What's wrong with Ragini? - Page 4

Originally posted by: farislove

This has nothing to do with reveange, this is a self respect, we all were saying why Ragini doesn't leave the house?, why she doesn't take a step?, now when she did it, we are blaming here, not fair, she should have a self respect, no matter how much inoccent is Ranvir, the way he behaives with her is an insult for her, any husband do like this for his wife, is an insult for her, she gave him so many chances, til when she should give him chances?, she is a human being.......

If he doesn't love her, I would understand, but he loves her madly, even she knows this and that is hurting her much more.........

Again, it's not their responsibiltiy to tell her, no of them ever cared to ask her when are you coming back?, it's just Sadhna called once and asked, but Sadhna is her sister, her husband didn't even ask her, it's like they don't want her bacl.........

Ragini didn't tell Nani, coz she is didn't even got to it from them, she got to know it from her mom, hello, is she pushed to them or r they forced to her that she get info from her mom about them?, every woman with self respect would be hurt.........

Infact Ragini should not come back unitl Ranvir himself goes and bring her, he should show respect for her, he insulted her in inside.........

@ bold: again coming back to the house or even a simple call to indrejit to inquire about his health does not mean that she has forgiven ranvir or given him another chance or somehow lost her self-respect...also I am tallking about ragini's character as a bahu, and how as a bahu she should at least inquire about her FIL's health scare . her problems with ranvir are not related to her responsibilites as a bahu

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

who told her to shout at vasu???she was just crying in the side & not even stopping her insult her father!😳 stopping & shouting r 2 different things...u dnt have to SHOUT to defend urself or ur family...it can be done in a nicer way too...

i m sure if ragini was sick or sumthing...the rajvansh house wud call to inquire bout her...but indarjeet's health is a serious thing...i still cant believe she didnt bother to call...she's so hurt inside tht if indarjeet was admitted in the hospital & she wudnt even call???its the same thing...the difference is tht indarjeet is at home & not in hospital...but both things r serious....

moreover...is teaching dance more important than inquiring bout her FIL's health?

Exactly! To stand up for yourself or your loved ones, you don't have to shout...she could have simply said "mummyji, I don't think you should talk to my father like that" or "You have no right to talk to him like that" in a polite, but firm way....it's always the tone that makes more of a difference than what you actually say

Originally posted by: -Saalekh-

who told her to shout at vasu???she was just crying in the side & not even stopping her insult her father!😳 stopping & shouting r 2 different things...u dnt have to SHOUT to defend urself or ur family...it can be done in a nicer way too...

i m sure if ragini was sick or sumthing...the rajvansh house wud call to inquire bout her...but indarjeet's health is a serious thing...i still cant believe she didnt bother to call...she's so hurt inside tht if indarjeet was admitted in the hospital & she wudnt even call???its the same thing...the difference is tht indarjeet is at home & not in hospital...but both things r serious....

moreover...is teaching dance more important than inquiring bout her FIL's health?

Originally posted by: jiankshom

@ bold: again coming back to the house or even a simple call to indrejit to inquire about his health does not mean that she has forgiven ranvir or given him another chance or somehow lost her self-respect...also I am tallking about ragini's character as a bahu, and how as a bahu she should at least inquire about her FIL's health scare . her problems with ranvir are not related to her responsibilites as a bahu

I can see that no one would want to come back to a house where it seems like no one wants to see her, but she can atleast call...calling will not cause her to lose her self-respect

forget bahu, at least on humanitarian grounds she should call and inquire....If anyone I knew almost had a heart attacke, I would definaltely have called up to see if they were ok!

exactly...tht goes for anyone! heart attack is not a small thing...its a big thing..its normal for a human to call up & inquire...i wudnt even have cared if ragini didnt call if indarjeet didnt have any attack...but i m saying it cuz heart attack is a serious thing..& so not gud tht a person wont call & inquiry...even if ur working wid co-workers who u dnt talk to much but they have sum health issue...u wud inquire bout tht...& in this case indarjeet is her own FIL...

Originally posted by: jiankshom

@ bold: again coming back to the house or even a simple call to indrejit to inquire about his health does not mean that she has forgiven ranvir or given him another chance or somehow lost her self-respect...also I am tallking about ragini's character as a bahu, and how as a bahu she should at least inquire about her FIL's health scare . her problems with ranvir are not related to her responsibilites as a bahu

I can see that no one would want to come back to a house where it seems like no one wants to see her, but she can atleast call...calling will not cause her to lose her self-respect

forget bahu, at least on humanitarian grounds she should call and inquire....If anyone I knew almost had a heart attacke, I would definaltely have called up to see if they were ok!

Originally posted by: farislove

Her interfer would be rude, coz two elders r talking, beside this Sadhna did told them to stop, the matter was about Aalekh, Ragini's interfering would be rude, it's not Ragini, Ragini we know would never do like this.........

Vasu did earlier shouted at Ragini's father too, not even Kaushi talked, why would Ragini talk?, beside this, being her talking doesn't mean she is defending her father, it would look very bad...........

U r not getting my point, they didn't told her, did they ever care to tell her?, she cares that is why she is showen not happy, she is not showen happy, we hardly saw Ragini smiling since age............

I think u r not getting my point, I am off to sleep now, bye..........

oh so defending ur father looks rude..but not calling ur FIL in his bad time isnt rude??
if its rude to defend ur own...then yes i wil ALWAYS be rude...cuz i dnt care bout anything or anybody when it cums to my family...
wat kind of humanity it is tht its rude when u defend ur father & its not rude when u dnt inquire bout sum1 who cud almost die cuz of a heart attack?
no zee di ur not trying to understand my point...read wat this other member wrote...u wud atleast understand her point....

lol zee di...luks like none of us r getting ur point...only u get ur own point?😆

Originally posted by: farislove

What I said is connecting to her role as a bahu, she can't be a good bahu, if she is not a good wife........

I know she should talk with them, but counting on this fault, count on how many things Ranvir did, why she should always be showen doing all this and Ranvir being selfish?............

u r not getting my point, leaving to sleep now, bye............

@ bold: I don't understand. Are you saying that she's not a good wife? There have been numerous topics on Ranvir's behavior, and its been discussed to death...And in no way anywhere have I said that ranvir is right and ragini is wrong...I'm just saying that she should at least inquire about her FIL's health...i don't understand why the creatives are not showing that

Guys Lets just blame the creatives.Personally I think all the episodes they showed had been shot while Parul was ill.
all of Ragini's scenes we saw must have been added hurriedly.
We just saw her in two episodes and that too for a minute.
I am sure she will inquire after Inderjeet

Originally posted by: ishtar

Guys Lets just blame the creatives.Personally I think all the episodes they showed had been shot while Parul was ill.
all of Ragini's scenes we saw must have been added hurriedly.
We just saw her in two episodes and that too for a minute.
I am sure she will inquire after Inderjeet

i m also blaming the creatives only!!! i have nothing to do wid ragini or anything...its the creatives tht r at fault...