Mamaji's condition...

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

I just watched the episode and felt like making a topic for this old man. A person who has always stood by righteousness,the way he was saying that he and his poverty got exposed in front of his daughter's sasural was heart breaking. Yesterday, the way he was almost sort of begging for a job at this age was heart breaking. He is a person who has always thought good about other persons.
There are so many old people like him who get neglected. I think apart from making topics about Salekh and Ranveer, we should also make more topics for characters like Mamaji, ..

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cherrypansy

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Posted: 15 years ago

Poor mamajee , yesterday faced the situation because of his Kaushaliyajee. My only regret is that being so sensible and wise , he fails to understand his wife. Kaushi just gave the money to Malti ... so that it doesn't go to Sadhana ( Kaushi did all this knoing of the Malti's past deeds).

Secondly knowing malti's nature ... they would have thought of keeping it for their secured future........

Last but not the least , atleast he should be able to see true colours of Malti... she is going to give birth to a 'child only' not going to something unusual... as per Kaushi's VIP treatment.

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teddysweety

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Posted: 15 years ago

i also feel bad for him. He cannot change his wife for the better.
I felt so sad for him when he was looking for a job. Also when he got rejected by the publisher. 😭

hope vinu can talk some sense into malti, get a huge raise (so mamaji doesn't have to work), and then change Kaushi! in this family, my hopes are that vinu will cause change!

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sumanforums

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Posted: 15 years ago

Well i think Mamaji is solely responsible for the problem in the Rajansh house.

Why did he have to go and give the money to Vasu....he did not take the money......Vinu had taken it....so vinu shoud have returned it........He should have given Vinu to return the money......So much drama would not have happened.

Unhe Vinu ke mamale mein taang adane ki kya zaroorat thi.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: sumanforums
Well i think Mamaji is solely responsible for the problem in the Rajansh house.

Why did he have to go and give the money to Vasu....he did not take the money......Vinu had taken it....so vinu shoud have returned it........He should have given Vinu to return the money......So much drama would not have happened.

Unhe Vinu ke mamale mein taang adane ki kya zaroorat thi.

He went to Rajvansh house , just that Ragini and Sadhna do not get any insulting treatment anytime from anyone. He is very khud-daar, his taking money and his son taking money means the same, more so as Vinu stays with the parents...His greatest mistake was to give the money to Kaushi, because anticipating an emergency like this, he should have kept the money with him and could have spent later in a situation like this.

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Bani

@Omshanti1111

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: teddysweety
i also feel bad for him. He cannot change his wife for the better.
I felt so sad for him when he was looking for a job. Also when he got rejected by the publisher. 😭

hope vinu can talk some sense into malti, get a huge raise (so mamaji doesn't have to work), and then change Kaushi! in this family, my hopes are that vinu will cause change!

Vinu earns 50k per month in a small city like Agra, his income even now should be able to support his old parents.

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teddysweety

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Posted: 15 years ago

i agree with Omshanti1111.

Vinu money= mamaji money. Living in a joint family, they don't differentiate between who's money it is. Mamaji worked hard to give his family a comfortable life and now it's Vinu's responsibility to take care of his parents.
And as head of the house, Mamaji went to his samdhan's house to return the money. It was completely valid. I don't think you can call it interference in this case.
Maybe he should've talked to Vinu but Vinu had already lied, so in this case, Mamaji did nothing wrong. I understand and respect that he's so khudar.

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zarmeeno

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

He went to Rajvansh house , just that Ragini and Sadhna do not get any insulting treatment anytime from anyone. He is very khud-daar, his taking money and his son taking money means the same, more so as Vinu stays with the parents...His greatest mistake was to give the money to Kaushi, because anticipating an emergency like this, he should have kept the money with him and could have spent later in a situation like this.

I totally agree with Bani here. He is just khudaar but the way he yelled at malti he should do the same to Kaushliya that way she treat Sadhana. when it comes to Sadhana and the treatment of Kaushi Mamaji is just quiet and try to reason with her with I will say ihn effective arguments.

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Sweet-Violet

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: piyualka
Poor mamajee , yesterday faced the situation because of his Kaushaliyajee. My only regret is that being so sensible and wise , he fails to understand his wife. Kaushi just gave the money to Malti ... so that it doesn't go to Sadhana ( Kaushi did all this knoing of the Malti's past deeds).

Secondly knowing malti's nature ... they would have thought of keeping it for their secured future........

Last but not the least , atleast he should be able to see true colours of Malti... she is going to give birth to a 'child only' not going to something unusual... as per Kaushi's VIP treatment.

I totally agree with you. What bugs me the most is that Mamaji is never able to control Kaushi's irrational and selfish behavior. What was the need to give all the money to Malti ? Even if they were going to use the money for Malti's delivery and all, then also Kaushi could have kept the money safe with her for future use.