How can one not retaliate against Vasu??!!

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Wow! In this new era people are no longer meek...so why all indian episodes always portray the good characters as weak? Does that mean when one is good, one has to bear all kinds of injustice...it just doesn't make sense!!
Why listen so quietly to all accusations without even trying to fight back...actually one does not need to shout back or anything...Just command to attention in the most convincing manner possible with the emphasis of body language and confidence. The same confidence coupled with a strong aura of positive attitude can definitely go a long way to end all misgivings in even the most evil minds...and as how the other party would react to that,.....well.... we don't have to bother as long as you stay true to yourself and be strongly confident about it.
Just too bad though that indian episodes always fail to reflect such strong positive characters especially for women....
After watching today's episode, I felt like giving a tight slap to Vasu!...well I'm no saint....😆
P.S.. I know tho' Alok Nath's character will be pivotal in putting Vasu in her place.....can't wait to c what will happen in the future...

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: prat9

Wow! In this new era people are no longer meek...so why all indian episodes always portray the good characters as weak? Does that mean when one is good, one has to bear all kinds of injustice...it just doesn't make sense!!

Why listen so quietly to all accusations without even trying to fight back...actually one does not need to shout back or anything...Just command to attention in the most convincing manner possible with the emphasis of body language and confidence. The same confidence coupled with a strong aura of positive attitude can definitely go a long way to end all misgivings in even the most evil minds...and as how the other party would react to that,.....well.... we don't have to bother as long as you stay true to yourself and be strongly confident about it.
Just too bad though that indian episodes always fail to reflect such strong positive characters especially for women....
After watching today's episode, I felt like giving a tight slap to Vasu!...well I'm no saint....😆
P.S.. I know tho' Alok Nath's character will be pivotal in putting Vasu in her place.....can't wait to c what will happen in the future...



I know what you mean yaar! It would be so refreshing to see a positive strong character for a change as the 'good' bahu. But I think it is also a reality that most soaps reflect that a 'good' bahu is the one who doesn't speak her mind too much, is sacrificing etc. etc.....cuz these are the kind of women who are perceived to be able to hold a family together....so that's the mentality that most shows showcase ofcourse going overboard in the typical soap style....but the basic thought process very much rings true in society today to a large extent still.

In this case, I am not really surprised that Sadhna didn't speak up. She is basically a very sweet, simple and brought up to respect her elders kind of girl. And if we put all that aside and say that she should have atleast stood up for herself even if not yelled at Vasu....I think what's happened is that Sadhna is too shocked and hurt at the turn of events to fully gather her wits. I'm sure, in time, as the dust settles around whatever the Ranvir-Ragini meeting results are, Sadhna will emerge a stronger woman who won't let Vasu boss her around so easily. Eventually even the most downtrodden of TV bahus turn into stronger women who become detectives investigating their family mysteries😆😆....So I'm sure we'll see a stronger (detective) Sadhna soon enough😆😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Nureat@ I agree Yaar. Sadhna is raised to respect her elders, and probably has not been exposed to this kind of behaviour. Vasu will loose respect from Sadi if Vasu continues to be mean. It takes time for a person to change, so Sadi will change if she is subjected to this kind of behavior from Vasu.

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