Is Ranvir a good husband? (Note on Page 6)

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think not!

Why?

Finally Ragini came out of her dream world and expressed her fears as to why no one from her maayka made it to see her dance and the so called win and finally called her brother and her brother as usual kept mum about it(I still don't understand why!We had an opening there lol).Anyways,even after the connection was cut off she still was concerned but what does Ranvir do?He says everything is alright(different matter altogether that he was shouting at his mummy dearest that he would find out the reason and all that)and they need to celebrate her win and of course as we all know and agree that Ragini is a lost cause and her only world seems to be revolving around Ranvir so when he showered her with his gifts and whatnot it was natural to see her million dollar smile(Whatever rationality that appeared got lost due to Ranvir's need for romance)

Shouldn't a good pati instead of saying forget about that,let's celebrate your win,take her to her maayka so that she can see for herself whether everything is okay or not?Its not called deviating her from feeling sad but serving his own needs.

We say how Ragini doesn't understand him and I agree as she already emotionally blackmailed him instead of understanding him but can we really say Ranvir is being a good husband.My post is based solely on yesterday's sequence not him cheering her up or gifting her a dance school.

He is a great brother as he made his brother realise his love for his wife and a great devar as we already witnessed so many times.Why is he lacking when it comes to being a husband and its not the first time either!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I think Ranveer is one person, who never mixes things up. He keeps all his relatinships separate. He is taking good care of his wife, no denial of that, he is fulfilling every promise he made to Ragini, despite his inner feeling that what she did was not right. He never ever lost his temper on Ragini about Sadhna, but he lost his temper about Vasu...although both Ragini and Vasu shared the same pain when Sadhna spoke truth..

There will be many posts that he is the worst husband, the reason being he is supporting Alekh and Sadhna.

In summary, I'ld say Ranveer is a good human being and a complete human being always excels in every relationship. Right now,he is fulfilling his duty both for Ragini and for himself towards the family. Coming to the question, why he didn;t take Ragini, he is not aware and probably he does not understand why Vinu had to hide the truth when he called Vinu.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I was not disappointed cos he was supporting his brother and his bhabhi.I was disappointed that he tried to deviate Ragini with his romantic baatein.Yes he is not aware but he could have taken her just for her peace of mind so that she could see for herself.The way Bidaai is going its natural that Ragini is blamed again even if it was Ranvir who stopped her this time.Don't want to dig this up again but just as he isn't aware Ragini wasn't either and there have been so many posts seem to say in the last few weeks that shouldn't she have some sort of premonition or something that her mother is not well or some sort of sixth sense,she finally showed some yesterday but again derailed.

As for being a complete human being,I still am waiting to see him excel as a husband.That daur tho gujar chuka hain where he has to be sensitive cos she was depressed.I think he should broach the subject of Sadhana again!I for one feel he was just indulging his wife.Worst feeling if that is so!
Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago
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did anyone not see how Ragini reacted by the mere sight of Sdahna in the competition. Ranveer loves Ragini, thats the reason he is still so loving towards Ragini, despite her "nadaniya" or what ever it is. I am pretty sure that if he tries to bring up Sadhna';s topic, there will be many posts labelling as the worst husband.

I must admit that this time at least Ragini made an attempt to find out about his mother. This small gesture is not enough for a daughter, but at least instead of nothing, something is better.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with smitha ,and @omshanti we are not disappointed with ranvir becoz he is supporting saalekh but rather the fact thy his interactions with ragini are one dimensional.beingher husband he should tell her the facts as they are.he had no problem in being harsh with with her during the mystery track.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am dying to see apart from romance between them and have this appetite to see them arguing at least lol as I feel it isn't doing them any justice this time.

May be that small gesture is the starting process of reunion and redemption!
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any good son, if he comes to see that his wife, out of her own reasons is acting as a a catalyst to break the family and is siding with evil people (whoever it is), he would react differently, not lovingly...but Ranveer is giving time and acting as a continuous support... if he had not done that, then also he wont be pardoned by viewers..there will be post "why he has to think of Sdahna".....I dont understand what is the concept of a good husband....is it to act as a partnet for every wrong deed of the spouse also....
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Originally posted by: Veritas

I agree with smitha ,and @omshanti we are not disappointed with ranvir becoz he is supporting saalekh but rather the fact thy his interactions with ragini are one dimensional.beingher husband he should tell her the facts as they are.he had no problem in being harsh with with her during the mystery track.



Hmm yes Smita.I mean he was harsh though no fault of hers even though in his heart he kept saying he is sorry for what he is doing!

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he tried to explain and then he saw with his own eyes the hatred of Rgaini in the competition...
he is dealing very well with Ragini...he knows very well how to tackle Rgaini and he will act as soon as he finds the right moment. Keep in mind, Ragini;s reaction in the competition also, and her attitude when Sadhna fell down. So this is not the right time to explain to her...

there can be another way of Ranveer being strict...but then that is not an acceptable option. Ranveer has to accept every wrong deed just to prove he is a good husband.

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Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

<font color="#0000ff">any good son, if he comes to see that his
wife, out of her own reasons is acting as a a catalyst to break the
family and is siding with evil people (whoever it is), he would react
differently, not lovingly...but Ranveer is giving time and acting as a
continuous support... if he had not done that, then also he wont be
pardoned by viewers..there will be post "why he has to think of
Sdahna".....I dont understand what is the concept of a good
husband....is it to act as a partnet for every wrong deed of the spouse
also....</font>




I have complaints with Ranvir cos of how he treated Ragini in the mystery track.He is hsi wife,just married and whom he thinks he can share any thing before marriage but that was not meant to be then.The way he treated her was unpardonable as I feel they should have been working together at that time.Not by going out and finding culprits together but just by sharing.The explanation was even half-baked.We never saw anyone threatening anyone's life.

And the guy who was obsessed about his baby and who spoke to every tom,dick and harry about his baby conveniently forgot as soon as he saw his wife.His first words should have been about her health and their baby but noooooooo,pehle romance aur ek kiss and baaki baad mein.No wonder Ragini's world revolves around him lol.It seems she thinks herself lucky that she got such a loving husband who showers so much love on her as she always believed that wasn't meant to be in her life cos of her colour!


Yesterday was bad cos he tossed her fears as if they are nothing and moved on to his usual forte.

Good thing that he is loving and caring instead of slapping and kicking and throwing her away as some wanted to see.
Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago

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