Path from 'hamara koi rishta hain' to 'meri bahen'

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

at last, there are positive vibes which are coming from Ragini';s mouth...all these days she had been saying to Sadhna and others "hamara sambandh or rishta" but she never uttered that "meri bahen" neither to Sdahna nor to anyone else. She stood like an observer only to make things get worse for Sadhna, by acting as a catalyst to drive Sadhna away, by becoming a weapon in Vasu;s hands to apply against Sadhna or by threatening Ranveer.

its good to see Ragini that you atlast uttered "Sadhna meri bahen hain"....keep it up...dont try to compete with your sister's goodness and land up in an ego issue to prove your greatness and to show how you reciprocated Sadhna's goodness, RATHER feel proud that a noble soul like Sadhna is your sister....

In our society, very often, if we are related to a minister/ celebrity, we boast about it. Ragini boast about your sister, her goodness to everyone, tell everyone in cluding Kaushi that "Sadhna is my own sister and I am proud of my sister. I love my sister and will support her through think and thin"....its time that you speak like your father says that he has two daughters, not one daughter and one niece.

good luck

@kavi80
There is a book on Abraham Lincoln and his journey from a small hut to the White House...I derived my inspirtaion for the post title from that....

thanks for your appreciation...I have seen posts who criticise and that too in very bad language about my posts sometimes openly and mostly through PMs. But my policy is I never supprt wrong..I can never support Ragini;s wrongdoings in the name of anything possible or Alekh for his new bond with Mallika....these are unforgivable...but I am open to a strong repentence from both of them and as I mentioned it should be NOT by entering into a competition with Sadhna's goodness but by keeping Sadhna's goodness as a "Gold standard"...its useless to even think of competing with noble souls like Sdahna

beautifully said!

and i love the point about not competing in terms of returning the kindness as a favour

by now 'reuniting' sadhana and alekh, i dont think it releases ragini of the burden of what she has done
i think it needs to be more about the inner voice realizing what sadhana has done and learning to understand her...and then questioning herself about what could have led her to act the way she did

as far as reuniting sadhana and alekh goes, I dont even know if that would be a favour to sadhana - he obviously doesn't deserve her

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

at last, there are positive vibes which are coming from Ragini';s mouth...all these days she had been saying to Sadhna and others "hamara sambandh or rishta" but she never uttered that "meri bahen" neither to Sdahna nor to anyone else. She stood like an observer only to make things get worse for Sadhna, by acting as a catalyst to drive Sadhna away, by becoming a weapon in Vasu;s hands to apply against Sadhna or by threatening Ranveer.

its good to see Ragini that you atlast uttered "Sadhna meri bahen hain"....keep it up...dont try to compete with your sister's goodness and land up in an ego issue to prove your greatness and to show how you reciprocated Sadhna's goodness, RATHER feel proud that a noble soul like Sadhna is your sister....

In our society, very often, if we are related to a minister/ celebrity, we boast about it. Ragini boast about your sister, her goodness to everyone, tell everyone in cluding Kaushi that "Sadhna is my own sister and I am proud of my sister. I love my sister and will support her through think and thin"....its time that you speak like your father says that he has two daughters, not one daughter and one niece.

good luck

well said Bani!

After reading the article, I think Ragini will be redeemed in a very good and convincing way...and she will live up to that. RS has read our comments that "repentence is th only way" left to redeem Ragini....

I dont know about Alekh however....I can justify every action , very anger of his , but not his quiet submission to get engaged to Mallika....

"In our society, very often, if we are related to a minister/ celebrity, we boast about it. Ragini boast about your sister, her goodness to everyone, tell everyone in cluding Kaushi that "Sadhna is my own sister and I am proud of my sister. I love my sister and will support her through think and thin"....its time that you speak like your father says that he has two daughters, not one daughter and one niece.
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I don't think it's right to blame Alekh for what he did. That is his character and we can't say that what he did was wrong or right because he doesn't see the full picture. Ragini however should have had more faith. After all that their relationship has been through, despite whatever anyone said she always stood by Sadhna. Ragini herself always believed that Sadhna would never hurt her. It was sad that Ragini doubted her own belief.

I think Ragini will exactly say the same thing...she had said it before too, that she feels proud to be Sadi's sister, and doesn't mind touching her feet during RagVir wedding..and Ragini homecoming ceremony.......I don't think she ever wants to compete with Sadhana, and even if she goes to unite SaAalkeh I don't think it will be to compete with what Sadhana did for RagVir nor because she wants to get into any ego issue with Sadhana's greatness...if Ragini will move forward and try to reunite SaAalkeh it would be solely because she has realized how she was wrong and at fault, and now will do anything to make her sister happy......

Bani beautiful post.

About Aalekh agreeing to marry Mal. I think its just on the "rebound" and he wants to show that he is not hurt by what Sadi did.

but he loves Sadhna and only Sadhna, he does not even look towards Mal. He is hurting and crying inside but does not want to show it.