What if Ranvir had a physical deformity

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I love this serial the way it is written and directed, I can relate to Ragini's pain and also can share Sadhna's sadness. I would do the same as Sadhna of apologizing to everyone and would feel dejected and lifeless as Ragini after what went on at Taj mahotasav and thereafter.
Having said that, I just want to pose one question to all of us- what if Ranvir had a physical deformity, he had astigmatism in his eyes, had been fat with big tummy, had no hair on head or was just unacceptable to the general public?
Would Ragini have accepted him as such or she would have shown a similar shocking reaction as Ranvir showed the other day? What would have been her parent's reaction?
When they both were talking to each other blinded about their color/complexion/looks/physique, Ragini and Ranvir should both have questioned this in their mind that what if the other person does not like me, should have prepared themselves for any rejections from either side, as that's what the sane mind would do.
Again, I would emphasize the point that I saw the episodes where Ragini had this fear about her looks and was unable to meet her Anmol for that reason, I feel that she should have acted strong after Taj day as I feel in my mind that her actions would have been the same as Ranvir's if it was the other way round.
The lesson learnt for all is that we should bring our inner beauty into our looks and actions with a balanced personality and present ourselves beautifully and confidently. As far as the mean characters around us as of Malti and Sadhna's sis-inlaw, we need to overlook their actions, paying no attntion and let them pass their precious life moments in dirty and evil games.


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Posted: 16 years ago
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am sure ragini wd have accepted him even if he were ugliest man in the world.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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See thats it ragini has said again and again that she fell in love with anmol not his looks. She never thought of him as being hansome or rich or anything. Its easy to say u should be strong but then we r not robots. Our heart doesn't really listen to logic. If it did none of us would even ever raise our voices.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lotus8


Having said that, I just want to pose one question to all of us- what if Ranvir had a physical deformity, he had astigmatism in his eyes, had been fat with big tummy, had no hair on head or was just unacceptable to the general public?
Would Ragini have accepted him as such or she would have shown a similar shocking reaction as Ranvir showed the other day? What would have been her parent's reaction?
When they both were talking to each other blinded about their color/complexion/looks/physique, Ragini and Ranvir should both have questioned this in their mind that what if the other person does not like me, should have prepared themselves for any rejections from either side, as that's what the sane mind would do.
Again, I would emphasize the point that I saw the episodes where Ragini had this fear about her looks and was unable to meet her Anmol for that reason, I feel that she should have acted strong after Taj day as I feel in my mind that her actions would have been the same as Ranvir's if it was the other way round.



As much as I respect your opinions, I would like to say that Ragini would have accepted just about anybody as her Anmol and this I can say with my eyes closed ! She herself faced so much humiliation because of the appearance and being the person she is at heart, she would never reject or walk away in shock because of the looks of a person, in fact everybody here will vouch for that. Ragini was prepared for rejection yet she believed in Anmol's love so that is what prompted her to be hopeful; she could not do anything about it, because dear - it was LOVE! And when LOVE hurts, it hurts bad, Ragini is so broken because hers was TRUE LOVE. One more thing worth mentioning here is the fact that when Sadhna (who is the beautiful one and was supposed to have had the world at her feet) accepted Aalekh (leave aside the situations Sadhna was in or the conditions she laid ) who is mentally deformed and LOVES him in spite of all his abnormalities do you REALLY THINK Ragini would reject someone because of their physical appearance considering both the sisters think alike and have the same values? Hence I will confidently say Ragini would not have been shocked like Ranvir if her Anmol was fat,bald headed, short,thin,lame,dumb,deaf,blind, too old for her or whatever simply because she LOVED THE PERSON ANMOL and NOT THE IMAGE ANMOL. Also, I would like to add that it is unfair to compare the hypothetical situations which you presented before us with Ranvir's "situation" because his issue with her complexion can never be treated on par with any of the deformities you mentioned. Ragini is a physically and mentally healthy person who does not have any deformities and her only so called flaw is her dark complexion which is not a deformity at all. In fact, she is very beautiful in spite of her complexion, she is a BLACK BEAUTY!

I want to mention that I do not intend to offend you, I am only trying to present some points which I feel you might have missed.



Edited by kavya_luvseizy - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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As much as I respect your opinions, I would like to say that Ragini would have accepted just about anybody as her Anmol and this I can say with my eyes closed ! She herself faced so much humiliation because of the appearance and being the person she is at heart, she would never reject or walk away in shock because of the looks of a person, in fact everybody here will vouch for that. Ragini was prepared for rejection yet she believed in Anmol's love so that is what prompted her to be hopeful; she could not do anything about it, because dear - it was LOVE! And when LOVE hurts, it hurts bad, Ragini is so broken because hers was TRUE LOVE. One more thing worth mentioning here is the fact that when Sadhna (who is the beautiful one and was supposed to have had the world at her feet) accepted Aalekh (leave aside the situations Sadhna was in or the conditions she laid ) who is mentally deformed and LOVES him in spite of all his abnormalities do you REALLY THINK Ragini would reject someone because of their physical appearance considering both the sisters think alike and have the same values? Hence I will confidently say Ragini would not have been shocked like Ranvir if her Anmol was fat,bald headed, short,thin,lame,dumb,deaf,blind, too old for her or whatever simply because she LOVED THE PERSON ANMOL and NOT THE IMAGE ANMOL. Also, I would like to add that it is unfair to compare the hypothetical situations which you presented before us with Ranvir's "situation" because his issue with her complexion can never be treated on par with any of the deformities you mentioned. Ragini is a physically and mentally healthy person who does not have any deformities and her only so called flaw is her dark complexion which is not a deformity at all. In fact, she is very beautiful in spite of her complexion, she is a BLACK BEAUTY!

I want to mention that I do not intend to offend you, I am only trying to present some points which I feel you might have missed.





Let me put it like this - "DARK COMPLEXION IS NOT A DEFORMITY" else we would never say "TALL,DARK AND HANDSOME" .
Edited by kavya_luvseizy - 16 years ago

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