden. The Sadhna which we liked is a person who puts others' interest before hers without talking about it any time. Thats how her character was sketched from the begining.

what can i say...bani can be very persuasive at times. hehehe...
and yes, i too agree that sadi should still be who she is, especially when being self-less is such a great, great quality. however, i get what reguser is saying. at the same time, she needs to become a better wife too. she has basically become the best at every other relationship in her life (except bhabhi, but we'll talk about that later. don't wanna start trouble here 😛), so now we need to see her as a good wife too.
and she can start by: NO MORE SECRETS. like others have said, i hope she pulls an "akshara", and tells her husband, no more secrets b/w one another. that's how a marriage becomes stronger, and how the trust even becomes stronger. also, this is a great way of "breaking the ice". idk why, but for some reason, i feel there is a sense of formality b/w salekh, that's not letting them become as close as they can, emotionally. but if they start being more open to each other, and share their thoughts, before you know it, they'll be joking more with one another, and start pulling each others' legs like ragvir...
btw, is it just me, or is talking about salekh marriage becoming sort of like a marriage counseling for people...? lol. its doing it for me, and i'm not even married. lol. seriously yaar, now i feel like, by going over their marriage, i kinda' know what do in mine, when i get married. 😃😃

My future husband better be prepared...I'm gonna grill his behind and make him tell me every single itty bitty secret he has! 😈

Honestly there shouldn't be any barrier between Salekh now...they have seen each other go through so much...both separately and together...why hide anything? Seriously can anything be hidden? Alekh now knows basically everything Sadhna went through, before him, with him, without him...Sadhna knows Alekh, every version of him...seriously there is nothing to hide and no reason to hide it...if they hide anything they just harm each other...

Originally posted by: yanks28

My future husband better be prepared...I'm gonna grill his behind and make him tell me every single itty bitty secret he has! 😈

Honestly there shouldn't be any barrier between Salekh now...they have seen each other go through so much...both separately and together...why hide anything? Seriously can anything be hidden? Alekh now knows basically everything Sadhna went through, before him, with him, without him...Sadhna knows Alekh, every version of him...seriously there is nothing to hide and no reason to hide it...if they hide anything they just harm each other...

How I pity yur futre husband..if a man has to hear all of girls' secrets, he will go mad...😆

Originally posted by: pricey28

what can i say...bani can be very persuasive at times. hehehe...
and yes, i too agree that sadi should still be who she is, especially when being self-less is such a great, great quality. however, i get what reguser is saying. at the same time, she needs to become a better wife too. she has basically become the best at every other relationship in her life (except bhabhi, but we'll talk about that later. don't wanna start trouble here 😛), so now we need to see her as a good wife too.
and she can start by: NO MORE SECRETS. like others have said, i hope she pulls an "akshara", and tells her husband, no more secrets b/w one another. that's how a marriage becomes stronger, and how the trust even becomes stronger. also, this is a great way of "breaking the ice". idk why, but for some reason, i feel there is a sense of formality b/w salekh, that's not letting them become as close as they can, emotionally. but if they start being more open to each other, and share their thoughts, before you know it, they'll be joking more with one another, and start pulling each others' legs like ragvir...
btw, is it just me, or is talking about salekh marriage becoming sort of like a marriage counseling for people...? lol. its doing it for me, and i'm not even married. lol. seriously yaar, now i feel like, by going over their marriage, i kinda' know what do in mine, when i get married. 😃😃

Originally posted by: pricey28

what can i say...bani can be very persuasive at times. hehehe...
and yes, i too agree that sadi should still be who she is, especially when being self-less is such a great, great quality. however, i get what reguser is saying. at the same time, she needs to become a better wife too. she has basically become the best at every other relationship in her life (except bhabhi, but we'll talk about that later. don't wanna start trouble here 😛), so now we need to see her as a good wife too.
and she can start by: NO MORE SECRETS. like others have said, i hope she pulls an "akshara", and tells her husband, no more secrets b/w one another. that's how a marriage becomes stronger, and how the trust even becomes stronger. also, this is a great way of "breaking the ice". idk why, but for some reason, i feel there is a sense of formality b/w salekh, that's not letting them become as close as they can, emotionally. but if they start being more open to each other, and share their thoughts, before you know it, they'll be joking more with one another, and start pulling each others' legs like ragvir...
btw, is it just me, or is talking about salekh marriage becoming sort of like a marriage counseling for people...? lol. its doing it for me, and i'm not even married. lol. seriously yaar, now i feel like, by going over their marriage, i kinda' know what do in mine, when i get married. 😃😃

@ bold, did u ever consider thinking that if Sdahna had lied, and then Rakesh, the victim woke up and testified against Ranveer and Sadhna, what would be the consequence? I think sadhna, as a bhabi did the best for Ranveer...she paved the way for Ranveer's release so that he not only comes out from jail, but also comes out with a clean chit and noone can ever dare to open up the case. This was possible only when the victim himself admitted his fault and testified fior Ranveer.. just though, let me share this with you😃

Originally posted by: reguser

Hope CTs show this.

I feel, now they shoud show Sadhna as a wife more than Sadhna's sacrificing nature. This is the one part which we didnt get to see much. And this is the reason, she is commented a lot in this forum. We saw Sadhna as a great daughter, great sister, great friend, great daughter-in-law. Infact, we also saw her motherly love towards Alekh when he was not normal. Only thing which we need to see is romantic wife in her. Now it is high time we get to see this side of Sadhna. If they show us, then Sadhna will never be commented by anyone (hopefully) for sure😊

Meanwhile, as many of us have highlighted, Ragini should unite the family. Her repentence should turn into repairing the broken relations. She should gather the strength and courage to do this in her own way.

I like what you wrote... I couldn't care about Sadhana's romantic life... 😕 My biggest issue with her is not being a good wife. Blah...
@ bold - kya baat hai??? 😉😉😉

So it is all about some of us commenting on Sadhana?? 😆😆😆😆

Well I did like the dialogue between Sadhna and Alekh today. They both sounded very sensible...again, it sounds like they are on the same page. Alekh acted very responsible today trying to track down the number...missing her and worrying about her and wanting to share her burden...he wants to be there for her...and she admitted that he must be unhappy with her...GOOD! I appreciated that!

Originally posted by: reguser

Yes, You can take all the plus points from Salekh and Ragvir. Also you can learn from Indu-Vasu too about how a relation should not be 😆

reguser, lets not jump into conclusion about Inder-Vasu... I feel there some hidden skeletons there... I want to know Vasu's side of story before I call her a bad wife. After all, Bidaai is all about majboori😆😆

Sharmaji ki paison ki majboori na hothi tho Salekh ki Shaadi na hothi..
Ragini ki beauty ki majboori na hothi tho tho bhi salekh shaadi na hui hothi...
Sadhana ki majboori Sharma parivar na hui hothi tho na Salekh ki shaadi hothi, Ragvir ki shaadi na hothi... divorce na hui hothi, vagaira vavagaira...
Paison ki majboori na hui hothi tho CM apni sasur ko nahi khoon ki hothi...
power ki majboori na hui hothi tho VAsu dadi bua ko ghar se bahar na karthi...
pyaar ki majboori na hothi, tho Aalekh Vasu ko chodkar nahi jathe..
bhayya-bhabhi ki payaar ki majboori na hothi tho Ragvir ghar nahi chodna hotha...
Parivaar ki aktha ka majboori naa hothi, tho Ragini secret plans nahi kihothi...
Emotions se majboor na hui hothi tho Ragini aaj Anand ko ghar ki secret nahi bathayi hothi...
Revenge ki majboori na hothi tho Anand ragni ke bathaye hue baaten isthamaal karke Vasu ko blackmail na kiyahotha...

hmmm...😕😕😕😕 Bidaai ki majboori ka silsila yuhi jaari rahega.... 😆😆😆😆 🤣🤣🤣🤣
aur hum sab yaha forum mein aaneka majboori nahothi tho CTs hamare advantage nahi liyahotha... 🤣🤣🤣🤣
So CTs... majboori yuhi chaalu rakhooo... majboorika faida uthao... 🤣🤣🤣