Ravir should be the only one.....

Originally posted by: dharaa

Ranvir obviously wont behave like others cuz he knows what is right and whats not he himself didnt want Sadhna to lie so its clear that no matter what he wont ever punish Sadhna... And about Ragini-Sadhna's pain...Sadhna at the end will get back to Rajvansh house, though it may take a lil more time but she'll definitely be back, others can compensate of every loss that Sadhna faced but will it be really easy for Ragini to forget about her unborn baby? Sadhna would atleast be back to Rajvansh house after everyone realise their mistake but what about Ragini will it be easy for her to forget about her baby who she knows will never be back? Though things will get somewhat normal after all this but will Ragini ever forget the dreams, the hopes, the affection she had for her baby? Right now Ranvir's first priority is to get Ragini back to normal. And once Ragini gets back to her senses she'll def go on d right track.

Originally posted by: taral83

yes she will......when she gets preganant again eventually....................but right now she is blaming Sadhna for it when it was her own carelessness.................when its ur own fault u cant not blame others and u are ur own punishment which no one can bail u out of...............In Sadhna's case.......u make is so simple...she will eventually just get back home..........and she probably will...........But she has been called a killer, her husband has not even giving her any support, she is not wanted where she is living rightnow, and the one person she loves is misunderstanding her.......she is all alone, when its not even her fault..........thats a very big punishment and those feelings will also be forgotten..........but the scars that this pain will leave in her heart will never go away.........It really hurts when the people you love misunderstand you and blame you when u meant nothing but good...............

Originally posted by: taral83

Ranvir should be the only one to punish Sadhna I think.................No one else should have the right to punish her in anyway..............Her truth caused him to go to jail..........and all the rest follows.............he also lost his child so if a punishment has to be placed and if he thinks that Sadhna was the reason then he should be the only one to punish her...................Don't know why so many people are giving trouble to Sadhna.....and getting involved.....when the person that she caused the trouble to doesn't even think she is wrong.......then why do they!!.......I don't understand everyone's problem with Sadhna.....................Ragni's pain will last her a couple of months...........and she seems like she will recover soon from the last epi.............but the current Punishment sentenced to Sadhna is a life sentence..........a life alone..............

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You are right. It doesn't make any sense specially when Ranveer has no issues with Sadhana.

Miscarriages are very common and it could have happened later on also due to some other complication. Its very painful to go through this but really its not end of the world....a woman can have another baby. Most of the time, the feeling of loss depends upon how far along the woman was in her pregnancy and its more painful to have a miscarriage in 2nd or 3rd trimester. Life has ups and downs and one should always look at the bright side. Most importantly why blame another person for your personal loss if its your own carelessness.

As far Sadhana is concerned, she was treated really badly by everyone. Her self respect was hurt and identity was crushed....she was thrown out like a piece of unwanted furniture. No woman deserves to be treated like that by her own family. Even if she comes back to the house things can never be the same unless all these people feel remorseful and repent for their actions.

Originally posted by: taral83

👏👏👏 Three cheers for you Anu................I had writen this in another thread.........that the miscarriage is not the end of the world......it is as you said very common....and the attachment to the baby depends on the length of the pregnancy...and for Ragni it was very early.........it is not like she can not get pregnant again........By us thinking in these terms doesn't mean that we don't have a heart.........nor are we saying that its easy to get over it..........but we are talking about reality.........so before anyone takes this the wrong way...........I would just like to make that clear.............AND IT IS NOT SADHNA'S FAULT......no matter which way you want to put it......directly or indirectly....."Sadhna caused Ragni mental stress and in turn she lost her mental balance and fell down...........or u want to say Sadhna pushed Ragni down physically"..........both accusations are very wrong and have no weight in them............it was Ragni's child........she was the mother......she was told over and over to take care............she ran after a illusion of Ranvir and fell down........she had the responsibility to take care of that child........and she didn't.........why she didn't doesn't matter..............its like saying when a child gets hurt let say falling.......because a mother was not watching and was in another world due to stress.........why is it then that we blame the mother for not watching........why don't we blame the stress that she is under.......Life throws alot of lemons at you.......it doesn't mean that u stand there dazed and get hit..........you catch them and throw them right back...........which Ragni didn't.....and the consequence is infornt of you.............We don't want to sound harsh .....but its reality.........things like that do happen..............you have to move on...........(plus I am pro-adoption.........why people cry over the fact that they can't have kids or lost their kid is beyond me.......there are millions of children out there that need a helping hand.....maybe god has made you childless for a reason....like everything else he does for a reason........)

Thanks Taral. I always admire and love reading your sensible posts. You have put it so nice and clear...something that was missing in my post earlier. -Anu