Mindset of Saas and Bahus

With all the cute and hot romance going on in that small place between the jodis, the CTs have done a brilliant job of drawing a contrast between the saas (Vasu) and Bahus (Sagini).

When Aalekh/Ranvir says he did not like that empty wall, Sadhana says she will take care of it and hangs the family picture with Vasu, Inder, Salekh, Ragvir and feels contented looking at it while Vasu sadly stands there watching her so called family picture of Vasu, Inder, Aalekh and Ranvir.

Bahus made the parivaar complete by having the real family picture and Vasu is left with sorrow and tears brought upon by her ego and zidd.

That scene makes one stop and think of family values and true happiness.

interesting. although i must admit had i been in sadna's situation i would not want have anything to do with alekh's parents...let alone see that wall with vasu's face on it every time i looked over!!!!

Originally posted by: karanarjun35

interesting. although i must admit had i been in sadna's situation i would not want have anything to do with alekh's parents...let alone see that wall with vasu's face on it every time i looked over!!!!

Actually it's a classic example of boomeranging or the saying what goes, comes around.

Vasu never loved anybody more but herself. She never thinks twice before she breaks something. May it be vishwas, or may it be the couples... her bad attitude boomeranged at her and Sadhana's faith in goodness brought loads of happiness into her life.

There's a beautiful saying in Hindi "Bhagwan ke ghar mein der hai, andher nahi"...

hmmm what about kaushi ? how has she paid ?

Originally posted by: karanarjun35

hmmm what about kaushi ? how has she paid ?

She has not paid yet. Although Kaushi repents her mistakes and took all measures to fix them, the karma theory doesn't exempt anybody. Jaise karni waise bharni. Her repentance will reduce her bad karma.
A calamity is going to befall Sharma family due to her weakness for her own children. She has to deal with disaster/bomb called Malti. Woh bomb phatnahi hai ek din. Malti tho Avni-Naveen se aise thokar khayegi uski hosh udjaayegi...

Originally posted by: vishmewell

She has not paid yet. Although Kaushi repents her mistakes and took all measures to fix them, the karma theory doesn't exempt anybody. Jaise karni waise bharni. Her repentance will reduce her bad karma.
A calamity is going to befall Sharma family due to her weakness for her own children. She has to deal with disaster/bomb called Malti. Woh bomb phatnahi hai ek din. Malti tho Avni-Naveen se aise thokar khayegi uski hosh udjaayegi...

U know Vish, they did not show how many rooms this small loving, romantic space has. I sure hope they have enough rooms in the house, the newlyweds or sort of newlyweds Saalekh sure can use TONS of privacy 😳😳😳

But on the topic - yes, Sagini proved their sanskars require them to mend families not break it, even if it is one baby step at a time. Like the person above me said, if it were me, I would have not hung the picture at any cost!!!!

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

U know Vish, they did not show how many rooms this small loving, romantic space has. I sure hope they have enough rooms in the house, the newlyweds or sort of newlyweds Saalekh sure can use TONS of privacy 😳😳😳

But on the topic - yes, Sagini proved their sanskars require them to mend families not break it, even if it is one baby step at a time. Like the person above me said, if it were me, I would have not hung the picture at any cost!!!!

Oh yeaah... Hope they have their own rooms 🤣.... nahi tho pachka hojaayega...

Did you notice the staircase in the house? hope there's a room upstairs lol instead of just a chath... 🤣

@ karanarjun35 - It's just not you but 99% of the people would not wantr to do anything with saas like Sadhana's. But the reason why Sadhana is different is, she is persistent and never gives up on any relationship in her life. And lot of it has to do with her being orphan and strong desire to want her own family and feel the belongingness ... Aalekh is Sadhana's first closest relationship jo woh apna kehsake.... and her sasural is the first family hai jo woh apna kehsake.

I think this subtle difference is shown between Sagini also. It is but natural for Ragini not to remember sasural at first instance coz she has her myaka. Whereas for Sadhana, her sasural is one and only family that will be hers.

@ Serialjunkie - Sanskar tho donon behenon mein hai. They are never home breakers. Kaushi even though she did not like Sadi, she still was part of her upbringing to please her husband. So, it comes naturally for Ragini to accept anybody to please the husband. Kaushi that way is an ideal wife.

But with Sadhana, not only the sanskar, but also wanting to have a family jo apna ho...

Originally posted by: serialjunkie

U know Vish, they did not show how many rooms this small loving, romantic space has. I sure hope they have enough rooms in the house, the newlyweds or sort of newlyweds Saalekh sure can use TONS of privacy 😳😳😳

@red -I was thinking about the same thing😕, hope they have separate rooms