Originally posted by: 9luck
@wrackspurt nice post :) but I actually read one of your comments about sandhir like about sanyukta forgiving randhir and I agree its wrong on many levels but if you have read gone girl you know towards the end if I am not wrong he goes like how they have a toxic relationship . While amy and nick are well demented and sandhir are nowhere close to them but sometimes some things it makes it seem to me like we'll a toxic relationship . Where you are wasting away when you are together yet you can't let go. I absolutely understand this is fiction that's why I am saying them showing something like this and then promoting women empowernment is contradictory. But if I limit it too fiction I sometimes think what if its something like that . Also about the cheating thing I have no idea how but I was googling something and ended up at a blog of a woman whose husband was a sex addict and you know iys how we always think such woman are doormats well her blog was such a refreshing new perspective . She ralks of her childhood her marriage and it actually gets you thinking if its weakness or strength . Its so ironical where the woman can't leave because well she is weak but yet the mental strength to live with such a man and hope to sail through to again build a future I don't know I am actually kinda confused . If I am not wrong its was cheating housewives club or something . Raad it if you can its amazing . Now well the show they mess up these things . Cheating effects people so badly and there is so much work to be done before people can actually reach a point before they are okay again. In the show the characters are never consistent and the cvs never actually conclude things properly and sometimes I think if they were so modern in their thinking they would gotten randhir help and concluded it nicely. Also for sanyulta also they are kinda inconsistent because she bears with such a father but if it were family first she won't have opposed him to join engineering . They are themselves confused .
I am sorry this is a little of topic but I just thought I ll write it.
and you have guts to post a risqu topic like this :p
sanyukta fans take it lightly she is not a copyrighted character so just a relaxed discussion
@mahi you said it yourself sanyukta improvises on others thoughts and implements them.
she is smart or manipulative now that depends on your perspective. And of course she is intelligent but ot can't be denied taking the past epis into account when in banked on randhirs ideas yo get herself out of a fix which again you can call smart or manipulator.
9luck thanks a lot for such a lovely comment...i have not read gone girl...but yes it has been on my reading list for a long time...will love to discuss about it after i read it 😳...well i have seen women who bear physical, mental or emotional abuse from their husbands or bfs yet they prefer to stay in such relationships...and everytime when i hear such a thing, i think why dont they come out of it...no one deserves to be treated like trash...well i actually have known some people, when i had asked them why, the wives said they are totally dependent on their husbands, and so they have no place to go if they divorce their husbands...for the girl who had an abusive bf, she said, she cannot think about anyone else other than him, as she feels a pull towards him that cannot be explained..while that girl eventually had to put an end to it...as it had gone beyond tolerance..but according to me, she should have put a stop to it a long time back...the wife who said this, is still with her husband, coz of her daughter, and since she is not independent...Sanyukta is and can be an independent girl, she will never have to depend on RD for her fooding and clothing or even a house, off course if she chooses to remain independent and earn own living that is, so for sanyu, i think she never needed to tolerate the nonsense that RD did...RD cheated on her and she forgave him, may be if i were in her place. i could have never done that, for trust is a basis of a relationship...once broken its difficult to mend, and then also their remains crack..i would have loved if it was shown RD gained back Sanyu's trust and not Sanyu forgiving him so easily...