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Okay... So there's a lot being said about Randhir Singh Shekhawat..
People have been calling him a loser, arrogant jerk, psycho stalker and what not...
Also some people have said that even Parth had a troubled childhood... Perhaps even more troubled than Randhir who had all the comforts and facilities... And yet he's such an amazing guy, whereas RD is a villain..
Okay all of you, understand this..
Parth had someone in his life. Parth loved someone and that someone loved him back. Do you know what that means? It means that Parth was touched by a force called love. Today we all understand each other, we know how to behave with other humans on this planet, we know what is kindness, we know what is compassion, we know what is empathy... Why?
Because we have been loved and we love someone back. Love is the only thing which can bring out the best in a person.
But Randhir..
All his life he has been alone. He has always been devoid of this emotion called love. He didn't have a loving mother who taught him things and spent time with him... Not an understanding and compassionate father because his was always busy boozing, and trying to poison his son's mind and keeping him all to himself.
Randhir has always distanced himself from everyone... And love. He didnt have any space for any kind of emotion in his life other than arrogance and anger. But now?! He isn't the same anymore. He cannot ignore this feeling that he's experiencing right now... And for someone who hasn't ever felt love or anything even close to it, he is bound to react this way.
What he feels for Sanyukta scares him.. He doesn't want to lose her but cannot even afford to let her come too close. He wants to be around her because now its difficult for him to stay away, but when he realizes that, he hurts her in order to push her away.. He has no idea how to deal with this situation, how to deal with these emotions.. He's trying his best.. But he hasn't realized that when the heart wants something, it does. He's trying to convince himself in any way possible that what he's feeling or doing is not because of Sanyukta. He doesn't want to admit how effected he is because of her.
He,s not stalking her!! Have you ever seen him misbehave with her in a crude manner? Has he ever forced himself on her? He's not a pervert who is following her and sneaking around to ogle and leer at her!
He pulls her and pushes her because she does the same with him. Their relationship has always been like that. Their body language around each other has always been this way. If one is blaming RD for always finding ways to touch her.. Why not blame Sanyukta too...?
And he has been more involved with her life lately...because he has been feeling neglected by her. She is the only person whom he needs right now. And with the importance she's giving to Parth.. Of course he'll feel insecure! He uses the most of what he can. He helps her... And when he gets an opportunity to spend time with her, he does that.
Tell me.. Don't we want to be around people we love or like? Doesnt it bother us when they start spending all their time with someone else?
Instead of blaming or bashing him, we should nderstand his state of mind.. People don't do things just because. They do things because there's a reason behind it.
I'm sorry if I have offended anyone in any way. That wasn't my intention.
Merely stating the obvious..
Much love,
Somya
People have been calling him a loser, arrogant jerk, psycho stalker and what not...
Also some people have said that even Parth had a troubled childhood... Perhaps even more troubled than Randhir who had all the comforts and facilities... And yet he's such an amazing guy, whereas RD is a villain..
Okay all of you, understand this..
Parth had someone in his life. Parth loved someone and that someone loved him back. Do you know what that means? It means that Parth was touched by a force called love. Today we all understand each other, we know how to behave with other humans on this planet, we know what is kindness, we know what is compassion, we know what is empathy... Why?
Because we have been loved and we love someone back. Love is the only thing which can bring out the best in a person.
But Randhir..
All his life he has been alone. He has always been devoid of this emotion called love. He didn't have a loving mother who taught him things and spent time with him... Not an understanding and compassionate father because his was always busy boozing, and trying to poison his son's mind and keeping him all to himself.
Randhir has always distanced himself from everyone... And love. He didnt have any space for any kind of emotion in his life other than arrogance and anger. But now?! He isn't the same anymore. He cannot ignore this feeling that he's experiencing right now... And for someone who hasn't ever felt love or anything even close to it, he is bound to react this way.
What he feels for Sanyukta scares him.. He doesn't want to lose her but cannot even afford to let her come too close. He wants to be around her because now its difficult for him to stay away, but when he realizes that, he hurts her in order to push her away.. He has no idea how to deal with this situation, how to deal with these emotions.. He's trying his best.. But he hasn't realized that when the heart wants something, it does. He's trying to convince himself in any way possible that what he's feeling or doing is not because of Sanyukta. He doesn't want to admit how effected he is because of her.
He,s not stalking her!! Have you ever seen him misbehave with her in a crude manner? Has he ever forced himself on her? He's not a pervert who is following her and sneaking around to ogle and leer at her!
He pulls her and pushes her because she does the same with him. Their relationship has always been like that. Their body language around each other has always been this way. If one is blaming RD for always finding ways to touch her.. Why not blame Sanyukta too...?
And he has been more involved with her life lately...because he has been feeling neglected by her. She is the only person whom he needs right now. And with the importance she's giving to Parth.. Of course he'll feel insecure! He uses the most of what he can. He helps her... And when he gets an opportunity to spend time with her, he does that.
Tell me.. Don't we want to be around people we love or like? Doesnt it bother us when they start spending all their time with someone else?
Instead of blaming or bashing him, we should nderstand his state of mind.. People don't do things just because. They do things because there's a reason behind it.
I'm sorry if I have offended anyone in any way. That wasn't my intention.
Merely stating the obvious..
Much love,
Somya
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