No concept of Locking the doors & knocing the door

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pam virk

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Posted: 16 years ago

#11

hi all

i think that we now days are taking things out of context here

knocking doors i am sure there are many that do it so why make an issue of it

aleek is just being curious so he is going to copy and do whatever ranvir

mind you he does not copy naveen

thank god for that

big deal is being made of ragini serving in the thalis

we do that home as well sometimes glass and sometimes steet

mind you inderjit did not say anything because he is not into class etc.

this comment about aleek lying now where did that come from

i have not seen him lying so please explain groupie

yes he does keep secrets when asked to do so

alisha

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Lathika

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Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: zarmeeno
Bidaai lacks basic manners. They dont have any concept of locking the door or knocking at the door. In the earlier episodes Ragini entered Ranvir's room without knocking, the other day Gunni enters without knocking at the door. And when they are having a private moment in the bedroom y dont they close the door. That is normal in everyhousehold whether you are rich or poor. Every couple wants to have private moment somebody keeps itruding them. Even Ranvir use to enter Salekh's room without knocking, which atleast i never liked. Sadhana should teach Alekh that he needs to knock before he enters somebody's private room. And dont tell me that u cant teach Alekh as he learn and listen to other things very carefully.

And today I think it was Ragini's fault. It's been almost 3 to 4 days that she is making breakfast and she still does not know which plates needs to go the table. If they would have shown it the first time it was undersatndable but today I did not get it that y after so many days she served the steel plates.

yes i agree with you on the points that bidaai lacks basic manners.. they should implement the manners since it is been viewed by millions, it is good to show mannerisms.. it is not couple of incidents, but overall it is good to show some manners.. aalekh normally knocks the doors, in many previous scenes..including the HM scene.. today he just walked in calling dost ki gigi.. so it looked natural... he was not expecting Ranvir there..

Yes as far as ragini incident concerned i also thought so..as she is not new now to keep the steel plates there.. anyway it is a story..

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San

@sanw

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Posted: 16 years ago

#13

ya,

there is a lack of manners in the whole thing

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Pri

@pc84

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Posted: 16 years ago

#14

Hey yaaro,

I agree that locking doors are "basic manners" in every household.. and personally i do it too!! but not only in Bidaai. in any Indian soaps, whether it be main door or room door, they are ALWAYS OPEN! so i think we shouldn't be so hard on Bidaai ONLY!! it's following the basic NORM of Indian Soaps... and if that means exploiting basic manners then there we have it!

HOWEVER.. 2 reason why I think the doors are open.. (1) show the utter most comfort in their family members... that their lives are open doors (literally).. (2) as a director they can always have a person come in when a really intimite scene is about to take place in order NOT to show it!! or to make us audience want more!! it's just a tellywood tactic used SOO MANY times!!

THE THALI THING!!! really that big of an issue eh??? ok! personally i felt REALLY BAD for her!! she is in a new household.. what she is only 3-4 days old.. and really i think that she was getting WAY to comfortable in the household because her mind uncautionously went to her Maayka and she did what she would do in HER household!.. that's why we saw a flashback when Kaushi told her that GLASS PLATES are reserved for Guests onlY!!! Ya.. this isn'tthe first time she was making breakfaset but is the FIRST TIME she was setting the table!! and minor things like these she didnt' notice!!!

I THINK that it was the tone voice and reasoning that Avni used that was embrassing!! for a "HIGH CLASS" BAHU she should know better "manners" and know how to talk rather than embrass a family member like that... it was not the thali that bothered me much but the way it was handled.. the other family manners just sat there!! COME ON! she is NOW their daughter now right!! this is how they treat them? well then again.. where is DOLLY>??? Main importance are given to their son and not cared about their daughters!! so sad for Ragini!!!!!

luv pri

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Pri

@pc84

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Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: kadds02
Its funny, when I recall ...

1) The day when Ragini walks into Ranveer's room w/o knocking... Ranveer had the room door closed (atleast) while he was a bachelor... and today when he is married... he has the door wide open while he is romancing with his wife....😆😆😆So TRUE!!!! can u please tell me when did Ragini enter Ranvir's room(when they were Anmol and Anamika)! i mean which EPI!!?? i am dying to see it!!
Funny isnt it???

2) When the whole Rajvansh parivaar is known to follow certain so called rules dint any1 in all these years find the necessity to teach Alekh that he's suppose to knock before he enters any1's room... As a metter of fact even Vasu enters any1's room w/o notice...nso y blame poor Alekh..😆😆.. Even the youngest kid (Guli) dont knock here!!!

3) I believe it was completely Ragini's fault when she served the thali instead of the regular plates... She's been serving breakfast for some days now.. before and after the honeymoon.. dint she know???😕hm.. i think it was the first time she was setting the table.. and like i mentioned in my post.. it was the comfort she was feeling when she did it!! i felt bad how Avni insulted her in SOO many ways!! she indirectly called her a servant and illiterate!!! AHH.. so dont like that woman!

4) On the same lines as above... when no one from the Rajvansh parivaar eats in thali's and it is exclusively used by their servants... then what were so many thali's doing in their kitchen?? AND... Ragini placed the thali in front of Indrajeet first.. he dint utter a word... what did that mean????😆😆😆.. ya.. and they only have a total of 2 servants!! and one of them was sick!! and they had alteast 5- 6 thalis!!! Indrajeet was confused and didn't knwo what to say!! but knowing him he didn't mind it as much as Avni did!!!

5) Vasu, Choti Maa and Chachu... Dont they realise where is Alekh and his thots leading to??? Infact they encourage the fact that he buys a set worth INR 80K for Sadhna.... Nuthing rong in buying the set... Bt then Alekh's insistance is what I feel is not right... He is blindly following what Ranveer does for Ragini.... w/o realising what it is... Shudnt these guys be educating him on all this??? He knows ho to lie.. he knows how to keep a secret... he knows how to fool ppl... wud it be so difficult for him to realise all this??? ya.. but for Alekh.. he wants to do what Ranvir is doing for his "dost".. he thinks that Sandhana was not given the same attention and things that Ragini as ranvir's "dost" was given!! so he wants to make up for all the times that she didn't experience.. whether that be Honey Moon or a necklace.. to him he is showing his love to her!!! but u r right..maybe tell him why Ranvir brought the necklace for Ragini in the first place!!

-Kads

lovely post yaar.. really enjoyed reading this!

luv pri

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Lathika

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Posted: 16 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: pc84

That was an episode after the celebration of mamaji's birthday, where mamaji and Ragini comes to see aalekh with a gift.. please recollect.. if you don't let me know i will tell you the episode number and date..😊

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zarmeeno

@zarmeeno

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Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: lats55

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Posted: 16 years ago

#18

I do not see the big deal what difference does which plate you eat of make a difference :S:S you have to eat at the end of the day..yes they should shut the door as for not knocking sadhna did the first day and i doubt every person when they go into a room makes sure the doors shut...i know in my family people go into my room anytime unless i have shut it what difference does it make in a family where people trust each other..its different if people shut the door and someone still walks in.

As for aleekh hes not normal and atleast with his insistence sadhna gets what she misses out. Ragini has everything which sadhna missed out on its only thanks to aleekh shes getting something which hes learning of ranvir.

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Posted: 16 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: upii
lol i think dere are houses in india like in local roads, that lives their main door open, and ya its a part of the show sumtimes, like when alekh walked in today, they made it like that on purpose w/o having him to lock so he can come and watch dem... duh!!!! im sure they leave the knocking the door part out sumtimes on purpose, and those who keep sayin its unrealistic, its television, these are not true stories or anything, why is it so irritating yaar?<br>

Actually you know what my nani/nana live in india and massi their gates are always open simply because they know the people who live nearby for years...but this is in village so maybe its different elsewhere

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KinshukLuvsDina

@KinshukLuvsDina

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Posted: 16 years ago

#20

i knw guys sharma family ka maindoor khula rehta haii..its cux dey live in a smalll place of agraa..dey dun livee in posh area like rajvanshhh ppl..soo aisee gaghon mai mostly ppl leave dere maindoors open..

as dey ave market n road n ppl walkin ere n dere just rtee infront f dere house's maindoor..aksar tu andar baithe htee hain n i can c ppl outside goin ere n dere:P

but it's likee ppl in agraa wud b living like dis naa..

n rahaa sawal rajvansh house kaa..

ranvir used to knock da dooor sumtyms wen he used to go to sadhna n alekhG.'s rooom..waise b kuchh nai hotaa as sadhna n alekhG.a r kidss:P

ehehhe..awww luvv demmm..

yea..n alekhG. he dosent knw wat t do..n how to enter sum1z room as hes unaware of alll dese thingss..soo ranvir n ragini shud close dere door naa:P

maybb ranvirG. n ragini ki nayee nayee shadi hue hai naa n ranvirG. k abhee adat nai hue as before he was single;)

guyss v luv bidaai da way it is naa:D:Dso enjoyyy...

waise rajanji aainda se aap darwaze bundd kerwa dya karein:P

vasuu shutss her dooor n cries:P

malti shuts her dooor n ask vinnuG. 4 his salary n alll:P

waise i livee in lahore pakistan n my main gate n main dooor r always lockeddd rooms k bas raat ko bundd kerte hain:)