Raja Chowdary such a loser - Page 2

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bugger

i agree completly ........i liked him in bigboss ...and i blive he is a gud entertainer but if u talk bout him on personal basis then i will say tht this man is not worth any woman!!
its very easy to say tht ppl make mistakes ........but one who live those mistakes wit tht person only knows wat they had been thru.
beating ur wife, cheating on her , questioning her charcter r sum very serious crime i wud say ....not a mistake .......
i get surprised wit sum gals ........who can actually supprt such type of person by saying it was his mistake juss cuz u liekd him on tv!!


II dont know about guys....but how can any gal can claim all these things are mistakes...you use excatly right words....these things are crimes....specially against your wife.....who is earning and you are enoying on her money....he will only be truthful....on SKS....because he was there to win...and now he dont have much to loose
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Posted: 16 years ago
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He is a loser, he is the worst person on this earth probably... I neither know Raja nor Sweta... but I knew only one stuff that he loved his daughter Palak a lot. The time Sweta got her custody, I saw a clip on television, where he pleaded his daughter to remember the love of her father and her grandparents always. If someone has seen that clip, one can feel the intensity of a father's love for his daughter. The same person, the other day was saying something different. The suffering he has undergone in life has changed his attitude towards life. Sometimes, even many talented people do not succeed in life. I know many people will say that since he is good looking, some of us are supporting him (personally didn't find him such good looking).
My question is does anyone of us know him or Sweta personally, only such persons who know both of them equally well can explain who might be at fault. Today Sweta is successful, thats why people are pointing at Raja being at fault.
Raja Choudhury might be bad, but he was honest. He could have easily turned down the proposal to come to Sach ka Samna.
I felt from the show that his intention was to make people hate him.
It'ld be good to have Sweta also on this show. Its always good to know both sides of the story. Who knows what led him to slap his wife (beating can be one slap also,although I dont support it), she might have instigated him to such an extent. Or he is really bad. One example can explain this, a girl instigated her husband so much and then burnt his research work of five years when that fellow was writing his thesis, the husband got mad and slapped her once. Husband was put behind bars, how do you explain this? Who is at fault, the husband or the instigator, his wife? I'ld say both, why did the husband raise hand and also one needs to consider, why he raised his hand.
Its not good to comment about Sweta or Raja without knowing their full story. May be their differences could have been resolved, but unfortunately could not be. They had loved each other and got married, have a daughter, it would be nice if they resolve all their problems and start a new life.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Firstly, bashing is against IF COC. Refrain from doing so.

Coming you to your topic, we don't know what happened between Raja or Shweta. Calling him a looser would be wrong. One should always see both the sides of coin. When Raja accepted the offer of coming in the show he very well knew what he is getting to. It's very easy to confesss things sitting in a close room in front of God or yourself but sitting there in front of the host aware of the fact that lakhs of people are watching you admitting your mistake eventhough you are aware of the fact that one question can break your relationship or end your career or put you across as the worst/good person in front of many people watching you is tough indeed.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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admitting stuff like he beat his wife and cheated on her on national television requires courage even if there was an incentive of lots of money. i appreciate him for that.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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The happy thing is that now he is realizing his mistake, that is appreciable. A chance should be given to him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Do you think that Sweta Tiwari is 100% right?
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Posted: 16 years ago
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there are always 2 sides of a coin...anyways whether he realizes his mistakes or not would be proved by his future actions.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Do you think that Sweta Tiwari is 100% right?



here the point is not who was right or wrong as obviously both parties were at fault ...........................but nothing could justify his beating his wife ,cheating on her,...............................had he not been husband of shweta tiwari would you still support this kind of behaviour of a husband towards his wife.............or simply just u dont like shweta so you are justifying his non acceptable behaviour..................i simply pity people who try to justify his behaviour by giving different lame excuses😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am neither supporting Raja nor his deeds whatever he done in past. I am only saying that now he is realizing his mistakes and trying to improve them...that is appreciable. Everyone commits mistakes in his life and learns from their mistakes. Time teach us a lots. Same thing happend with Raja. He made lots of mistake in his life but now he is realizing what he had done. That is appriciable and we have to appreciate Raja for this.

We all know about Anulimal Daku, Balmiki..etc, what they were in their initial phase of life and what they became after realizing their mistakes. To accept their mistakes that is the very important things. Everyone don't accept their mistake. The theif never says that he is theif, the murder never says that he did murder because to accept truth is not easy.


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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: 111192



here the point is not who was right or wrong as obviously both parties were at fault ...........................but nothing could justify his beating his wife ,cheating on her,...............................had he not been husband of shweta tiwari would you still support this kind of behaviour of a husband towards his wife.............or simply just u dont like shweta so you are justifying his non acceptable behaviour..................i simply pity people who try to justify his behaviour by giving different lame excuses😡


I don't think anyone said what Raja did was right. To Err is Human. Noone is perfect. Some individuals learn from their mistake while some repeat it.

I don't think anyone said what Raja did was right. One should always see both the side of coin. We don't know what happened between Raja or Shweta. There are lots of women who are beaten up by their husband, tortured by their in laws, there are cases of women burning alive due to dowry demand but the girls family try to cover up the issue thinking this can tamper their daughter future as she now has to live with her husband.

It's easy to accept fault behind close door but takes up lot of courage to say it on National Television when you know lakhs of people are watching you on their tv sets.

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