Originally posted by: Wrackspurt
9luck thanks a lot for such a lovely comment...i have not read gone girl...but yes it has been on my reading list for a long time...will love to discuss about it after i read it😳...well i have seen women who bear physical, mental or emotional abuse from their husbands or bfs yet they prefer to stay in such relationships...and everytime when i hear such a thing, i think why dont they come out of it...no one deserves to be treated like trash...well i actually have known some people, when i had asked them why, the wives said they are totally dependent on their husbands, and so they have no place to go if they divorce their husbands...for the girl who had an abusive bf, she said, she cannot think about anyone else other than him, as she feels a pull towards him that cannot be explained..while that girl eventually had to put an end to it...as it had gone beyond tolerance..but according to me, she should have put a stop to it a long time back...the wife who said this, is still with her husband, coz of her daughter, and since she is not independent...Sanyukta is and can be an independent girl, she will never have to depend on RD for her fooding and clothing or even a house, off course if she chooses to remain independent and earn own living that is, so for sanyu, i think she never needed to tolerate the nonsense that RD did...RD cheated on her and she forgave him, may be if i were in her place. i could have never done that, for trust is a basis of a relationship...once broken its difficult to mend, and then also their remains crack..i would have loved if it was shown RD gained back Sanyu's trust and not Sanyu forgiving him so easily...