Ranvir back home? - Page 3

Originally posted by: isabel

Hmm....I understand that Ragini needs to see how wrong she was in thinking whatever she is thinking about Sadhna...I completely agree that she needs to realize this the harsh way.

But I don't support Ranvir shouting at her for making her understand or blaming her for the miscarriage. Miscarriage happened. Instead of playing the blame game with his wife, he should understand the physical and mental trauma she had to go through in his absence , all alone. I don't know, I want Ranvir to understand and support Ragini- for her miscarriage and also do something to make her realize about how wrong she was about Sadhna. I really don't know how it would be achieved in a sensible fashion.

I never said shouting. Arguing doesn't equal to shouting.

Also, I don't want Ranvir to blame Ragini, but I want him to make her understand that it's NOT Sadhana's fault.

I was just saying that Ragini wasn't careful so it's ridiculous to blame Sadhana, but I don't want Ranvir to say that to her.

Originally posted by: smitha80

In Bidaai,with out shouting when Vasu is involved?That I have yet to see lol.I am not saying about Ragini's bad decisions.On that Ranvir will be surely disappointed and if not by herself at least Ranvir has to get her out of this.I am talking abt the miscarriage issue.And how he takes it that his baby is not alive anymore!I mean its not a small issue and I have yet to see a would be father blaming would be mother for the accidents that result in miscarriage.

Any ways,I am eagerly waiting to see his reactions and his consequent actions after he gets to know about all the things that transpired in his absence.

That different. Just because Vasu shouts doesn't mean Ranvir will. When did he ever shout back at her?

I mean Isabel,is this now how things work out in RL?Yes every relation is important if you are a joint family and he already proved how good he is at every relation and he will handle this SAgini rift and will bring back his bhabhi,but show some compassion towards your unborn baby who is not even in this world if not for your wife lol.

Originally posted by: smitha80

Not blaming as I said in my previous post as that issue was bypassed altogether as to how and why it happened and Ragini suddenly seemed to have developed amnesia as she doesn't even remember that she fell down,but I want to see Ranvir showing his emotions realistically instead of brushing it off and thinking how Ragini behaved with his bhabhi etc.That will come later.Its no simple thing to hear that your unborn baby is no more and not react badly to it!

Oh of course. That's why I mentioned his losing his baby first. Of course we'll see a realistic reaction, but at the same time Ranvir will feel he has to be strong for Ragini and so it won't be a break down of any sort.

No No Rahm, I was not implying that you meant shouting. I just said, I hope he does not resort to that. I just feel, first share the pain of losing the child together with your wife without starting any blame games about whose fault it was or wasn't. If Ragini brings this up on her own, that she thinks it was Sadhna's fault, then yes, Ranvir needs to do everything he can to make her see rationally and understand it was not Sadhna's fault.

lol deff ,,ranvir wud b thinkin tat jail muzt b betr az he waz all smilez wen he waz in jail...haha ..away 4m all de mezz ,,i agree..!!!!....n alzo ,,ctz r juz conviniently 4getin de mizcarige thing,az of now ,,,i dont want thiz ovrdoze of relationshipz,,like ,,ranvir rootin 4 sadna n not suprtin ragz @ thiz moment n alzo,,de way mamajiz whole wrld iz revolvin around sadna ,,sadna n ragz both r equaly rezponzible ,,4 de turmoil they r in,,,,so ,it muzt b dealt accordingly ,,,n not by 1 askin 4 4givnez n othr 4givin ,,..hope ctz wud wind thiz bs trak soon ,,,instead of continuin wid thiz stupidity,,

Rahm,we seem to be saying the same things.What I want to see is his realistic reaction when he hears abt the miscarriage(I am stressing that point cos I have this strong feeling that there won't be much continuation of that apart from few dialogues)and make Ragini realize(Ragini is devoted to Ranvir anyway as seen in the mystery track so would readily understand when he says she did a wrong thing.It would be really surprising if she doen't change even after Ranvir explains it to her as she still firmly believes that Sadi is still responsible and just cos Ranvir is back doesn't mean th baby will come back too.I have a feeling that this would happen and we get to see this Ragini for few more weeks)and trying to get his bahbhi back to her rightful place!

Originally posted by: isabel

No No Rahm, I was not implying that you meant shouting. I just said, I hope he does not resort to that. I just feel, first share the pain of losing the child together with your wife without starting any blame games about whose fault it was or wasn't. If Ragini brings this up on her own, that she thinks it was Sadhna's fault, then yes, Ranvir needs to do everything he can to make her see rationally and understand it was not Sadhna's fault.

Yes, of course. I hope to see him share the pain as well, but he is going to ask for Sadhana because it will be weird that she isn't there. She gives Ranvir strength.. she did so during the Ragvir track and when his first girlfriend broke his heart.

I feel at some point or another, he will ask where she is because he will need everyone he loves around him through this tough time. Realistically, when you're hurt, you want the person you love and confide in to be around you. Of course Ragini is there, but he'll need his parents, Aalekh and Sadhana.

So I feel when he starts asking questions he will find out and try to talk to Vasu about it. Ragini will inject her opinions and he will counter argue them.

Originally posted by: smitha80

Rahm,we seem to be saying the same things.What I want to see is his realistic reaction when he hears abt the miscarriage(I am stressing that point cos I have this strong feeling that there won't be much continuation of that apart from few dialogues)and make Ragini realize(Ragini is devoted to Ranvir anyway as seen in the mystery track so would readily understand when he says she did a wrong thing.It would be really surprising if she doen't change even after Ranvir explains it to her as she still firmly believes that Sadi is still responsible and just cos Ranvir is back doesn't mean th baby will come back too.I have a feeling that this would happen and we get to see this Ragini for few more weeks)and trying to get his bahbhi back to her rightful place!

Lol, we are saying the same thing!

Realistically (at least with me) when I'm in pain, I want those I love and confide in to be around me to help me make sense of the situation. I think Ranvir would want that and who does he confide in the most? Sadhana. She's been a pillar of strength for him. Not taking anything away from Ragini, but Sadhana was there for Ranvir through all his tough times--when his first girlfriend broke his heart, when he met Anamika, when he found out the identity of Anamika, when Vasu didn't support Ragvir, etc etc. He's going to need Ragini, but he's also going to need Sadhana.

Oh of course, it is but natural that Ranvir will inquire about Sadhna's whereabouts. It would be weird if he does not! I just don't know how the creatives will manage this. But I just hope he treats each and every pending issue he has to deal with in positive mature fashion. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to see a romantic Ragvir scene or something. But I want this miscarriage issue to be given its due importance and how a married couple deals with it together and then of course, I want him to knocn some sense into Ragini and the other Rajvansh's about Sadhna's ouster.