Ragini is not selfish - Page 5

Even I'd love to see Ragini defending herself..But,wait..What can she say to defend herself..Nothing!😆

Originally posted by: -Kezia-

Even I'd love to see Ragini defending herself..But,wait..What can she say to defend herself..Nothing!😆

Ragini and defend. Actually the same can be said for Sadhna. It's like the two sisters don't have the 'fight back' hormone! 😛

^^^Ooooo yeah,forgot about that!😆
Quite common in Rajan Shahi's serials!😆

Oooo btw,haven't we gone a bit too off topic?😆

Originally posted by: hereandhappy

Ragini is not selfish ,just because she wants Ranvir doesn't make her selfish or evil ,she didn't thought about harming anyone or causing any trouble .

aur jo log ye kehte hain ki use us goon ki family ke baare main sochna chahiye and uske kiye ki saza uski family ko kyun mile to I don't agree with this point .

jo galat kaam kar raha hai use khud apni family ki parwah nahi hai ki mere galat kaam ki wajah se mere parivaar ka kya haal hoga uske liye itna sochna kaha ki samajhdari hai aur jab uski family wale hi Rajvansh and DS se paise le kar chup ho gaye to phir is baat ko value kyun dena ki jo coma main hai uski family par kya beetegi

agreed that she is not behaving strongly and is being shown as week not handling herself properly while pregnant par ye sab ke baad bhi hum use malti ya avni se compare nahi kar sakte hain ,agar wo kuch sahi nahi kar rahi hai to kisi ka galat bhi nahi kar rahi hai

Ranvir nay ju kuch kia wooh sahi tha ??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? tu kia ranveer nay nahi soocha k us k aisa kernay say us ki family ka kia ho ga ????

@Kezia

I'm usually lurking in these forums, but I saw this, and I had to say something.

Ragini may not be a selfish person in general, but she is acting very selfishly right now. If this were the Bidaai of old, even if Ragini loves Ragvir a lot, I don't think she would have ever expected Sadhna to sacrifice her morals for happiness. Sure, Ranvir would have been home, and all might have been dandy with everyone else, but Sadhna wouldn't be able to stand that dishonesty on her soul for the rest of her life. Am I to believe that family would have been okay with one of their bahu's feeling that moral torture just so the rest of them could be happy? What kind of lesson is that teaching the viewing audience?

And really Ragini could be so much stronger. As it stands now, Sadhna is the stronger sister because despite the fallout she's experiencing now, she stuck to her guns, followed Ranvir's wishes, and told the truth ("This above all, to thine own self, be true"). Sadhna is suffering yes, but I think she would have suffered more if lied. I would think that there is something in one's soul that urges you to become strong in times of trouble like this. I was separated from my own husband for a year's time (he wasn't in jail though, it was an immigration issue), and while I was devastated, I didn't just crumple up into a corner and cry about how this all sucks. I rose up and found my strength, not only for myself, but for my husband as well. Ragini right now is only thinking of herself, saying

"ohmylordwhatamigoingtodothecreativesdeletedmystrengthfromthescript."

What about her husband? Wouldn't he want her to be strong during this difficult time, if anything, so he can take some of her strength during his time in jail? And what about the baby? The baby needed her to be healthy during that time, not to be wailing like a banshee. Three people needed her during that time - Ranvir, Sadhna, and her baby - and Ragini forgot all about them. That's a very selfish move.

I can only hope that somehow, for the sake of the fans, Ragini's character can recover from all this.

I know,Vandini..I just wish the DTs wouldn't have spoiled her character so much..Ragini wasn't OTT angelic not OTT strong..She was just perfect,a normal human like all of us!But,now she has become 🤢

And yeah..Back to the topic!🤣

Same here Kezia. I too wish Ragini's character hadn't been destroyed this much. They're like devils. 😈 Destroying all the characters slowly with their brains! 🤣

Honestly Hats off to all u guys for still watching the show. I dont care whether Ragini is at fault or Sadhana theyhave messed up the story. They were suppose to be staying in a lodge. Howcome twice those goons try to approach Sadhana and there was nobody not even the lodge staff. Sadhana was not called to the witness box for 3 hearings that was the biggest stupidity. She was the prime witness and she should have been the first person to be called. Even the police officer did'nt bother to ask her anything again the biggest stupidity. Nishita asked Sadhana to support the truth well infact she herself was unaware of it. She also on the other side just wanted to win the case and win from her husband. The Dhanraj was suppose to be one of the biggest lawyer in the City and was suppose to be smart did not ask any smart question. My first question would have been to the goons friend that what were they doing in the back area of the lodge if they were just there to ask somebody for the directions. They are so many loopholes in the story rite now that it is just they r just writing one scene after another not thinking about what they have written earlier or does it make sense. At the end no matter how much u scream or shout Mr. rajan jee will do what he wants. Whether it makes sense or not. You cannot relate to any of the character in teh serial anymore.

Originally posted by: -Kezia-

Nobody ever asked Ranvir not to save his Bhabhi from the Goon..But,saving is upto self-defense and not more than that..One needs to control his/her temper in every situation..He just cannot take the law into his hands and kill him!
That's where he's wrong..He himself says that he should have controlled his temper and this is a lesson to everybody who don't control their temper at required times...I am glad that Bidaai tried to teach this lesson to one and all!

And now,coming to Ragini..Well,why can't we compare her to Malthi?Malthi also faced a similar situation when Vineet went to jail..She went all out to get her hubby back even if it meant sitting on someone's head..Well,what did Ragini do other than fainting/crying/begging?
She should be shown as strong and I don't think anybody has called her selfish here..She's just plain weak and hope this weakness vanishes soon!

i know this is what i love about bidaai😳